Change in Husband over time

Ive noticed that no one has made any mention of the psychological component to cuckoldry. Your husband has psychologically been emasculated. He only gets hard because he has been mentally trained to only get turned on by you having sex with your lover. In his mind he is incapable of providing any sexual fulfillment to you so why try? On one hand you got exactly what you were after... a cuck. But you may have lost your husband in the process.
Here: https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/erection-input.105218/#post-1486693 and replies. On the other hand, nothing is completely lost if the wife / partner accepts him as he currently is. Yet even she can get lost if she doesn't accept his cuck husband / partner and strives to make a husband out of the bull(s). My ex g/f had such a fixation.
 
So the last couple of nights I have been massaging my husbands prostate OMG he loves it and what an orgasm he gets from it. Thing I might get a prostate massager so I don't have to use my finger.
A prostate massager is much easier than your finger and they feel incredible. My wife bought me one. These are a must for any cuckold. The prostate orgasms are amazing. And trust me your hubby will become addicted to them and will crave them the more you play with his prostate. There is no orgasm that is stronger and nothing that will sissify a cuckold faster
 
I think people may be missing the point. Please read the original post before responding with that Sissy crap. As stated ,she does not want him to jump in and eat creampies ,nor use her toys on himself. She wants him to be just a simple cuck. She wants her husband to fuck her well, but let her play too.
All of these bullshit latent gays ,wanting to push thier fantasy on everyone else.......
My point is prostate massagers may be the wrong thing to do to him. If she is giving him prostate orgasms that may be the worst thing as nothing will sissify a guy quicker than that. That may not be the wisest thing to do if she doesn't want him sissified
 
A true lifestyle cuck/sissy does not have to get hard, does nto have to orgasm. His wife does. he needs to spoil, pamper, idolize and worship his wife in every way. The wife rules and the wife controls. The hubby/sissy works, spoils and supports. To me, that is the lifestyle, not the role play such as a part time swinger and then calling yourself a real cuck. Nothing wrong with role play or part time or fantasy engagement, but you guys are getting the lifestyle end of it confused and wrongly interfaced with lifestyle real cucks. IMO and IMO only.
 
I think people may be missing the point. Please read the original post before responding with that Sissy crap. As stated ,she does not want him to jump in and eat creampies ,nor use her toys on himself. She wants him to be just a simple cuck. She wants her husband to fuck her well, but let her play too.
All of these bullshit latent gays ,wanting to push thier fantasy on everyone else.......
Thank you sweetie! That's why I haven't replied to the sissy stuff.
 
Ok so here's my two cents. As a cuckold husband myself, my wife and I have gone through this and overcame it. First and foremost he loves you more than life itself? If he didn't, he would have NEVER allowed you in this lifestyle? There is nothing wrong with him wanting to taste your pleased pussy? The fact that that bothers you is actually more alarming/worrisome? I am a
 
I think people may be missing the point. Please read the original post before responding with that Sissy crap. As stated ,she does not want him to jump in and eat creampies ,nor use her toys on himself. She wants him to be just a simple cuck. She wants her husband to fuck her well, but let her play too.
All of these bullshit latent gays ,wanting to push thier fantasy on everyone else.......

Thank you Dr Phil
 
I think it unlikely that guys like this can be realistically expected to assert sexual dominance.

From reading some of these posts, their psychological emasculation seems complete and this is likely irreversible. I wonder why their wives/girlfriends bother to stay with them if they are unhappy with their sexual predilictions? You either enjoy having them around for the narcissistic supply they can be provide, or you give them the boot and find someone who will keep you satisfied instead. IMO, it is not realistic to expect a submissive cuck type to be able to alternate from extreme submissiveness to sexual dominance at will...
 
Ive noticed that no one has made any mention of the psychological component to cuckoldry. Your husband has psychologically been emasculated. He only gets hard because he has been mentally trained to only get turned on by you having sex with your lover. In his mind he is incapable of providing any sexual fulfillment to you so why try? On one hand you got exactly what you were after... a cuck. But you may have lost your husband in the process.
Not true to losing necessarily. But valid points otherwise?
 
I think it unlikely that guys like this can be realistically expected to assert sexual dominance.

From reading some of these posts, their psychological emasculation seems complete and this is likely irreversible. I wonder why their wives/girlfriends bother to stay with them if they are unhappy with their sexual predilictions? You either enjoy having them around for the narcissistic supply they can be provide, or you give them the boot and find someone who will keep you satisfied instead. IMO, it is not realistic to expect a submissive cuck type to be able to alternate from extreme submissiveness to sexual dominance at will...
I 100% agree with you on this. Prior to becoming a cuck my hub was totally dominant with me as I am true submissive. I never had one sexual encounter where I took the lead or initiated sex. Within a few months of becoming a cuck, my hub was submissive to my lovers, but could still be dominant to me if he was in the right mood. After he submitted to my lovers sexually with his mouth and ass, the change in his dominant personality in the bedroom was very noticeable. There was no way to reconcile between his submissive side and his dominant side, he became totally submissive shortly thereafter. It was an awkward period for a while, but my lover at the time had experience with cuckold couples and guided us through it. When we were alone, our relationship completely switched, and now I am the dominant one (with him only). It's not entirely a bad thing, it has opened up a whole different side of both of us, I now thoroughly enjoy dominating him, whether through chastity, orgasm denial, panty wearing, pegging, performing humiliating acts, etc. He is not a man in the bedroom anymore, but outside the bedroom our relationship is the same as it ever was. He knows he can never go back to a traditional relationship after this and has admitted if we ever break up he will look to be a cuckold again.
 
I 100% agree with you on this. Prior to becoming a cuck my hub was totally dominant with me as I am true submissive. I never had one sexual encounter where I took the lead or initiated sex. Within a few months of becoming a cuck, my hub was submissive to my lovers, but could still be dominant to me if he was in the right mood. After he submitted to my lovers sexually with his mouth and ass, the change in his dominant personality in the bedroom was very noticeable. There was no way to reconcile between his submissive side and his dominant side, he became totally submissive shortly thereafter. It was an awkward period for a while, but my lover at the time had experience with cuckold couples and guided us through it. When we were alone, our relationship completely switched, and now I am the dominant one (with him only). It's not entirely a bad thing, it has opened up a whole different side of both of us, I now thoroughly enjoy dominating him, whether through chastity, orgasm denial, panty wearing, pegging, performing humiliating acts, etc. He is not a man in the bedroom anymore, but outside the bedroom our relationship is the same as it ever was. He knows he can never go back to a traditional relationship after this and has admitted if we ever break up he will look to be a cuckold again.
What you say is 100 percent right on the money. Once a man becomes a submissive cuckold in the bedroom, he can never go back to being a dominant man in the bedroom. Once he is pegged, humiliated, or brought to multiple orgasms by playing with his prostate he subconsciously links that extreme pleasure with being a submissive. Once you go down that rabbit hole there is no coming back. Now that she has successfully turned him into a cuckold she can't undo it. He is what he is, if she doesn't like him becoming a "sissy" in her words she shouldn't be actively be cuckolding him and bringing him to orgasm by prostate massages. All of those acts subconsciously reinforces that very submissiveness she says she doesn't like. She either has to live and accept that he is now a cuckold and no longer a dominant in the bedroom or she has to divorce him and let him find a woman who will let him be who he has become
 
Well Anthony will be home tomorrow night and I'm picking him up from the airport and heading straight for his house cause we have a lot of catching up to do if you know what I mean :blackgreedy:. Steve and I have had a good 2 weeks together but I'm ready to be with Anthony again and my husband knows that. I've talked with Anthony about what's going on with him and I've asked him if it's OK for my husband to watch again. He says thats fine but he will have to wait till Saturday night cause I want you all to myself when I get home! As for Saturday night it's only if he keeps quite and to himself! I said that's fine but I think I'm going to let him eat me out afterwards :). Anthony tells me that if I do he doesn't want to be there when he does I said I'll wait till you leave the bedroom. Steve doesn't know this yet I'm going to surprise him after Anthony finish with me. I think he'll enjoy that:). But I'm not going to make it a habit. I'm so excited I can't wait till this weekend :blackgreedy:
 
Well Anthony will be home tomorrow night and I'm picking him up from the airport and heading straight for his house cause we have a lot of catching up to do if you know what I mean :blackgreedy:. Steve and I have had a good 2 weeks together but I'm ready to be with Anthony again and my husband knows that. I've talked with Anthony about what's going on with him and I've asked him if it's OK for my husband to watch again. He says thats fine but he will have to wait till Saturday night cause I want you all to myself when I get home! As for Saturday night it's only if he keeps quite and to himself! I said that's fine but I think I'm going to let him eat me out afterwards :). Anthony tells me that if I do he doesn't want to be there when he does I said I'll wait till you leave the bedroom. Steve doesn't know this yet I'm going to surprise him after Anthony finish with me. I think he'll enjoy that:). But I'm not going to make it a habit. I'm so excited I can't wait till this weekend :blackgreedy:
That will be awesome for your hubby. Allowing him your creampies once in while are good for him. It will give him a way to participate and pleasure you at the same time. Cuckolds like that since their cocks aren't up to par with the bbc but eating you will allow him to feel like he can still keep you happy. If you really want to reward him, keep massaging his prostate. That will be something you two can do together that will provide him way mind blowing orgasms. Trust me he will love you for it and be extra obiedent when he knows his "turn" is coming up. My wife gives me them once in a while and I can tell you there is nothing and I repeat nothing that feels better. Prostate orgasms feel incredible and it will allow you two to share something still intimate that you don't have with Anthony
 
Well Anthony will be home tomorrow night and I'm picking him up from the airport and heading straight for his house cause we have a lot of catching up to do if you know what I mean :blackgreedy:. Steve and I have had a good 2 weeks together but I'm ready to be with Anthony again and my husband knows that. I've talked with Anthony about what's going on with him and I've asked him if it's OK for my husband to watch again. He says thats fine but he will have to wait till Saturday night cause I want you all to myself when I get home! As for Saturday night it's only if he keeps quite and to himself! I said that's fine but I think I'm going to let him eat me out afterwards :). Anthony tells me that if I do he doesn't want to be there when he does I said I'll wait till you leave the bedroom. Steve doesn't know this yet I'm going to surprise him after Anthony finish with me. I think he'll enjoy that:). But I'm not going to make it a habit. I'm so excited I can't wait till this weekend :blackgreedy:
If you don't want him to become obsessed with eating Creampies, because IT'S HIGHLY addicting for cucks. Make him snort it. I promise you he'll think twice, plus it's a great way to stay more sensual with your bull. I tell my hubby he can watch or eat me out ONLY if he snorts our bulls load, and he'll only do this if he's REALLY horny? Lol hope this helps?
 
Ladies I hope you don't mind me adding my two cents. It is my opinion that this lifestyle is like a *******. I know with my ex-wife all I ever thought about or wanted to see was her with her black lover and sometimes that would happen to me where I wouldn't get hard unless it had to do with them. It didn't happen all the time but it did happen sometimes. Again I think this lifestyle not only changes the hubby but it changes also you and the way you look at your husband the way you see your husband as your sexual partner. I know you both love your husband but in my opinion your body and mine no longer see him as a sexual partner.

I now with my wife I remember a statement that resonates still in my mind. She said I can't imagine you touching me anymore and as sad and hurtful as that is it still turn me on that only shows you how much of an addiction this lifestyle can be.

Sex is a very powerful thing.
Wow that's very insightful! I hope other cucks don't fall too far into this? There MUST MUST MUST be mutual respect in all marriages, or they will always always fail. This is fun, but when you can't separate life with fantasy, then fantasy must end. Plain and simple
 
Ladies. You have to be kidding me. All of you are hot as hell, and yes I've perved most of your media pages. I can't blame your husbands for desiring to be involved and since he may not be able to compete with the size, length, and color of your lover, I'm sure he feels as I do and hopes to make you cum with his tongue.

I've haven't got to the point where my wife has accepted a BBC again (25 years ago when she was young) and may never get to that point, but if/when she does I want her to be sucking, kissing, cumming like she never has before. I hope she swallows it all, he cums deep and she gives me the chance to eat her sweet little pussy afterward.

As far as licking that sweet pussy afterward, I don't see that as anything other than a way for a husband to be involved and devoted to what just happened. I fully recognize there are differing levels of involvement depending on the couple/bull, but tell me you don't cum like crazy on his tongue. Seems like it's good for all involved. I have no issues giving it to my little (4'11") wife and want to see her cum as much as she can when I'm enjoying the love of my life, or from a BBC or even another woman. It's about sex at the most primal level and as her husband I want to make sure she enjoys it as much as possible.
YASSS!!! THIS
 
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Tracey. Steve is behaving like many white husbands in this lifestyle. He has substituted himself with Anthony for your sexual pleasure and stimulation. Over time this arrangement also provides his sexual pleasure as he prefers Anthony having sex with you. Eventually , he needs this stimulation to have an erection. Later , he enjoys having anal sex himself. Gradually, the prostrate stimulation will diminish his ability for erection and ejaculation. But he surrenders gladly and willingly as you now have wonderful sex with anthony or perhaps other black lovers
Why don't any of you use Viagra sheesh?
 
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