Yep.....just sit him down and explain your feelings and sexual needs to him. My Wife had this talk with me in 2008. We started Cuckolding in 2009. It has honestly SAVED our Marriage.
How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?
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Just look an ir porn and give him the opportunity to have a 3 some mmf few times. After that he will understand that he must replace the favor. From that point you will have it changed. You can try to explain him that you want to see him with a woman that you like this. If he will accept that's it. You will free to go to New BBC. It like a brain wask. So this is my opinion you not need to do it. When he don't understand what you want you need to be think what he want.
Key point is to communicate....So many couples don't or can't talk about sex. And Men need to understand that Women have sex needs too....and that they are just as important.
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Yep. But when the communication is not working and you want to do everything you change the plan. When a women is very addictive to a BBC and want to try a BBC but the husband,, gf not want you look for plan B. I think it is better to not cheating. Staying all the time with the idea of what will happen if you will be catching. So changing the plan could be a solution.
Over a bottle of wine (or equivalent), include him in your sexual ideas, planning and enjoyment. This might mean exploring cuckolding or d/s fetishes. It may mean, finding out what fetish and kinks he has interests in - this may surprise you. He may want to be a cuckold, denied, sph or to be in chastity ... heck, he may want to be a puppy. lol ... In my case, I found him to be a very oral cuckold at heart with bi tendencies, but most of all he wants me to be sexually happy and satisfied.
All fun and games from there. Enjoy and have fun.
All fun and games from there. Enjoy and have fun.
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She stated she loves hubby. Ways to start is fantasies or porn respect
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If you lose him you can have me and I’ll let you cuck me
You need to be honest and just talk to him . Let him know that you don’t want to cheat on him ever so instead you want to bring him in this sexual desire together . Make sure you point out that it is pure sexual and that your love is for him . Y’all can pick guys together and shoot amazing vids and have incredible sex sessions as a couple . Together is the only way you Fck black guys with your husbands approval from now on . This will turn him on and turn you on too . Lemme know how it goes .
It is true but when the man don't accept it's. A. Lot of work there. Nothing is impossible time resolve everything
First, you must convince him that he is your only love and no matter what happens, you will not leave him for the sake of any bull ...
For starters, diversify your sex with IR porn and black dildos ... you can buy him black condoms so that he can see the contrast of black and white
For starters, diversify your sex with IR porn and black dildos ... you can buy him black condoms so that he can see the contrast of black and white
CuckoldRossia
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Согласна, если она внушит мужу, что будет любить только его! Тем более, что он не будет возражать, если у нее будут Черные быки! И тогда она попросит еще!
Would love for my wife to accept and and to be part of the lifestyle
i'll make her accept it gladly
Get divorced. You are not "loving" your husband by cheating on him. He has already drawn the line in the sand and you continue to cross it. He gave you a reprieve and you continue to abuse it. If this is something you cant live without then dont drag him through your fantatsy if he is not participating. Its not for everyone. You even became pregnant in an adulterous affair. If you think he doesnt think about this sitiation every day then you are gravely mistaken. Either seek consouling or seek a termination of the marriage. Have you ever sat down and actually brought this up to him? Spoke with him honestly and openly about your dersires and what was his reaction? Or was his first encounter with your desire when you told him you were pregnant by another man? Who is taking your images if he is not ionvolved?
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Molly, I've been there with at least 4 of my lovers. Sounds like you are in a similar place. You've experienced great sex and you're not going back. I think you have 3 choices: 1) continue behind his back (however, this is not a permanent solution), 2) be honest and tell him how it is going to be if you stay together (which could result in divorce), or 3) simply divorce him. I can tell you that I am currently dating a women in option 1, 2 women in option 2, and 1 opted for the third option. None of them are regretting their decisions. As of those who chose option 2, one is currently still married and one is divorced. The bottom line is you are not going back to inferior sex
