A question for my hot wives over 40. Now that you are older, what would you tell your 20-25 year old self about cuckolding or taking on a bull.

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Imakeithappennow

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Hello ladies. I am a bull and I have been helping cucks, wives, and some couples work through their thoughts and experiences about cuckolds. What I am finding is that many of them are mature in their 40's, yet I see somewhat of a trend younger couples are taking on a lover, many times a black man.

If you could go back and tell your 20 something self about what you now have experienced, what would you say, what would you maybe do differently?

Thanks in advance for your thoughts and carry on being as hot as fire.!!
 
My husband had spent many years trying to get me to go black and cuck him , I always refused, then when many years later we met a black guy at a party who over the course of the evening he slowly started to seduce me, later after the party we went to his house where he continued to seduce me, eventually after seeing his big cock , I wanted him to fuck me which he did as my husband watched and masturbated him self.
It was the most satisfying sexual experience I’ve ever had.
I now wish I had experienced cuckolding and better endowed black guy’s when I was much younger..
 
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Happy sussex said:
My husband had spent many years trying to get me to go black and cuck him , I always refused, then when many years later we met a black guy at a party who over the course of the evening he slowly started to seduce me, later after the party we went to his house where he continued to seduce me, eventually I wanted him to fuck me which he did as my husband watched and masturbated him self.
It was the most satisfying sexual experience I’ve ever had.
I now wish I had experienced cuckolding and better endowed black guy’s when I was much younger..
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Thank you for sharing your experience of how you became a hotwife and the resistance you put up leading to it. Sounds like you know you missed out on some opportunities for some good azz dick along the way. I am hoping you are making up for it and taking some good black dick when you can.

I love it.

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Here's an interesting article about sexual regrets. It seems like casual sex is the biggest regret a woman has. How much of that is based on society's norms? I wonder if that was not such a big factor, if that would be the case? What are your thoughts? How were you able to overcome socieity's b.s.?

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We used to be swingers before getting into cuckold and even back then I loved watching my wife with other men.
I got into IR porn on the Internet and soon found dog fart films, these were so hot and me and my wife started watching cuckold porn regularly and playing out fantasies together.
We have been active in the lifestyle almost 8 years now.
 
My "20 self" had no mainspring in such sexual pleasure like me meanwhile. I was studying, had some normal(!) lovers or friends, I knew what orgasm felt but the focal points were not "Dude, fuck the hell out of me while my friend is watching us!". I think my "20 self" will hear the words but not get message - she will be not open for it - there may come over 20 years with a lot of experiences from other life-levels, which built me how am I today. But I tell you: If my husband would not open his minde a few years ago ("I wanna watch") this door would be closed.

So I have an advice: Marry this man an listen to his words! :)

Everything and everyone has it´s time...
 
Auszeit2020 said:
My "20 self" had no mainspring in such sexual pleasure like me meanwhile. I was studying, had some normal(!) lovers or friends, I knew what orgasm felt but the focal points were not "Dude, fuck the hell out of me while my friend is watching us!". I think my "20 self" will hear the words but not get message - she will be not open for it - there may come over 20 years with a lot of experiences from other life-levels, which built me how am I today. But I tell you: If my husband would not open his minde a few years ago ("I wanna watch") this door would be closed.

So I have an advice: Marry this man an listen to his words! :)

Everything and everyone has it´s time...
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Ha Ha Ha. I surely hear you. Timing and experience, create knowledge, which allows one to see and understand more about themselves, their needs, etc. When I think about how I was in my 20's, I was very dominant acting towards women sexually, but I didn't really understand the bigger picture of this, and how I could have really used it even more to my benefit. Took me until my 30's to get it and it's been on since. lol

Thanks for sharing.
 
wannabe cuck said:
We used to be swingers before getting into cuckold and even back then I loved watching my wife with other men.
I got into IR porn on the Internet and soon found dog fart films, these were so hot and me and my wife started watching cuckold porn regularly and playing out fantasies together.
We have been active in the lifestyle almost 8 years now.
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Sounds like you were enjoying yourself and then found your niche so to speak and have been naughty ass happy campers ever since. I love this. Thanks for sharing.
 
I'd tell myself to relax and find pleasure. It is only sex and sex is fun and good for everyone. I spent so much time trying to please others I forgot how good it felt to know what I want a go after it. Lust is natural so if you have the right circumstance it is amazing fun and stress relief to get your rocks off.
 
StateCouple said:
I'd tell myself to relax and find pleasure. It is only sex and sex is fun and good for everyone. I spent so much time trying to please others I forgot how good it felt to know what I want a go after it. Lust is natural so if you have the right circumstance it is amazing fun and stress relief to get your rocks off.
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One of the things I do with women I tangle with is teach them how to breathe and relax, be free, and let go. Get into their mind about how to do this. (I have posted about mental orgasms). If this can be accomplished the level of pleasure is amazing.

Oh and the benefits of enjoying oneself are plenty. https://www.self.com/story/the-5-health-benefits-of-havin

Thanks for sharing. Mmmm
 
Imakeithappennow said:
One of the things I do with women I tangle with is teach them how to breathe and relax, be free, and let go. Get into their mind about how to do this. (I have posted about mental orgasms). If this can be accomplished the level of pleasure is amazing.

Oh and the benefits of enjoying oneself are plenty. https://www.self.com/story/the-5-health-benefits-of-havin

Thanks for sharing. Mmmm
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I think some of that ability to relax and receive pleasure comes with age. Easier to speak our mind and have the experience to know what we like. Self pleasure is very important. If you don't know how to get yourself off how are you going to be able to tell others to help make you cum?
 
StateCouple said:
I think some of that ability to relax and receive pleasure comes with age. Easier to speak our mind and have the experience to know what we like. Self pleasure is very important. If you don't know how to get yourself off how are you going to be able to tell others to help make you cum?
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Age often but not always brings about wisdom because I have seen some old fools. lol

But yes, knowing what you like and don't like can help open one's mind to the possibilities.

Also, if the teacher is older and wiser than the student may learn her lessons earlier in life.

And knowing what's good to you. Yes, that!!
 
I wonder how much of this has changed?

Are there more younger women getting themselves some black dick?

Has this also increased the number of cuckold relationships for younger couples?
 
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