Interesting. What's the problem?
How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?
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I think the reason there are more "How To's" for men is because it is far easier to bring a Hubby/BF into the lifestyle than it is a Wife/GF.
Once you get a male thinking with his "little" head, you just have to plant the seeds, water occasionally, and watch the fantasies grow.
Play a 3some with him ffm. After this play a 4some with full swap and in the end just tell him you want different experience and propose him a bbc. You can try a 4some with an ir couple.
After this he will fell very guilty to not accept your desire.
After all of this you can search for a bull. He will accept the idea I guarantee you. After few weeks seeing you fucking with a bull he will love so much that view that he will find more for you.
Almost all the husband are the same. Its hard at the beginning but you must think in the future.
Trust me it port can change minds!
After this he will fell very guilty to not accept your desire.
After all of this you can search for a bull. He will accept the idea I guarantee you. After few weeks seeing you fucking with a bull he will love so much that view that he will find more for you.
Almost all the husband are the same. Its hard at the beginning but you must think in the future.
Trust me it port can change minds!
If you have to "convince " someone it's not worth it and if you have already caused mistrust because of cheating then it's definitely not worth it. Just go on your own so both can be happy, you really think he's gonna be happy after everything that's happened? Get single find a man more what you want, resentment on both sides is all you're going to have
I am in the apposite situation.
Make him an offer that he can't refuse it.
Have a 3some ffm. After that have an ir 4some.
After all of this he will be guilty telling you no to your desire.
Ir port can change minds so you must watch a lot with him
Good luck
Guilting someone into the lifestyle seriously, after she already cheated now make him feel guilty. WIW
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No. Nobody is guilty. She like BBC and he don't want to accept this. One question. Do you think if he can fuck a women without she knows do you think she will say no? Never she will fuck.
He knows that if she accepts to have relationship with other women he must accept as well.
He have in his mind a lot of question. What if another BBC fuck her better than me? What happend if she find more BBC than me ( for him will be like I am not hot like my bull wife )
If you love your wife you will let her do it in the end is just pleasure. A strong marriage will not break.
In the end we are all human and if we will have the possibility to cheating we will do. All the time in our head will be. How another will fuck me. Will be another sensation.
Life is to sort to not do what you like.
This is my opinion.
Obviously the marriage is not strong and where has it been said he's fucking around she cheated by her own admission, spin it how you want a person should go into this willingly not because they feel obligated
Yes. The marriage is not strong and she cheated on him but do you think she will stop? She knows how much pleasure can have from a BBC and will be impossible to say no. Will say no a wile but in couple you have different problems. So in that moments you do things that don't care about and she will go again. If you have done it once you will do it again.
So the best way to win is to give him all the freedom. Looking both at ir porn in the end he will like and he will come with the idea of havinga BBC.
All of this are psychological idea of convincing.
This is my idea
No it's not ideas it's brainwashing but I'm done with this you're proof that some people are just so mind fucked they can't see reality or morals, later
Sorry of disappointing you but I am not this type of guy. Each we have our idea good or bad. And it's not brainwashing. I didn't want to understand this.No it's not ideas it's brainwashing but I'm done with this you're proof that some people are just so mind fucked they can't see reality or morals, later
But let's finish with this subject.
Have a nice day.
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First, I admire your transparency. Apart from all this, how is your sex life as it is? Is he pretty vanilla or open-minded? I ask this because it will gage just how far you can push, but subtlety. He already knows your desires, so that hurdle is already crossed. Now you may need to resort to 'brainwashing'. I use the term loosely and also metaphorically. Find out if there is any compromise or quid pro quo. He may want something (fantasy), so leverage that. On the flip side, ask yourself if you haven't already, now much is your husband/marriage worth to you? You lost him once, and from your post, you don't want to lose him again. Feed into his fantasy if one exists. By the way, are you ok with or willing to see him with another woman if that be his fantasy? But try dropping bread crumbs see where it leads. Hopefully you get what you went, if not, then you find solace and be at peace with being with just him. Good luck.
Have you ever talked about anything like it?
You can try by having a 3 some FMF with him and and after that he sure will accept your desire. But this procedure is called brain washing. You will obtain someting giving someting.
Just talk to him. I can't relate due to hubby getting me into this lifestyle. Don't need it since my Hispanic hubby has a big cock. But a hall pass for BBC. Talk to him
And if he don't understand what you want?
