To be honest that is what happening between me and my wife to these days. I just can't give her sexual pleasure the way she need. When she fuck her big dildo she almost go crazy from excitement. So almost every time whe have sex I tell her hwo much I love her and her sexual pleasure come on the first place for me. I have to admit I only get horny these days talking to her how much I want to see her get touched and fucked by another man. She get more excited about it to and since whe view togheter a interracial porn movie she seems to think about it to ! I get more submissive to her to every day and I guess that whet makes her want another man to.Thank you all for the replies and suggestions. Anyway Steve and I had a nice dinner last night and then a nice long conversation. As he explained it, he loves me very much and all he wants is for me to be sexually pleased no matter what it takes cause when I'm happy he's happy. I said but your starting to freak me out begging me to eat me out all the time and wanting to use my toys what's up with that? He say he thought I wanted him to do it cause I like it so much when I do it and for the toys I just wanted to see for myself what it feels like. I told him that I do enjoy him eating me out afterwords but not every time and not when you beg me! That's why I haven't had you watch Anthony and I together for awhile it was getting creepy. I will tell you when you can but you have to stop begging. So he promised he wouldn't beg anymore. For the toys I told him if you want to try them then we can do it together on each other and that I, we need to do a better job of intimacy with each other and these next 2 weeks with Anthony being gone will be a good time to start. He agreed and promised to try better. I gave him a nice long kiss and said well lets go up stairs then
I couldn't give up this lifestyle at all been doing it to long.
I agree with beenblackened I've been playing for too long to stop altogether. Besides, my whole life, my dress, tattoos, has changed over the last few years to fit this lifestyle, and my immediate friends and family know. It would seem rather strange just to stop altogether.
Sounds great Tracey, I'm glad things are still hot between you and your hubby! XThank you all for the replies and suggestions. Anyway Steve and I had a nice dinner last night and then a nice long conversation. As he explained it, he loves me very much and all he wants is for me to be sexually pleased no matter what it takes cause when I'm happy he's happy. I said but your starting to freak me out begging me to eat me out all the time and wanting to use my toys what's up with that? He say he thought I wanted him to do it cause I like it so much when I do it and for the toys I just wanted to see for myself what it feels like. I told him that I do enjoy him eating me out afterwords but not every time and not when you beg me! That's why I haven't had you watch Anthony and I together for awhile it was getting creepy. I will tell you when you can but you have to stop begging. So he promised he wouldn't beg anymore. For the toys I told him if you want to try them then we can do it together on each other and that I, we need to do a better job of intimacy with each other and these next 2 weeks with Anthony being gone will be a good time to start. He agreed and promised to try better. I gave him a nice long kiss and said well lets go up stairs then
Thanks sweetie. Couldn't think of being with out him were a team in this and were good together. But I will always have to have BBC and he know that.
Tracey. Steve is behaving like many white husbands in this lifestyle. He has substituted himself with Anthony for your sexual pleasure and stimulation. Over time this arrangement also provides his sexual pleasure as he prefers Anthony having sex with you. Eventually , he needs this stimulation to have an erection. Later , he enjoys having anal sex himself. Gradually, the prostrate stimulation will diminish his ability for erection and ejaculation. But he surrenders gladly and willingly as you now have wonderful sex with anthony or perhaps other black loversI chatted privately with others on this subject and now I would like other opinions on my husband Steve that I'm sure there our several like him. First off when we were dating and first married he was so confident and strong and dominate in bed. After several years though that wasn't the case and we hardly had sex. That's the whole reason I ended up straying with a black co-worker. That's when I discovered the sex I had been having was in noway the same as with a black man it totally opened my eyes to what sex and desire was and is. My husband continued to change to the point I thought I could cuck him and I did. He couldn't get enough of me having sex with black men to the point now that's the only time he can get hard is by watching me with Anthony or by looking at pics of me with him. Not that we have sex anymore but when we do he can't get hard and that's why he wears a strap-on. I thought he would never be the type of guy that would eat me out after a BBC unloaded in me until one day he just dove right in after a guy pulled out of me. Now he begs all the time for it to the point of it making me upset. That's why now we don't let him watch anymore and now he's obsessed with wanting to use my toys on his self. From all indications I think he's turn sissy on me! I love the man dearly but I don't want that at all.
Tracey
Welcome and enjoy. Yes primal sex and passion. Wonderful for you and her.
Most older men suffer sexual limitations and have willingly accepted younger men having sex with their wives. Perhaps as nature intended. Now in this lifestyle the wives are free to pursue and enjoy their natural sexuality
That is a great way to look at it, that you are a team in it. I play alone sometimes but mostly hubby is there to watch or help. We had an issue a few years ago where I almost left my hubby for one of my lovers, but quickly realized my mistake. We also tried quitting the lifestyle after that but he wanted me back with BBC after two weeks. Now our marriage is stronger than it has ever been and we both love our respective roles as hotwife and cuckold. True we don't have sex any more but our mental/romantic bond is rock solid.
Congratulations on your success in this lifestyle.
yep, i understand my wife better now...thank you sweet..Thank you all for the replies and suggestions. Anyway Steve and I had a nice dinner last night and then a nice long conversation. As he explained it, he loves me very much and all he wants is for me to be sexually pleased no matter what it takes cause when I'm happy he's happy. I said but your starting to freak me out begging me to eat me out all the time and wanting to use my toys what's up with that? He say he thought I wanted him to do it cause I like it so much when I do it and for the toys I just wanted to see for myself what it feels like. I told him that I do enjoy him eating me out afterwords but not every time and not when you beg me! That's why I haven't had you watch Anthony and I together for awhile it was getting creepy. I will tell you when you can but you have to stop begging. So he promised he wouldn't beg anymore. For the toys I told him if you want to try them then we can do it together on each other and that I, we need to do a better job of intimacy with each other and these next 2 weeks with Anthony being gone will be a good time to start. He agreed and promised to try better. I gave him a nice long kiss and said well lets go up stairs then
Very Good that we all better understand women today.
Agree with your thoughts. Especially husbands with E D or small equipment. Who only wish to provide the sexual pleasure and passion that all women want to enjoy. This lifestyle offers access to men who can give them the satisfaction and sexual release they desire. And without guilt
Interesting that he is as addicted to BBC as are you.
Interesting but not surprising that steve receives as much pleasure from. BBC as you do and appears that it is now his main sexual satisfaction. For men who have lost desire and then have recovered it , this is very powerful indeed. Easy to see how it might become overwhelming.Thank you all for the replies and suggestions. Anyway Steve and I had a nice dinner last night and then a nice long conversation. As he explained it, he loves me very much and all he wants is for me to be sexually pleased no matter what it takes cause when I'm happy he's happy. I said but your starting to freak me out begging me to eat me out all the time and wanting to use my toys what's up with that? He say he thought I wanted him to do it cause I like it so much when I do it and for the toys I just wanted to see for myself what it feels like. I told him that I do enjoy him eating me out afterwords but not every time and not when you beg me! That's why I haven't had you watch Anthony and I together for awhile it was getting creepy. I will tell you when you can but you have to stop begging. So he promised he wouldn't beg anymore. For the toys I told him if you want to try them then we can do it together on each other and that I, we need to do a better job of intimacy with each other and these next 2 weeks with Anthony being gone will be a good time to start. He agreed and promised to try better. I gave him a nice long kiss and said well lets go up stairs then
