Women who are BBC only but have a white BF/Hubby…

Well, I’ll add my LIMITED understanding of what is currently working for my husband and I. We have been married 6 years (second one for both of us) and I’ve become a true QoS for just 2.5 years. No, my husband has not “fucked” me for almost 3 years since we started the hotwife path/lifestyle. We DO have sex, which is primarily him performing oral sex on me - which he is TRULY gifted at!!!
But, I believe it’s already been said on this subject that my attraction to my husband goes well beyond sexual. We are soulmates, best friends and true lovers for each other. Sex- is something that I’d a part of our relationship in a far different realm than most couples and it has varying degrees of connections within our relationship. Hubs has had ED for almost 4 years so the hotwife path was one he actively encouraged for me to still enjoy penetration sex with the new realm of Domination/Submission- which I truly LOVE. The men that “use” me take me to places sexually that my loving husband could NEVER do to me even though he knows I get off on it so much. So, the way that many black kings treat white “sluts” because of the way that our white privelage society has treated them, just fulfills a need/desire I never truly knew I had.
The parts I’m struggling with are dealing with the humiliation hubs was exposed to the one time he watched me used by two black kings. Even though he said he loved it, it bothered me afterward with guilt from what both they, and I, put him through and said. The other part is that one of the bulls I’m used by semi regularly keeps telling me that hubs would be better off gay for sex and that I should encourage/require him to please men alongside me. It does turn me on so much but I don’t want to hurt him emotionally or risk losing him.
For now, he supports our path and even loves to clean me when I return to him. I wish that I had more time left to enjoy this ride, but will embrace it completely as long as I can.
Laurie
Thanks for the real reply and emotions. It helps the bull better understanding the relationship and desires of you as well as your cuck.
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
Let me respond for our Hotwife/cuckold marriage. Before our wedding 10 years ago, my Fiancé experienced her first ever black lover with my full support. She was instantly addicted to BBC and quickly became “black owned.”. Soon thereafter, her new bull started sharing my Fiancé with several of his black friends. She loved it and agreed to become “black exclusive”.

She informed me of her decision to become black exclusive on an indefinite basis. Her bull didn’t want my white sperm or any white man’s sperm entering her body during her final few years of fading fertility. Since I had undergone a vasectomy before we met, I couldn’t impregnate her. She desperately wanted a baby so she convinced me to let her become black bred.

She offered me the opportunity to walk away from our upcoming marriage, but I declined. I loved her and wanted her to be happy and as sexually satisfied as possible. I knew that I couldn’t satisfy her like her black friends could.

We still loved each other on an emotional basis even though she stopped having sex with me. One of her black lovers managed to breed her 3 months before our wedding. She was radiant at our wedding with her very noticeable baby bump. She proudly carried her black baby for a few more months before tragically miscarrying in the 6th month. She was devastated and I was as supportive as I could be. Her black lovers tried to breed her again, with no success. After 3 years of black exclusivity, we left the city and bought a house in northern Maine. Since there are no black men in the area, my wife has recently started having sexual intimacy with me again. If a black man ever moved into our area, she would offer herself to him with my blessing.

Bottom line: a loving, supportive cuckold husband can still share emotional love with his wife even when 100% of her sexual desires are being met with other men who are much better hung and have infinitely more stamina.
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
Amazing post.

For me it was timing like for most “hotwives” on here. I did not have the exposer to blk man until after hubby joined the military and we moved away. We’ve been married for a over 7 years when i was with the first blk guy. Not saying things would of ended up different, I am very happy in our marriage but who knows.

As being with black man only. Yes, for the last 6 years other then hubby it’s only been blackman.
 
Amazing post.

For me it was timing like for most “hotwives” on here. I did not have the exposer to blk man until after hubby joined the military and we moved away. We’ve been married for a over 7 years when i was with the first blk guy. Not saying things would of ended up different, I am very happy in our marriage but who knows.

As being with black man only. Yes, for the last 6 years other then hubby it’s only been blackman.
I’d love to see a big black man handle the pair of bombs you got going on Wowza!
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
That is exactly what I truly desire, her pleasure is the turn on and let’s face it it’s just better much much better, happy to be a beta cleanup cuck for her to be satisfied.
 
So I’m asking this question because I am a single bisexual female who has dated black men only since I was 20. People ask me all the time, “well what if you dated a white guy who was completely ok with you dating all the black guys you wanted, would you do it?” My answer would be no. If I’m sexually attracted to only black men I’m not going to want to have sex with the white guy or to be honest wake up to looking at them.

I hear all the time from Hotwives & Queen of Spades that say, “they will only fuck black guys.” I know a lot of this is fantasy play for them… But for the ones who love black dick so much and say you only F*ck black guys then why why are you dating or married to a white guy and your CLEARLY fuck a white guy behind closed doors? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just curious… I love learning about others and this has always been on my mind.
I trhink most women like myself got married young and really didnt understand who we were yet or what we were maybe better discription either way we found our desires and sexual wants changing as we aged but find that we are married to the wrong race of man but that in no way chnages why we married him in the first place. NOt sure I am saying this right in simple terms i love my husbadn for a thousand little things but dont find him sexually derirable anymore I do find black men sexually desirable and fuck them exclusively outside of my marriage. Do I still ******* with my husband yes i do but its never satisfing and i dont really make any effort with him sexually. I dont/wont dress up for him I certainly wont do anal with him and i rarley if ever give him head. when we have sex i lay there and just kinda take it. Even thats pretty rare nowadays most men get the hint sex isnt working for you sooner or later.
The cuckold lifestyle solves these situations brilliantly. A wise white husband fully understands the problem and accepts his role as cuckold, saving her marriage, allowing his wife to have a satisfying sex life and allowing some satisfactions to men who deserve it
 
The cuckold lifestyle solves these situations brilliantly. A wise white husband fully understands the problem and accepts his role as cuckold, saving her marriage, allowing his wife to have a satisfying sex life and allowing some satisfactions to men who deserve it
Agreed.
not all men will accept being a cuck
They should learn to. As paolacpl indicated, it solves the issue, and there's absoultely nothing wrong with being a cuckold.
 
Let me respond for our Hotwife/cuckold marriage. Before our wedding 10 years ago, my Fiancé experienced her first ever black lover with my full support. She was instantly addicted to BBC and quickly became “black owned.”. Soon thereafter, her new bull started sharing my Fiancé with several of his black friends. She loved it and agreed to become “black exclusive”.

She informed me of her decision to become black exclusive on an indefinite basis. Her bull didn’t want my white sperm or any white man’s sperm entering her body during her final few years of fading fertility. Since I had undergone a vasectomy before we met, I couldn’t impregnate her. She desperately wanted a baby so she convinced me to let her become black bred.

She offered me the opportunity to walk away from our upcoming marriage, but I declined. I loved her and wanted her to be happy and as sexually satisfied as possible. I knew that I couldn’t satisfy her like her black friends could.

We still loved each other on an emotional basis even though she stopped having sex with me. One of her black lovers managed to breed her 3 months before our wedding. She was radiant at our wedding with her very noticeable baby bump. She proudly carried her black baby for a few more months before tragically miscarrying in the 6th month. She was devastated and I was as supportive as I could be. Her black lovers tried to breed her again, with no success. After 3 years of black exclusivity, we left the city and bought a house in northern Maine. Since there are no black men in the area, my wife has recently started having sexual intimacy with me again. If a black man ever moved into our area, she would offer herself to him with my blessing.

Bottom line: a loving, supportive cuckold husband can still share emotional love with his wife even when 100% of her sexual desires are being met with other men who are much better hung and have infinitely more stamina.
It's done because they need to put on a front for their white family. Sad
 
not all men will accept being a cuck
Sad but True. As a matter of fact, based on my experience, most men will not accept being A Cuckold but rather divorce their wife that they Love but can not accept her being fucked by other men. Many of my co-workers knew that I was a cuckold and married to a slut. So when they discovered that their wives were being fucked by other men, that came to me for advice. I advised them the best I could but never could change their minds to divorce their wife. They were too proud and justifiably felt betrayed. I felt sorry for them and their families being destroyed when they divorced their wife; which all of them did.
Another thing to consider is that in every case of the men I knew that divorced their wife, everyone of their wives begged their ex husband to take them back within one year but everyone of their husbands told them no, it was too late.
This is a sad but honest fact of life for wives that want to cheat on their husbands to know.
 
The cuckold lifestyle solves these situations brilliantly. A wise white husband fully understands the problem and accepts his role as cuckold, saving her marriage, allowing his wife to have a satisfying sex life and allowing some satisfactions to men who deserve it
Sadly, in my experience as a cuckold and working for 30 years with my co-workers in a large city and my slut wife working in a large casino while being a popular slut wife, most men, over 95%, will not accept being a cuckold.
 
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