King has a point, but I think it opens up a larger picture. The wearing of a tattoo like a spade or QOS does start a mental "stepping out" or trial of acceptance. If a white woman that has never been with a black man is aroused by the idea of wearing one, she is likely turned on by the image she has in her mind and to wear it is a stepping forward of her experiencing it in real time. Because this typically arouses her, it has a positive reinforcement loop which she is likely to do it again, more frequently and want to go further and further. So having seen the progression this lifestyle can take (a couple times) it is beautiful thing to watch evolve. Rome wasn't built in a day, enjoy each day as it comes to be.