Something else I thought of that I like, and I'm sure other guys do as well ... I love to hear a woman tell a guy that she's horny and needs a fucking. Even when I'm not necessarily in the mood, if my wife rubs her pussy in front of me, licks her lips, and gives me that desired look of desperation that she needs a cock in her, my cock instantly gets hard, and I do mean INSTANTLY. I like the thoughts that a woman needs sex every bit as much as a guy. And with that said, if I'm not capable of giving her what she needs to satisfy her, IF I truly love her (and I do) I would never deny her the necessity of obtaining what she needs.