I 100% agree with you on this. Prior to becoming a cuck my hub was totally dominant with me as I am true submissive. I never had one sexual encounter where I took the lead or initiated sex. Within a few months of becoming a cuck, my hub was submissive to my lovers, but could still be dominant to me if he was in the right mood. After he submitted to my lovers sexually with his mouth and ass, the change in his dominant personality in the bedroom was very noticeable. There was no way to reconcile between his submissive side and his dominant side, he became totally submissive shortly thereafter. It was an awkward period for a while, but my lover at the time had experience with cuckold couples and guided us through it. When we were alone, our relationship completely switched, and now I am the dominant one (with him only). It's not entirely a bad thing, it has opened up a whole different side of both of us, I now thoroughly enjoy dominating him, whether through chastity, orgasm denial, panty wearing, pegging, performing humiliating acts, etc. He is not a man in the bedroom anymore, but outside the bedroom our relationship is the same as it ever was. He knows he can never go back to a traditional relationship after this and has admitted if we ever break up he will look to be a cuckold again.