Over the years I've talked to countless cuckold couples and I've noticed that cucks seem to follow 3 steps in their evolution (fyi, I'm simplifying here so that my fingers don't cramp up from typing so much lol. I did an episode on it if you'd like to hear a more in depth explanation).....
Step 1 - Acknowledgement - this is when he acknowledges that this is something that turns him on
Step 2 - Acceptance - he accepts the fact that he wants cuckolding involved in his life in some way. I find that when in this phase he may vacillate back and forth. Sometimes he runs hot and sometimes he runs cold. He may struggle with certain areas and the wives are often frustrated due to his inconsistency.
Step 3 - Embracing - he's fully on board by this time. He's no longer "swimming against the current". When cucks are at this phase, the dynamic is a beautiful thing to behold and the wives are usually at their happiest.
Now, with all of this in mind what I've noticed is that the majority of cuck husbands exist in that second step. I have come across husbands that are in that 3rd phase but they are the minority. So I asked myself, "why is this the case?" What I learned is that for those first 2 steps, he's doing it on his own. He acknowledges it on his own, and he accepts it on his own. To reach that 3rd level, it must be a joint effort between he and his wife. They must be a team. I recently had a couple on my show who and the wife summed it up beautifully. She said that his job is to take care of her and her job is to take care of the relationship. In other words, he is able to fully focus his attention on her because he trusts that she will take care of his needs and the needs of their relationship. I know that this is not easy because the cuckold dynamic is one that actually encourages women to be selfish but that is somewhat of an illusion. Yes, your husbands want you to be selfish, but they are also saying "don't forget about me". So my question for the wives out there, have you accepted and embraced your responsibility in all of this? The position of being a cuckoldress is like having that prime corner office, however, there is responsibility that comes with that office. Have you accepted it or do you shy away from them?
I appreciate anyone who is willing to answer this question honestly.
Step 1 - Acknowledgement - this is when he acknowledges that this is something that turns him on
Step 2 - Acceptance - he accepts the fact that he wants cuckolding involved in his life in some way. I find that when in this phase he may vacillate back and forth. Sometimes he runs hot and sometimes he runs cold. He may struggle with certain areas and the wives are often frustrated due to his inconsistency.
Step 3 - Embracing - he's fully on board by this time. He's no longer "swimming against the current". When cucks are at this phase, the dynamic is a beautiful thing to behold and the wives are usually at their happiest.
Now, with all of this in mind what I've noticed is that the majority of cuck husbands exist in that second step. I have come across husbands that are in that 3rd phase but they are the minority. So I asked myself, "why is this the case?" What I learned is that for those first 2 steps, he's doing it on his own. He acknowledges it on his own, and he accepts it on his own. To reach that 3rd level, it must be a joint effort between he and his wife. They must be a team. I recently had a couple on my show who and the wife summed it up beautifully. She said that his job is to take care of her and her job is to take care of the relationship. In other words, he is able to fully focus his attention on her because he trusts that she will take care of his needs and the needs of their relationship. I know that this is not easy because the cuckold dynamic is one that actually encourages women to be selfish but that is somewhat of an illusion. Yes, your husbands want you to be selfish, but they are also saying "don't forget about me". So my question for the wives out there, have you accepted and embraced your responsibility in all of this? The position of being a cuckoldress is like having that prime corner office, however, there is responsibility that comes with that office. Have you accepted it or do you shy away from them?
I appreciate anyone who is willing to answer this question honestly.
