Women who are BBC only but have a white BF/Hubby…

[Manwaife]

Sadly, in my experience as a cuckold and working for 30 years with my co-workers in a large city and my slut wife working in a large casino while being a popular slut wife, most men, over 95%, will not accept being a cuckold.

in the modern world, especially in its Western European part, women are very rarely divided into those who cheat and those who do not cheat on their hubby ...
these men are divided into those who do not notice anything, those who suspect, and those who are sure, and sometimes, more and more often, know for sure that his wife has a lover, and sometimes many lovers!

 

[bobbyhotone2]

in the modern world, especially in its Western European part, women are very rarely divided into those who cheat and those who do not cheat on their hubby ...
these men are divided into those who do not notice anything, those who suspect, and those who are sure, and sometimes, more and more often, know for sure that his wife has a lover, and sometimes many lovers!

My experience is that most men do not know that their wife is cheating on them until it has been going on for months or more. When the men find out that their wife is cheating on them, they divorce their wife, even if they loved them. Reality, not fantasy.
I have met some wives that talked to their husbands about starting a swinger lifestyle and then changed it to a cuckold lifestyle but that was at sex parties where the husband and wife had already decided to accept an alternative lifestyle.

 

[Manwaife]

My experience is that most men do not know that their wife is cheating on them until it has been going on for months or more. When the men find out that their wife is cheating on them, they divorce their wife, even if they loved them. Reality, not fantasy.
I have met some wives that talked to their husbands about starting a swinger lifestyle and then changed it to a cuckold lifestyle but that was at sex parties where the husband and wife had already decided to accept an alternative lifestyle.

Yes, I know that many do not stand it even if it was their fantasy, it leads them to shock, but very many after that in the next marriage they themselves try to push their new wives to cheat. and some after a week, maybe a month, they themselves come to their wives and ask to stop the divorce by agreeing to the life of a cuckold because this ******* turns out to be so strong that they cannot refuse it already! one of my friends, that's exactly how he came to this topic, which sucks deeper and deeper

 

[bobbyhotone2]

Yes, I know that many do not stand it even if it was their fantasy, it leads them to shock, but very many after that in the next marriage they themselves try to push their new wives to cheat. and some after a week, maybe a month, they themselves come to their wives and ask to stop the divorce by agreeing to the life of a cuckold because this ******* turns out to be so strong that they cannot refuse it already! one of my friends, that's exactly how he came to this topic, which sucks deeper and deeper

We most likely have different experiences. My wife and I have enjoyed our cuckold lifestyle for over 20 years but I don't think it is a lifestyle most people would enjoy. My main point is that cheating is almost always going to end in a disaster for the family. My wife cheated on me before she ****** me to be her cuckold husband. We were very lucky because I did survive learning to accept and enjoy being a cuckold.
I think alterative lifestyles, including our cuckold lifestyle, are great but they should be open and honest relationships.

 

[bongobongo]

So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.

there is a difference between sex and love.

 

[bobbyhotone2]

there is a difference between sex and love.

I agree 100%. Sad that most people don't know the difference.

 

[animal76tg]

I agree and disagree. I’ve found that the age range varies but the mindset doesn’t that first time they see a bbc in their wife and desire it as much as their wife . I know 10 men this moment who want to be a cuck but won’t admit it to their wives for fear of judgment or worse rejection. Despite living that lifestyle in chasity or the desire for a cage they just won’t speak up.

Is cuck for the everyone no! But most couples who dive into interracial play are husband based and driven. The wife opens up about her desire or fantasy and he runs wild with it. Random bbcs and unsafe situations but I only know two that ended in divorce . I’m curious to hear how those made such a huge leap from consensual bbc to cheating ? I know very very few wives who would risk it all for a random? Or even act on such a feeling especially with the social pressure. I’m curious to the context ?

 

[animal76tg]

Good question…. I’ve been a swinger in the lifestyle for over 10years as both a single female and as part of a Cpl in an interracial relationship. He mainly played with hotwives and cuck cpls and me with single black guys and I would join him on some of his adventures. (FYI I’ll make post about that dynamic with cpls and me being part of it. Awesome topic to say the least)

When we would look at peoples profiles on a swinger site, many cpls would write on their profile no single guys or BBC. It’s funny to see some of those SAME people who would write no BBC are NOW writing BBC ONLY. Several of those
people are now doing amateur porn and all of a sudden they are bbc only. I guess they are realizing that’s where the money is Interracial porn is gaining more and more steam for sure!!! And now cuckolding is becoming more mainstream. I remember in 2015 me telling one of my black play partners my twisted ideas of having a white weasel id fuck with a strap on and having him watch me. I had no clue back then it was called cuckolding and what pegging meant. Shortly after I was strapping up to fuck guys in heels and cages.

I make it an active practice to block those people and see how long before they approach me at a party or word of mouth asking why I blocked them. I’m 50/50 since 09.

 

[SlutWife4Bulls]

So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.

We both have a BBC fetish

 

[ernest barnes]

I think every situation is different ! I m the one who suggested to my wife to try BBC , once or twice. She was totally reluctant That was two years ago.
Now she s addicted, I guess, and is Black only since June 2022!! will it last forever ? I hope not !

 

[romanodoc]

So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.

I would marry a girl like you, knowing a life in two is not only sex

 

[animal76tg]

I think every situation is different ! I m the one who suggested to my wife to try BBC , once or twice. She was totally reluctant That was two years ago.
Now she s addicted, I guess, and is Black only since June 2022!! will it last forever ? I hope not !

I’m curious why do you want to end something that you started and does she know ?

 

[Lsylvia]

So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.

I’m a queen of spade and you can count on 1 hand how many times I’ve had sex with my husband in the last 7 yrs !!!!! I definitely consider myself black only

 

[animal76tg]

I’m a queen of spade and you can count on 1 hand how many times I’ve had sex with my husband in the last 7 yrs !!!!! I definitely consider myself black only

You’re one in a million. I’ve met few real qos

 

[straff]

My wife is in this category,she has a black lover,is black only and I am her white husband

 

[ernest barnes]

I’m curious why do you want to end something that you started and does she know ?

I dont want to end her love for Black Men.. I just hope I wont be out of the game for ever

 

[animal76tg]

I dont want to end her love for Black Men.. I just hope I wont be out of the game for ever

Have you discussed this need?

 

[Lsylvia]

You’re one in a million. I’ve met few real qos

It’s easy when you’re husband is small and understands that I need much more than he can deliver

 

[ernest barnes]

Have you discussed this need?

I witness it !!!

 

[QOShotwifeDFW]

You’re one in a million. I’ve met few real qos

There really are very few of us legit Queens.