Women: Did your husband/BF get you "hooked" on sex with black men?
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i'm curious how a 2 yr relationship plays out. is it strictly for, just, sex? at home, his place or hotel?
dating in public? overnights? are friends or family aware? anything else you'd like to add that i didn't ask?
you indicate you see him every day. what are the logistics of that? i can't even imagine how that would work,as in how & where?
do you have a job & do you have *******?
We were confirmed swingers in our 30,s but it wasn’t, until my Wife and I were at a swingers party at a large house in Radlett Herts, that my Wife first experienced large well hung black guys.
She ended up being DP,d by 2 very well hung black guys, which She enjoyed very much, especially as the act was carried out in front of a large No. of other couples and singles, I would say 40/50 people, I would add this never bothered Her one bit, and as She said afterwards, that it really added to Her excitement, and at age 48 years old, and a very fit lady,She definitely turned some of the audience on, On our way home, I asked how She felt and what having the 2 black guys fuck Her felt like, She replied “ I absolutely loved it “ and that She thought it was a wonderful experience heightened by She was fucked in front of a load of couples and singles to see everything going on.
However, I cannot remember if She said this on the way home or when we were fucking, which normally happened after She came home from one of Her adventures, She said that She did not want to go to anymore white on white swingers events, and that from now on wanted black cock only.
So after some Black only gang bang parties We somehow got invited too,Which we both enjoyed immensely.
We one day went to buy a new car,the salesman was a young coloured guy, who sold us the car, who clearly was attracted to my 48/49 year old wife, He left the room to print some paperwork, the first thing my Wife said was “ Wow! He looks like He has a big cock and that She thought He was very attractive “ , I discretely left the room to go to the toilet,and came back and signed the necessary documents.
We left and arranged to pick the car up after its initial service.
As soon as we got in the car my wife informed me that She had made a date with the young salesman,and was very excited, especially the fact that She was now 49 years old and He was 30 years old.
He had a young family, according to my Wife.
About a week later I came home from work, to be told ” Oh by the way I would like to go out on Friday “ ,I knew straight away, where She was going, and said don’t tell me you are meeting that coloured guy who sold us the car.
She said “ You don’t mind do you “, I asked Her were She was going and did She want me to go with Her.
No! was Her answer, You can drop me off,and pick me up but I would prefer to go on my own.
Friday duly arrived, and I drove Her to Canary Wharf to an apartment that was owned by the guys Brother who was in the Navy and away at Sea.
I though She would ring me up to pick Her up on the Friday, However I got a phone call about 1.00am to say pick Her up on the Saturday, and that She was really enjoying Herself.When She came Home She said “ Do you know, the two guys I fucked at the Radlett Party, I thought were big, But this guy last night was massive “ , I asked how big, She replied “ He was at least 91/2to 10 ins in length and quite fat with it “ , She said it took a little while to get used to it, But managed to get Him all in.
I asked Her if He had been in Her bum, She replied with a grin “ What do you think “.
This turned out to be the start of a nearly 10 year relationship, He became quite friendly with us both, He started quite quickly to understand the dynamics of My Wife and I ,relationship.
He also learnt quite quickly that She was a submissive exhibitionist who was also quite fearless.
Over the years He arranged things for Her, that even I as a pretty kinky guy had never seen Her do.
However the relationship ended when He moved to Manchester to further His career.
By this time my wife was nearing 60 and She decided it was time to cease the lifestyle.
To quote Her “ You know I think it’s time We devoted our time to each other, and I would like to stop having sex,with other people “ , To my knowledge She has kept Her promise and Has only had sex with me.
We are now well into our seventies and still together, I/We sometimes reminisce about our adventures over the years.
We had a great time
She ended up being DP,d by 2 very well hung black guys, which She enjoyed very much, especially as the act was carried out in front of a large No. of other couples and singles, I would say 40/50 people, I would add this never bothered Her one bit, and as She said afterwards, that it really added to Her excitement, and at age 48 years old, and a very fit lady,She definitely turned some of the audience on, On our way home, I asked how She felt and what having the 2 black guys fuck Her felt like, She replied “ I absolutely loved it “ and that She thought it was a wonderful experience heightened by She was fucked in front of a load of couples and singles to see everything going on.
However, I cannot remember if She said this on the way home or when we were fucking, which normally happened after She came home from one of Her adventures, She said that She did not want to go to anymore white on white swingers events, and that from now on wanted black cock only.
So after some Black only gang bang parties We somehow got invited too,Which we both enjoyed immensely.
We one day went to buy a new car,the salesman was a young coloured guy, who sold us the car, who clearly was attracted to my 48/49 year old wife, He left the room to print some paperwork, the first thing my Wife said was “ Wow! He looks like He has a big cock and that She thought He was very attractive “ , I discretely left the room to go to the toilet,and came back and signed the necessary documents.
We left and arranged to pick the car up after its initial service.
As soon as we got in the car my wife informed me that She had made a date with the young salesman,and was very excited, especially the fact that She was now 49 years old and He was 30 years old.
He had a young family, according to my Wife.
About a week later I came home from work, to be told ” Oh by the way I would like to go out on Friday “ ,I knew straight away, where She was going, and said don’t tell me you are meeting that coloured guy who sold us the car.
She said “ You don’t mind do you “, I asked Her were She was going and did She want me to go with Her.
No! was Her answer, You can drop me off,and pick me up but I would prefer to go on my own.
Friday duly arrived, and I drove Her to Canary Wharf to an apartment that was owned by the guys Brother who was in the Navy and away at Sea.
I though She would ring me up to pick Her up on the Friday, However I got a phone call about 1.00am to say pick Her up on the Saturday, and that She was really enjoying Herself.When She came Home She said “ Do you know, the two guys I fucked at the Radlett Party, I thought were big, But this guy last night was massive “ , I asked how big, She replied “ He was at least 91/2to 10 ins in length and quite fat with it “ , She said it took a little while to get used to it, But managed to get Him all in.
I asked Her if He had been in Her bum, She replied with a grin “ What do you think “.
This turned out to be the start of a nearly 10 year relationship, He became quite friendly with us both, He started quite quickly to understand the dynamics of My Wife and I ,relationship.
He also learnt quite quickly that She was a submissive exhibitionist who was also quite fearless.
Over the years He arranged things for Her, that even I as a pretty kinky guy had never seen Her do.
However the relationship ended when He moved to Manchester to further His career.
By this time my wife was nearing 60 and She decided it was time to cease the lifestyle.
To quote Her “ You know I think it’s time We devoted our time to each other, and I would like to stop having sex,with other people “ , To my knowledge She has kept Her promise and Has only had sex with me.
We are now well into our seventies and still together, I/We sometimes reminisce about our adventures over the years.
We had a great time
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It was all me that started it 
Well I met him through this site and now he is my for real boyfriend. He lives close by
RockyQueen69
Couple
As a new young couple to this, how should we start? We are thinking about more than a dildo but less than total humiliation. I like making him watch me play with myself and I want to make him watch me claimed and completely bred by a black kingFor me swinging started with other white guys. My husband introduced me to swinging and mfm threesomes and more back in 2011. He suggested I try a black guy after some mixed results with white guys. What is funny is that your wife’s first black guy sounds like exactly the reason I made the switch to black men only. I just want some good dick without any romance or foreplay. That was why I made the switch a decade ago and never looked back! There are just more black men better suited to being extramarital sexual playmates. Add to that the fact that I’ve had much better luck finding black men with dicks big enough to satisfy me and that the contrast of skin color is far more appealing and I genuinely have zero reason to ever consider another white dick ever again.
Raymond1963
Couple
CHRISTINE: Hubby first took me to an adult bookstore. There I was introduced to what a real daddy cock is.
Then eventually we went to a couple's swing club called "Couple's Choice". "Deb" the matriarch/owner separated us on our 2nd visit.
She and I shared a joint in a private room, then she ate my pussy. Then she led me to a room with two well-hung, older white studs.
They fucked me good while other people watched.
Afterward, she brought in hubby Ray to access the "damage". With just a little encouragement from Deb, he started lapping up the guys' cum like a little puppy. I think it's safe to say that after that, I knew I was going to be a slutwife and he a cuckold.
Especially when Deb smiled and said, "I think you got yourself a good little cuckold here".
Then eventually we went to a couple's swing club called "Couple's Choice". "Deb" the matriarch/owner separated us on our 2nd visit.
She and I shared a joint in a private room, then she ate my pussy. Then she led me to a room with two well-hung, older white studs.
They fucked me good while other people watched.
Afterward, she brought in hubby Ray to access the "damage". With just a little encouragement from Deb, he started lapping up the guys' cum like a little puppy. I think it's safe to say that after that, I knew I was going to be a slutwife and he a cuckold.
Especially when Deb smiled and said, "I think you got yourself a good little cuckold here".
I showed my wife interracial gang bang bang Porn a lot in her 20’s and it definitely got her interested in BBC.
donaldintx
Male
I dont know about others but when my wife's black boss took her at work it was over for me. We had been married for 11 years and had sex once or twice a month. But he fucked her so hard she came twice. She never had sex like that. When she came hiome she was a mess & told me all about it! She told me she was going to let him have her whenever he wanted it. I had a choice, Accept it or leave! I stayed.
donaldintx
Male
That is such a hot story. I love it! So normal. So many men get into it now!
Nickhotrod
Male
Thick latin cock Once you go black never go back your hubby will always be a less Man for youFor me swinging started with other white guys. My husband introduced me to swinging and mfm threesomes and more back in 2011. He suggested I try a black guy after some mixed results with white guys. What is funny is that your wife’s first black guy sounds like exactly the reason I made the switch to black men only. I just want some good dick without any romance or foreplay. That was why I made the switch a decade ago and never looked back! There are just more black men better suited to being extramarital sexual playmates. Add to that the fact that I’ve had much better luck finding black men with dicks big enough to satisfy me and that the contrast of skin color is far more appealing and I genuinely have zero reason to ever consider another white dick ever again.
My husband worked with a black guy and they were at the urinals next to each other when my husband noticed the size of the guy’s penis.He came home raving about it and saying how he would love to watch me having sex with his black colleague .
I refused to entertain the idea , my husband became obsessed by the idea of watching me having sex with a black guy who’s penis was much bigger than his.
He invited his colleague over for dinner with the idea of him and I having sex while my husband watched , this was a definite no no.
This was the start of my husbands fascination in interracial sex . He brought home interracial sex films and realistic black Dildos for us to watch and use the dildos while watching the films.
I would get really enjoy them but due to my strict conservative upbringing I could never brake my wedding vows. I then joined a company and made friends with a younger black lady, we became very close friends and would discuss our lives. Eventually we talked about our sex lives with her telling me about her latest boyfriend and how big his penis is , she asked me how big my husbands penis is I said about average. She asked if I had ever been with a black guy, I told her no but it was my husbands fantasy to watch a black guy and I have sex .
a couple of months later she invited my husband and I to her birthday party at her house we accepted. When we arrived it was mostly black people as her family were from Barbados. I was given a glass of Rum punch, my husband had coke as he was driving, as the party went on my glass was constantly refilled with the Rum punch.
We had been introduced to her family and friends. After about an hour her uncle came over and asked me to dance I accepted.
we went to the area where others were dancing and started dancing To reggae music, then a slower song came on he pulled me close to him and as we moved to the music I could feel his penis rubbing into my body the more we moved the harder and bigger it felt.
We had another dance and again he held me tight ,only this time he ran his hands down my back onto my bum cheeks pulling me hard against him god his penis felt bigger and harder than last time , my pussy was now getting very wet I could feel my juices wetting my thong.
As the party wound down my friend came over and asked if we could give her uncle a lift home as we were passing where he lived we said yes no problem.
On the way to his house he thanked my husband for letting him dance with me, also saying how lucky my husband is having a wife who’s sexy .
We arrived at his house and he invited us in for a night cap , we accepted his offer he made himself and I a rum cocktail, my husband a coffee as he was driving.
He put some music on and pulled me up for a dance, this time he was more brazen really pulling me tight and tweaking my bum gyrating into my pubic area his cock pushing into my pubic area really turning me on. We stopped day and he and I sat next to each other on a settee opposite my husband..
He draped an arm over my shoulder with his hand resting on my breast as we all talked. He started gently circling my tit getting my nipple hard . He was now getting me sexually, the conversation had turned sexual with him saying that he had never seen a white woman's pussy and that maybe I would show him mine,I looked at my husband and could clearly see he had an erection.
My husband said that I had never seen a black guy’s cock before only in films and that if he showed me his cock I might show him my pussy. He stood up in front of me and dropped his trousers and pants, his beautiful hard big black cock was now inches from my face .
He turned to me and said now it’s your turn to show me your pussy ,I looked at my husband he just nodded so I lifted my dress above my waist and pulled my thong to one side giving him a view of my pussy , he said that he wanted to see it without my thong on , I again looked at my husband he nodded again but also had his cock out . So I lifted my bum up and pulled my thong off and opened my thighs giving him a clear view of my my open labia showing my wet vaginal opening .
He took my hand and placed it on his hard black cock , I automatically started rubbing it’s length, he moved his hands placing one on my tits teasing my nipples the other between my pussy lips rubbing along m crack teasing my clit and slipping first one finger then two into my vagina god I was now begging for him to fuck his black cock into me god I needed to be fucked .
He moved between my thighs lifting and spreading them giving him total access to my vagina telling me to tell him where I wanted his cock . I was now moaning that I wanted it in my cunt and guided it to my my wonton cunt god did it feel good as his big cock head started to penetrate me . Then he slowly managed to get all his thick long cock fully buried in me , as he started to move we built up a rhythm with me telling him to fuck me harder, he was saying how tight my white married cunt was and how my husband will never be able to fuck me good again.
He eventually started moaning yelling that he was going to fill my cunt with his black seed, I was in a constant state of multiple orgasms.
My husband stood watching us and masturbating as we fucked.
I have now had the best sexual experiences I have ever experienced and it’s thanks to my husband for his continued effort and patience over the years trying to get me to experience black cock and to my friend and work colleague Connie for arranging for her uncle to seduce me at her party telling her uncle that it was my husbands fantasy to have me taken by a better endowed black guy and that I was ripe for seduction.
My husband and I have now got a sex life he had wanted for many years and I get the sexual enjoyment that I had never experienced until being seduced and fucked by a black guy’s superior black cock on a regular basis and regret the many years I refused to experience sex with a black guy who satisfies me sexually as never before by white guys .
I refused to entertain the idea , my husband became obsessed by the idea of watching me having sex with a black guy who’s penis was much bigger than his.
He invited his colleague over for dinner with the idea of him and I having sex while my husband watched , this was a definite no no.
This was the start of my husbands fascination in interracial sex . He brought home interracial sex films and realistic black Dildos for us to watch and use the dildos while watching the films.
I would get really enjoy them but due to my strict conservative upbringing I could never brake my wedding vows. I then joined a company and made friends with a younger black lady, we became very close friends and would discuss our lives. Eventually we talked about our sex lives with her telling me about her latest boyfriend and how big his penis is , she asked me how big my husbands penis is I said about average. She asked if I had ever been with a black guy, I told her no but it was my husbands fantasy to watch a black guy and I have sex .
a couple of months later she invited my husband and I to her birthday party at her house we accepted. When we arrived it was mostly black people as her family were from Barbados. I was given a glass of Rum punch, my husband had coke as he was driving, as the party went on my glass was constantly refilled with the Rum punch.
We had been introduced to her family and friends. After about an hour her uncle came over and asked me to dance I accepted.
we went to the area where others were dancing and started dancing To reggae music, then a slower song came on he pulled me close to him and as we moved to the music I could feel his penis rubbing into my body the more we moved the harder and bigger it felt.
We had another dance and again he held me tight ,only this time he ran his hands down my back onto my bum cheeks pulling me hard against him god his penis felt bigger and harder than last time , my pussy was now getting very wet I could feel my juices wetting my thong.
As the party wound down my friend came over and asked if we could give her uncle a lift home as we were passing where he lived we said yes no problem.
On the way to his house he thanked my husband for letting him dance with me, also saying how lucky my husband is having a wife who’s sexy .
We arrived at his house and he invited us in for a night cap , we accepted his offer he made himself and I a rum cocktail, my husband a coffee as he was driving.
He put some music on and pulled me up for a dance, this time he was more brazen really pulling me tight and tweaking my bum gyrating into my pubic area his cock pushing into my pubic area really turning me on. We stopped day and he and I sat next to each other on a settee opposite my husband..
He draped an arm over my shoulder with his hand resting on my breast as we all talked. He started gently circling my tit getting my nipple hard . He was now getting me sexually, the conversation had turned sexual with him saying that he had never seen a white woman's pussy and that maybe I would show him mine,I looked at my husband and could clearly see he had an erection.
My husband said that I had never seen a black guy’s cock before only in films and that if he showed me his cock I might show him my pussy. He stood up in front of me and dropped his trousers and pants, his beautiful hard big black cock was now inches from my face .
He turned to me and said now it’s your turn to show me your pussy ,I looked at my husband he just nodded so I lifted my dress above my waist and pulled my thong to one side giving him a view of my pussy , he said that he wanted to see it without my thong on , I again looked at my husband he nodded again but also had his cock out . So I lifted my bum up and pulled my thong off and opened my thighs giving him a clear view of my my open labia showing my wet vaginal opening .
He took my hand and placed it on his hard black cock , I automatically started rubbing it’s length, he moved his hands placing one on my tits teasing my nipples the other between my pussy lips rubbing along m crack teasing my clit and slipping first one finger then two into my vagina god I was now begging for him to fuck his black cock into me god I needed to be fucked .
He moved between my thighs lifting and spreading them giving him total access to my vagina telling me to tell him where I wanted his cock . I was now moaning that I wanted it in my cunt and guided it to my my wonton cunt god did it feel good as his big cock head started to penetrate me . Then he slowly managed to get all his thick long cock fully buried in me , as he started to move we built up a rhythm with me telling him to fuck me harder, he was saying how tight my white married cunt was and how my husband will never be able to fuck me good again.
He eventually started moaning yelling that he was going to fill my cunt with his black seed, I was in a constant state of multiple orgasms.
My husband stood watching us and masturbating as we fucked.
I have now had the best sexual experiences I have ever experienced and it’s thanks to my husband for his continued effort and patience over the years trying to get me to experience black cock and to my friend and work colleague Connie for arranging for her uncle to seduce me at her party telling her uncle that it was my husbands fantasy to have me taken by a better endowed black guy and that I was ripe for seduction.
My husband and I have now got a sex life he had wanted for many years and I get the sexual enjoyment that I had never experienced until being seduced and fucked by a black guy’s superior black cock on a regular basis and regret the many years I refused to experience sex with a black guy who satisfies me sexually as never before by white guys .
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For me, my husband got me to swing initially with white men, it wasn't bad but when I tried my first black one, I only wanted black ones. Before my first I had an attraction, but I had never taken the step forward, now I am very satisfied to be a w4B.
Must also say my first black was perfect!
Fabienne
Must also say my first black was perfect!
Fabienne
Oh! Yes this is how I got started ( When I was active,now too old ),We Both loved sex, I loved to flirt, Hubby encouraged me.
We started swapping with other couples living near us, but generally,we had some bad experiences ( Some of the Husbands could not handle it ), We never had any problems, I loved to watch Hubby, having sex, and He loved watching me!!!.
We ended up going to swingers clubs and some organised events, but not regularl.
We were then in our early 30,s and by this time had children, This made things a bit difficult, but We managed to enjoy ourselves over the years,I worked hard to keep fit,and regularly went to the gym and along with Hubby cycled, and swam.
I found when we attended swingers events , I was quite popular and one of the first Woman to get Mens attention ( Lucky Me
).Hubby always loved Me being centre of attention, and always Said Iwas an exhibitionist .
But what I think the period I enjoyed most was when I was around 48 years old, We attended a Swingers party near London.
Hubby went off to have a MMF session with a young couple, I got talking to an extremely attractive Coloured Gentleman , whom , seemed very attracted to me ,likewise Me to Him, We ended up kissing each other, and as there were some mattresses placed on the floor, We ended up on one, this was in the main room which was in a large house.
We started having sex, and the room started filling up with other couples and singles,
I always got a kick out of being watched, and the fact that my partner was extremely well hung, provided the audience with a good show.
My partner was joined by another coloured guy, Who joined us as well, after I had taken Him in my mouth ,proceeded to DP me.
All of a sudden My Husband appeared, with a look of amazement on His face.
I was loving their attention and found the size of their manhood, so nice, I tried to give as good as I got.
They changed places several times and We all gradually ran out of steam.
After cleaning their beautiful cocks up with my mouth,We eventually got dressed and went home.
As soon as Hubby got me in the car, He said “ Wow! What a performance “ did you enjoy that?
I said “ What do you think !!! I don’t want to go to white on white swingers parties anymore, I want to to find more of that.”
We went to quite a few BBC parties, which I enjoyed, but eventually, found a regular young guy some 17 years younger than myself, this lasted for the next 10 years, on and off.
I am now in my mid 70,s,and all this is now long past,so enjoy it while you can.
why do you think you are too old - I am fucking a lady in her 80 and she is great.Oh! Yes this is how I got started ( When I was active,now too old ),We Both loved sex, I loved to flirt, Hubby encouraged me.
We started swapping with other couples living near us, but generally,we had some bad experiences ( Some of the Husbands could not handle it ), We never had any problems, I loved to watch Hubby, having sex, and He loved watching me!!!.
We ended up going to swingers clubs and some organised events, but not regularl.
We were then in our early 30,s and by this time had children, This made things a bit difficult, but We managed to enjoy ourselves over the years,I worked hard to keep fit,and regularly went to the gym and along with Hubby cycled, and swam.
I found when we attended swingers events , I was quite popular and one of the first Woman to get Mens attention ( Lucky Me
Hubby always loved Me being centre of attention, and always Said Iwas an exhibitionist .
But what I think the period I enjoyed most was when I was around 48 years old, We attended a Swingers party near London.
Hubby went off to have a MMF session with a young couple, I got talking to an extremely attractive Coloured Gentleman , whom , seemed very attracted to me ,likewise Me to Him, We ended up kissing each other, and as there were some mattresses placed on the floor, We ended up on one, this was in the main room which was in a large house.
We started having sex, and the room started filling up with other couples and singles,
I always got a kick out of being watched, and the fact that my partner was extremely well hung, provided the audience with a good show.
My partner was joined by another coloured guy, Who joined us as well, after I had taken Him in my mouth ,proceeded to DP me.
All of a sudden My Husband appeared, with a look of amazement on His face.
I was loving their attention and found the size of their manhood, so nice, I tried to give as good as I got.
They changed places several times and We all gradually ran out of steam.
After cleaning their beautiful cocks up with my mouth,We eventually got dressed and went home.
As soon as Hubby got me in the car, He said “ Wow! What a performance “ did you enjoy that?
I said “ What do you think !!! I don’t want to go to white on white swingers parties anymore, I want to to find more of that.”
We went to quite a few BBC parties, which I enjoyed, but eventually, found a regular young guy some 17 years younger than myself, this lasted for the next 10 years, on and off.
I am now in my mid 70,s,and all this is now long past,so enjoy it while you can.
A black lover for sex outside our marriage was completely out of my late wife Sarah's conceptual universe. She was a Southern girl, born and raised in the East Tennessee mountains, fully indoctrinated by family, church, friends, community and culture that marriage was monogamous, and that "racial mixing" was unnatural, wrong and immoral. The idea of a white married woman having a black lover was never suggested by anyone to Sarah, and had that idea been suggested to her, she would have likely been so repelled that she would never have been able to do such a thing. It was an innocent friendship with a black co worker, Thomas and gradually getting to know Thom in such safe, normal domestic and social situations, that his "being a black man" was forgotten. This innocent friendship effectively removed the "Southern Rule" that enforced keeping wide distance and no contact between black men and white women. Getting to know and like Thom in those innocent circumstances, and being close to him, permitted Sarah's natural instinctive sexual desire toward Thom to develop.
In NOV 1976, we met the only black co-worker in my company, Thomas(Thom to us), and over the next year we grew a strong friendship with Thom. Thom being 'black" was of no thought to us. We liked Thom because he'd grown up as a country boy in Coastal NC, similar to Sarah's and my growing up in the rural mountains of E. TN. So Sarah and I connected strongly with Thom's rural upbringing, unlike the other white guys and white couples around us who had grown up in towns and cities.
It was about 15 months after meeting Thom and then becoming good friends, that Sarah's sexual attraction to Thom really started. Sarah was in complete denial of what her body was feeling toward Thom; in her mind she was married, her attraction to a black man was wrong and not possible, her daddy would be terribly upset about her feeling that attraction, and the attraction was unnatural, etc. It didn't take me too long to notice that Sarah got aroused when Thom was around, even if she couldn't accept it herself.
Initially I was hurt and devastated by her attraction to Thom, but I overcame that because I realized that my own occasional arousal by another woman was involuntary and instinctive, and did not diminish my love for Sarah at all. Approaching the subject from that perspective, I started conversations with Sarah. It took several months of discussion, before she was able to finally admit to herself that her body really desired Thom. At that point Thom being a black man DID enter the picture for us. For Sarah as the idea gradually took hold that she, a Southern Girl was sexually desiring the forbidden fruit of a black man, the flames of her sexual attraction were fanned into a progressively stronger desire that was moving toward white hot level. At this point, realizing that Sarah's desire for Thom was genuinely unquenchable, I suggested to her that she needed to act on her desire and not walk away. Sarah was hesitant, but as the "forbidden fruit" thought fanned her desire stronger over the weeks, her resistance slowly weakened.
I'd not talked to Thom, waiting until Sarah had accepted the idea that she act on her desire for Thom. I then spoke to Thom about Sarah. This was not an easy sell. Thom had grown up in the South in Coastal NC, and as a black man, he'd learned the "Southern Rule", (enforced by threat of violence) that black men kept distance from white women, did not look at them, and did not speak to white women unless spoken to. It took several weeks of talking with Thom until he understood that Sarah was genuinely attracted to him, wanted to act on that attraction, and that I was not only OK with it, but had actively encouraged Sarah to act on her desire for Thom. I requested that Thom let Sarah make the move toward sex, and that he just be patient.
Sarah's hesitation lasted for many more weeks. The idea of "forbidden fruit sex" was still white hot to her, but getting past that threshold into reality was difficult. Finally one early Sunday morning in MAY 1978, for the first time, Thom had Sarah on the sofa, as I watched unobserved in a dark hallway. Sarah and Thom were lovers for the next 10 years (1978-88), and our friendship evolved into a wonderful polyamory relationship, where Sarah was mine about 70-80% of the time. But the 20-30% of the time that Thom was able to stay a weekend, I made sure Sarah was his! We didn't do threesomes. When Thom was there for the weekend, Sarah was his, although I'd usually get sloppy seconds once or twice!
Believe me, there is no woman hotter for taking the "forbidden fruit" of BBC and black seed, than a Southern woman, who has gotten past the "Southern Taboo" she was raised with. My little E. TN. Mountain Girl Sarah was absolute proof of that! We did have to be totally discrete because had it been known that Thom and Sarah were lovers, we'd had to leave the Coastal NC area where we lived, and Thom and I would have likely both been fired from our jobs!
I lost Sarah in 2015, after complications following a car accident. But memories come to the front of my mind regularly, and sometimes those are memories of Thom and Sarah together. It was an incredible pleasure for me to watch Sarah surrender herself completely to Thom, as he was equipped much larger than me, and although his size drove Sarah into stunning orgasms, what sent her over the edge most of all was Thom finishing with a massive load of his black seed inside her.
In NOV 1976, we met the only black co-worker in my company, Thomas(Thom to us), and over the next year we grew a strong friendship with Thom. Thom being 'black" was of no thought to us. We liked Thom because he'd grown up as a country boy in Coastal NC, similar to Sarah's and my growing up in the rural mountains of E. TN. So Sarah and I connected strongly with Thom's rural upbringing, unlike the other white guys and white couples around us who had grown up in towns and cities.
It was about 15 months after meeting Thom and then becoming good friends, that Sarah's sexual attraction to Thom really started. Sarah was in complete denial of what her body was feeling toward Thom; in her mind she was married, her attraction to a black man was wrong and not possible, her daddy would be terribly upset about her feeling that attraction, and the attraction was unnatural, etc. It didn't take me too long to notice that Sarah got aroused when Thom was around, even if she couldn't accept it herself.
Initially I was hurt and devastated by her attraction to Thom, but I overcame that because I realized that my own occasional arousal by another woman was involuntary and instinctive, and did not diminish my love for Sarah at all. Approaching the subject from that perspective, I started conversations with Sarah. It took several months of discussion, before she was able to finally admit to herself that her body really desired Thom. At that point Thom being a black man DID enter the picture for us. For Sarah as the idea gradually took hold that she, a Southern Girl was sexually desiring the forbidden fruit of a black man, the flames of her sexual attraction were fanned into a progressively stronger desire that was moving toward white hot level. At this point, realizing that Sarah's desire for Thom was genuinely unquenchable, I suggested to her that she needed to act on her desire and not walk away. Sarah was hesitant, but as the "forbidden fruit" thought fanned her desire stronger over the weeks, her resistance slowly weakened.
I'd not talked to Thom, waiting until Sarah had accepted the idea that she act on her desire for Thom. I then spoke to Thom about Sarah. This was not an easy sell. Thom had grown up in the South in Coastal NC, and as a black man, he'd learned the "Southern Rule", (enforced by threat of violence) that black men kept distance from white women, did not look at them, and did not speak to white women unless spoken to. It took several weeks of talking with Thom until he understood that Sarah was genuinely attracted to him, wanted to act on that attraction, and that I was not only OK with it, but had actively encouraged Sarah to act on her desire for Thom. I requested that Thom let Sarah make the move toward sex, and that he just be patient.
Sarah's hesitation lasted for many more weeks. The idea of "forbidden fruit sex" was still white hot to her, but getting past that threshold into reality was difficult. Finally one early Sunday morning in MAY 1978, for the first time, Thom had Sarah on the sofa, as I watched unobserved in a dark hallway. Sarah and Thom were lovers for the next 10 years (1978-88), and our friendship evolved into a wonderful polyamory relationship, where Sarah was mine about 70-80% of the time. But the 20-30% of the time that Thom was able to stay a weekend, I made sure Sarah was his! We didn't do threesomes. When Thom was there for the weekend, Sarah was his, although I'd usually get sloppy seconds once or twice!
Believe me, there is no woman hotter for taking the "forbidden fruit" of BBC and black seed, than a Southern woman, who has gotten past the "Southern Taboo" she was raised with. My little E. TN. Mountain Girl Sarah was absolute proof of that! We did have to be totally discrete because had it been known that Thom and Sarah were lovers, we'd had to leave the Coastal NC area where we lived, and Thom and I would have likely both been fired from our jobs!
I lost Sarah in 2015, after complications following a car accident. But memories come to the front of my mind regularly, and sometimes those are memories of Thom and Sarah together. It was an incredible pleasure for me to watch Sarah surrender herself completely to Thom, as he was equipped much larger than me, and although his size drove Sarah into stunning orgasms, what sent her over the edge most of all was Thom finishing with a massive load of his black seed inside her.
what a terrific story. i'm sorry you lost your wife. i know exactly how it feels. good luck to you going forward.
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My hubby showed me some IR porn and it got me curious. Not just so much the sheer size difference but the way the use their dicks. I Just had my first black man this month and I know now for certain it has been what was missing. I look forward to the next time.
Your evolution as a couple was organic and made the discovery and committment to "Black only" that much better because the connexxxion occurred amongst all participants...
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