Women who are BBC only but have a white BF/Hubby…

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DarkMystrexxx

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So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
 
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DarkMystrexxx said:
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
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Mmm I would love to be a cuck for such a lady!!
 
I trhink most women like myself got married young and really didnt understand who we were yet or what we were maybe better discription either way we found our desires and sexual wants changing as we aged but find that we are married to the wrong race of man but that in no way chnages why we married him in the first place. NOt sure I am saying this right in simple terms i love my husbadn for a thousand little things but dont find him sexually derirable anymore I do find black men sexually desirable and fuck them exclusively outside of my marriage. Do I still sleep with my husband yes i do but its never satisfing and i dont really make any effort with him sexually. I dont/wont dress up for him I certainly wont do anal with him and i rarley if ever give him head. when we have sex i lay there and just kinda take it. Even thats pretty rare nowadays most men get the hint sex isnt working for you sooner or later.
 
stephforbc said:
I trhink most women like myself got married young and really didnt understand who we were yet or what we were maybe better discription either way we found our desires and sexual wants changing as we aged but find that we are married to the wrong race of man but that in no way chnages why we married him in the first place. NOt sure I am saying this right in simple terms i love my husbadn for a thousand little things but dont find him sexually derirable anymore I do find black men sexually desirable and fuck them exclusively outside of my marriage. Do I still ******* with my husband yes i do but its never satisfing and i dont really make any effort with him sexually. I dont/wont dress up for him I certainly wont do anal with him and i rarley if ever give him head. when we have sex i lay there and just kinda take it. Even thats pretty rare nowadays most men get the hint sex isnt working for you sooner or later.
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Wow I really like your answer and honesty. Thanks for sharing. Makes perfect sense! I’m 43 and thankfully my family was accepting. Grandparents not so much. Hopefully with the younger generations things will improve. We can only hope 🙏
 
I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved! 🤩🖤 :qos:
 
QOShotwifeDFW said:
I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved! 🤩🖤 :qos:
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I agree with everything you said you took the words from my mouth lol
 
DarkMystrexxx said:
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
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It's often a Dom/Sub relationship with Women who have white Cuck Husbands.
 
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cuckoldmann said:
And as a white guy it's very hard to find women that are open minded about the lifestyle. I have wondered how many women out there is open to dating white but having sex with black???
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Good question…. I’ve been a swinger in the lifestyle for over 10years as both a single female and as part of a Cpl in an interracial relationship. He mainly played with hotwives and cuck cpls and me with single black guys and I would join him on some of his adventures. (FYI I’ll make post about that dynamic with cpls and me being part of it. Awesome topic to say the least)

When we would look at peoples profiles on a swinger site, many cpls would write on their profile no single guys or BBC. It’s funny to see some of those SAME people who would write no BBC are NOW writing BBC ONLY. Several of those
people are now doing amateur porn and all of a sudden they are bbc only. I guess they are realizing that’s where the money is 🤣 Interracial porn is gaining more and more steam for sure!!! And now cuckolding is becoming more mainstream. I remember in 2015 me telling one of my black play partners my twisted ideas of having a white weasel id fuck with a strap on and having him watch me. I had no clue back then it was called cuckolding and what pegging meant. Shortly after I was strapping up to fuck guys in heels and cages.
 
QOShotwifeDFW said:
I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved! 🤩🖤 :qos:
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Wow love what you said also. I love hearing other people’s views on different topics.It makes for interesting convos!!

I guess I’m a little different with my situation because I’m single so my dynamic with the black guys is a little different. Im good friends with a bunch of them and fuck them too!! There’s not too many single females who can navigate like me with the single black guys. Im always looking for them but rare. 😔
 
DarkMystrexxx said:
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
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More than a few years ago there was a truly beautiful white exotic dancer in a club I used to visit. It was know she was black only. Very few white guys wanted any thing to do with her. Why well a few reasons. She did not understand she was there selling the fantasy. Second it was know she had a few ex’s that hung out in the club so no one any of the drama.
 
DarkMystrexxx said:
Good question…. I’ve been a swinger in the lifestyle for over 10years as both a single female and as part of a Cpl in an interracial relationship. He mainly played with hotwives and cuck cpls and me with single black guys and I would join him on some of his adventures. (FYI I’ll make post about that dynamic with cpls and me being part of it. Awesome topic to say the least)

When we would look at peoples profiles on a swinger site, many cpls would write on their profile no single guys or BBC. It’s funny to see some of those SAME people who would write no BBC are NOW writing BBC ONLY. Several of those
people are now doing amateur porn and all of a sudden they are bbc only. I guess they are realizing that’s where the money is 🤣 Interracial porn is gaining more and more steam for sure!!! And now cuckolding is becoming more mainstream. I remember in 2015 me telling one of my black play partners my twisted ideas of having a white weasel id fuck with a strap on and having him watch me. I had no clue back then it was called cuckolding and what pegging meant. Shortly after I was strapping up to fuck guys in heels and cages.
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On swinger sites when I get sent messages of invites I go and I view their profile and yes lots of times I see that they say no single males or no BBC! I just figure that on one hand they want to ward off a lot of the losers and on the other hand hubby knows what up and he's heard all the stories. He knows if his wife ever gets some BBC that she will be hooked so he wants to keep her seeing none black Bulls in the swing lifestyle!
 
DarkMystrexxx said:
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
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I think its okey to love both my wife love black cocks and i accept that and support her on her things
 
DarkMystrexxx said:
Wow I really like your answer and honesty. Thanks for sharing. Makes perfect sense! I’m 43 and thankfully my family was accepting. Grandparents not so much. Hopefully with the younger generations things will improve. We can only hope 🙏
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we come from very conservative family on both sides. we cant for the life of it say anything it would ruin us and them. hopefully younger generations seem to show more openess towards open marriages and so on
 
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