for us it started beacuse i showed interest towards cucking. i told her all about it and we started to play with big dildos and what not and about year after she fianlly cucked me and long story short she cut me off completley. now ive written all about it how it happened in my previous respones to certain subjects so im not gonna go all over it here again. basically i gave my wife freedom to sexaully satisfy her needs anyway she wants and once i gave her that liberty she took it and doesnt let go. now as she started to cut me more and more to the point of not even given permission to see her naked unless she allows it lert alone touch her private parts i started to get depressed and sad and what not. so we sat down she explained to me that she still loves me. i am her best friedn her best soulmate the best partner she could ever ask in a life. she basically doesnt see me sexually fit anymore to satisfy her unless i perfom oral on her adn even that she mostly just does it now to keep me satisfied she gets orgasam out of it and thats a plus but i cant measure towards her lover. now her lover is 3 times the size i am and almost half as much in girth but the way she explained is that she will never love him as the way she loves me because its purely sexual satisfaction with him. he provides what i cant and thats sort of dynamic we haveSo I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.
I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors?Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
Women who are BBC only but have a white BF/Hubby…
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Mmm shame were so far apart!! Do you chastize your cucks?I’m always looking for some to borrow on my adventures!
I really love this response. I am a white man who loves to see my girl happy and be pleasured. But that doesn’t stop me from loving her or wanting to be loved by her. This is a difficult lifestyle to maintain because with her lover it’s just fun and sex and she may not see the true man. With her husband she sees him daily at his best and his worst dirty laundry and all. So it’s easy to become infatuated with the lover and the butterflies and novelty of it all. It takes a special woman to continue to love her husband and appreciate the gift of pleasure that he is giving through other men.I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved!
@DarkMystrexxx A Fascinating thread and you are exactly the type of women that white men hope to meet and date and even marry. A challenge, as you are uninterested, but you cant blame us for trying 
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As @QOShotwifeDFW points out, romance and sexual attraction are Not the same. But..... far too many women confuse the two and end up unhappy in marriage. The best fuck of your life does not guarantee the best husband or life partner. Infact the chances of that are minimal.
We cuckold males recognise this, so go all out with the charm, the love, care and support and aim to become the best life companion a sexy lady like you could ever imagine. And you may not believe it, but sometimes the mind of such a man is enough to get you wet. Even if you and he are both thinking of BBC. Dont rule out such a love potential. And you may never need a box of tissues by the bed again
xAs @QOShotwifeDFW points out, romance and sexual attraction are Not the same. But..... far too many women confuse the two and end up unhappy in marriage. The best fuck of your life does not guarantee the best husband or life partner. Infact the chances of that are minimal.
We cuckold males recognise this, so go all out with the charm, the love, care and support and aim to become the best life companion a sexy lady like you could ever imagine. And you may not believe it, but sometimes the mind of such a man is enough to get you wet. Even if you and he are both thinking of BBC. Dont rule out such a love potential. And you may never need a box of tissues by the bed again
I don't know if there is any rational to it. We all have weird desires. Also, I think societal constraints can play a role in that.So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.
I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors?
That's the real world description right here. Sometimes, ******* happens the way it happens in the real world. I would say though, I would love to make a woman like you my regular.
What you described, is how your desires break. And no, it's not about romantic vs sexual attraction. Your sound more like a social-construct situation. And that is a valid desire as well. Your sound more like you like the opulence and finance your social class brings, but enjoy getting fucked like a lady should be properly fucked. It's not that you can't fall for the person who fucks you, on a romantic level, but rather that they may not be able to meet other social needs/wants. That is practical. So you should be able to also understand people who may have no sexual interest in their husbands, but still like the relationship. All of us, our desires, sometimes bend weird. That's just how desires go.I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved!
Thats very sweet
Exactly… This is my current dilemma.
I’ve been in multiple normal relationships since my ex-wife and I split and haven’t approached the subject again - knowing it would be an immediate show stopper. I don’t miss my marriage for unrelated reasons but certainly feel like she was a “unicorn” of sorts.
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Sounds perfect, a good strong, serious relationship, a win-win for everyone.I think there’s a big difference between being sexually attracted to some men and romantically attracted to some men. Romantic attraction has very little to do with sexual attraction as far as I’m concerned. A nice body and big cock make me want to have sex with a guy but that doesn’t mean I’m compatible with that person on a personal level. Quite often I’m not compatible with my playmates on a personal/social level. Very few of my playmates end up becoming actual friends with my husband and I outside of sexual play sessions because of that. That doesn’t keep me from wanting them to fuck me or them from wanting to bury their seed in me as often as possible. That being said, I don’t understand the dynamic of being with a boyfriend or husband that does absolutely nothing for you sexually. I think there needs to be some level of sexual gratification between significant others in order for that relationship to be high functioning and rewarding for both. I’ve been blessed with marrying a man that is handsome, funny, intelligent, caring, athletic, and hung enough to make me orgasm on his cock. The fact that he enjoys my being a cum dump slut for black men is just icing on the cake! He’s the one that introduced me to swinging and encouraged me to try black men over a decade ago. He has been nothing but supportive of my decision to only have extramarital sex with black men ever since. It wouldn’t matter what race my husband was because I love the person. I just also happen to love having sex with lots of black men and get enjoyment from increasing my body count. So it’s good for everyone involved!
Borrow me anytimeI’m always looking for some to borrow on my adventures!
It’s definitely not a show stopper, sweetheart. I was trained from my boyfriend at the time to enjoy this and I started from absolutely nothing. Just start slow, introduce it a little at a time.
Times have moved on cosiderably. You should try dropping not so subtle hints into conversations after a couple of dates with a new potential girlfriend. There arr many ways to increase your chances. Drop me aessage any time
is hubby aware of your interest in black guys & how often you enjoy them?
If I was your husband I would be more than happy to alleviate your need to tolerate sex with me and be happy to jerk off while you have sex with your black bull. BBC only is nice for everyone involved and I bet at least half the cuckold couples out there have that arrangement. Tell your hubby he will probably be ok with it.
he knows i find them attractive and as often as i can
he would never be ok with me cheating regardless of who with
There are a million women having sex with black studs with their husbands approval but I understand there are just as many if not more doing it without their husbands knowing. It's understandable but really sad. I am very turned on by the thought of cheating wives especially behind their husbands back but it sucks that it has to be that way. Both people are missing out on what can be an awesome way to feel alive and lead an exciting sex life while also bonding deeper. Its too bad.
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A wise human should experience different thingsGood question…. I’ve been a swinger in the lifestyle for over 10years as both a single female and as part of a Cpl in an interracial relationship. He mainly played with hotwives and cuck cpls and me with single black guys and I would join him on some of his adventures. (FYI I’ll make post about that dynamic with cpls and me being part of it. Awesome topic to say the least)
When we would look at peoples profiles on a swinger site, many cpls would write on their profile no single guys or BBC. It’s funny to see some of those SAME people who would write no BBC are NOW writing BBC ONLY. Several of those
people are now doing amateur porn and all of a sudden they are bbc only. I guess they are realizing that’s where the money isInterracial porn is gaining more and more steam for sure!!! And now cuckolding is becoming more mainstream. I remember in 2015 me telling one of my black play partners my twisted ideas of having a white weasel id fuck with a strap on and having him watch me. I had no clue back then it was called cuckolding and what pegging meant. Shortly after I was strapping up to fuck guys in heels and cages.
it is what it is
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