Do you think you may have lost normalcy at some point? What if you guys don't stay together forever? Just real life situations to kind of think about?
Change in Husband over time
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I chatted privately with others on this subject and now I would like other opinions on my husband Steve that I'm sure there our several like him. First off when we were dating and first married he was so confident and strong and dominate in bed. After several years though that wasn't the case and we hardly had sex. That's the whole reason I ended up straying with a black co-worker. That's when I discovered the sex I had been having was in noway the same as with a black man it totally opened my eyes to what sex and desire was and is. My husband continued to change to the point I thought I could cuck him and I did. He couldn't get enough of me having sex with black men to the point now that's the only time he can get hard is by watching me with Anthony or by looking at pics of me with him. Not that we have sex anymore but when we do he can't get hard and that's why he wears a strap-on. I thought he would never be the type of guy that would eat me out after a BBC unloaded in me until one day he just dove right in after a guy pulled out of me. Now he begs all the time for it to the point of it making me upset. That's why now we don't let him watch anymore and now he's obsessed with wanting to use my toys on his self. From all indications I think he's turn sissy on me! I love the man dearly but I don't want that at all.
Tracey
So what is it you do want from the man you cheated on and who luckily for you, got interested in your new passion rather than bin you or worse??
I mean such activity has to have a range of effects on guys and i cant see whats so wrong with what you have said. Its to be expected that he struggles with erections. Hes been taken over by a bigger better man. So he is likely grabbing whatever new sexual identity and turn ons he can get and is thankfully still gaining some pleasures from eating youre cum filled pussy. What is it you want????
I have read several of Kyra's posts and she is obviously a very wise and articulate woman. Her hubby and the black men who fuck her are very lucky men.
I had lived a 'normal' life for the majority of my life- good girl at school, only two boyfriends before I got married, then 20 years of vanilla marriage. Yes the last few years have been different, I have experienced lots of different sexual things and look and act very different.
This is my 'new normal' where my friends and family see the new me, tattooed, flirty, dressing more naughty and seeing other men occasionally.
Me and hubby will never split up, we love each other and are both happy that we started in this lifestyle.
Which one do you use? I have yet to find one that hits my prostate right.
Wish we lived closer, want you to be my Wife's friend, Ann!
Thanx babe! Yes, nice to take your wife out and introduce her to a few people!! X
A few know of our interests, but none who indulge... except a few men
I have two, an aneros sgx and an aneros helix classic. The helix hits the spot best just right for me. I think you have to experiment with different ones to find what ones hit the Prostate the best. But once you find it, OMG!!!!!
Everyone changes, wives change for the worst as well. Use perspective people. ✌ peace love
An unfortunate circumstance for many older men today. Sex becomes few and far between for so many older men and women today. This lifestyle helps rejuvenate sex for mature couples today. More mature couples are choosing the " young black male " option to add spice and inject new passion into their sexually dormanent lives. .
Absolutely a psychological aspect to cuckholding but many husbands are willing participants so not sure about losing the husband as much as changing his role. Many older males are no longer the studs they once were as young men and the substitution of the young bbc again gives the wife the sexual feelings her husband can't give her. Hopefully this creates a more sexually satisfied wife. Mature husbands face many challenges that they are no longer able to do what they did as younger men. All night passionate sex is just one item on a long list.
This site and the thought of this lifestyle has helped rejuvenate my interest in sex even though I have an erection problem. It has also made me more open to communicating with my widowed live in girlfriend that has been sexually deprived for over 10 years. She is now open to having sex with another man but I need to convince her it needs to be with a black male.
Creampies and prostate orgasms are not unique to this lifestyle and not every husband is motivated this way. However, more cuck husbands in this lifestyle may be more open to these activities. Pegging and prostate orgasms do have their influence on a husbands behavior.
Cuckholding changes a man. He sees other men satisfy his wife perhaps better than he can. But his first prostate orgasm through pegging or anal sex. changes him more. All his life he was conditioned that Men are not supposed to enjoy this but this and subsequent orgasms raise questions
Wonderful that you have found a way to keep everyone happy and satisfied and you will continue with anthonyWell Anthony will be home tomorrow night and I'm picking him up from the airport and heading straight for his house cause we have a lot of catching up to do if you know what I mean. Steve and I have had a good 2 weeks together but I'm ready to be with Anthony again and my husband knows that. I've talked with Anthony about what's going on with him and I've asked him if it's OK for my husband to watch again. He says thats fine but he will have to wait till Saturday night cause I want you all to myself when I get home! As for Saturday night it's only if he keeps quite and to himself! I said that's fine but I think I'm going to let him eat me out afterwards
. Anthony tells me that if I do he doesn't want to be there when he does I said I'll wait till you leave the bedroom. Steve doesn't know this yet I'm going to surprise him after Anthony finish with me. I think he'll enjoy that
I suspect not a sissy but a convert to this lifestyle as are you . Some husbands are just "watchers" as their wives cuckhold them with other men . Some husbands are encouraged , perhaps ******, to participate and perhaps become more "engaged" in this lifestyle by the other men . Some wives further advance their husbands participation through prostate stimulation and pegging . Just as with the G spot in women , a husband who has been brought to orgasm through prostate stimulation will want more . "things" often progress from there toward more submission to other sexual adventures and pleasures ..I chatted privately with others on this subject and now I would like other opinions on my husband Steve that I'm sure there our several like him. First off when we were dating and first married he was so confident and strong and dominate in bed. After several years though that wasn't the case and we hardly had sex. That's the whole reason I ended up straying with a black co-worker. That's when I discovered the sex I had been having was in noway the same as with a black man it totally opened my eyes to what sex and desire was and is. My husband continued to change to the point I thought I could cuck him and I did. He couldn't get enough of me having sex with black men to the point now that's the only time he can get hard is by watching me with Anthony or by looking at pics of me with him. Not that we have sex anymore but when we do he can't get hard and that's why he wears a strap-on. I thought he would never be the type of guy that would eat me out after a BBC unloaded in me until one day he just dove right in after a guy pulled out of me. Now he begs all the time for it to the point of it making me upset. That's why now we don't let him watch anymore and now he's obsessed with wanting to use my toys on his self. From all indications I think he's turn sissy on me! I love the man dearly but I don't want that at all.
As they say ... take small steps up steep hills ... don't rush to black as she may not be ready for the racial change. Perhaps begin with more social interactions and introductions ...and let sex find its own way
She seems to be open and ready for sex with another man, just need to discuss the race issue.
Yes yes and yes to this explanation. Prostate massaging can change guys as once he receives this intense of a pleasure, they will change. Some become much more submissive and feminine. Some stay the same as before but crave that feeling all the time once they have their prostates massaged. There is NO feeling that is that intense
