Oh-um of course. Pardon my stupidity! And thanks for answering my question.The white husband of course. They are the ones that married.
Still i consider the feeling of "cheating" on Black men with another white male (who is not the husband) a possibility. What if the wife (or couple) has a strong preference for Black men and feels a sexual, lustful commitment to Black men? Won't it potentially feel like cheating (on Black) if they invite a white male instead of a Black man as the third "player" for the wife?
Funny, your avatar sports a shirt with "BBC ONLY" written on it. Is that solely because it feels less like cheating when you're fucking Black guys, or are you indeed attracted to sex with Black men more than with whites?