No Longer Active; Grey's wife Sarah passed away in 2015. Active 1978-88 in Coastal NC with Grey's black co worker and our very good friend Thomas providing BBC as Sarah's lover. Very TABOO in the South. Both raised in Mountain areas of NC, TN, & VA, being raised Baptist with the "Southern Taboo" against the mixing of a black man and a white woman. Hope our experiences from so far back may be valuable today.