For me, the visual contrast is where it
starts. The underlying racial
taboo is what intensifies the sexual connection on a deeper psychological level just as it enhances it on the more superficial level. The stereotypes are merely that, stereotypes, and, true to form, they do not consistently apply. Not all black men are of monstrous endowment. Neither are all blacks sexual savages. Not every white woman sustains her appeal beyond certain ideals. The reality of it varies, same as with anything else. But it's the uniquely erotic fantasy which exerts a powerful allure.
As I've mentioned elsewhere on these boards, for blacks and whites, especially in America, interracial sex is taboo because of the racist history. This unflinchingly bold viewpoint has shocked some members here, and others have expressed a vehement defiance. But how else to explain it? Why is interracial sex still widely considered taboo if historic racism has nothing to do with it? It has everything to do with it, and "the Emperor has no clothes." Whites enslaved blacks for centuries. Less than 70 years ago, 14 year-old Emmett Till was beaten, tortured, and brut@lly mu®dered for flirting with a white woman. It's certainly not a popular set of facts, and many don't want to look at this truth, but it's still there, and it's not going anywhere. What is your cogent rebuttal explaining the taboo? Let's have it.
The attractive white woman is the "forbidden fruit" for the black man. Conversely, white women sharing sexual intimacy with black men are often stigmatized. My own personal experience... I once enjoyed a "Friends With Benefits" arrangement with a former co-worker. She was originally from England ( I am a major anglophile! ), and at that time she was separated from her husband, who is also black. Julie and I would regularly have sex without the commitment of a relationship. Once she made it known that she wanted to alter our arrangement to pursue a more serious romance, I let the sexual connection dissolve because I wasn't in love; I was in "like." We remained friends, and we still are. I'm actually on good terms with her ex-husband. Years ago, when I was severely injured in a traffic accident, Julie visited me regularly in the hospital. She had begun dating a white guy. However, when he questioned her why she was being so kind, showing me such attention, Julie spoke plainly and truthfully. She told him that I am black, and that we had a sexual friendship in the past. Juile told me that her boyfriend subsequently broke up with her, and that it was her impression that it was strictly a racial thing. Some white men see any white women who have a sexual history with black men as damaged goods. So, yeah, let's call it what it is: racism. Don't be afraid to stare it in the face.
That's why interracial sex is still considered
taboo. And shattering taboos is what makes this part of the lifestyle so much fun. Lots of you pop off on these boards about dominant bulls, breeding, submission, the superior black DNA, giant black penises and tiny white dicks... Racism fuels every bit of it, putting a kinky positive spin on it all. I think white women are beautiful, with their blue eyes, pale skin, straight blonde, red, or brunette hair. I love that contrast. But in addition to their beauty, the pleasure I derive from fuckng them has its roots ( pun intended ) in the darker side of this country and this world's history of tribal conflict.
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The love relationship, the reasons why two people find and want each other - is/are always more important than any sexual kink fantasy. Starting a relationship with a Woman who has given her heart to somebody else already is not what i am looking out for TBH. So i can understand J.'s BF's reaction. 
