Why men think you want pictures of their wives????

[nobook]

My husband is obsessed with seeing pics of me and my lover to the point that my man won't take any more for him. My husband can only get an erection when he sees me getting fucked or me sucking my black lover. He can't get hard if I try and please him in anyway only by watching. So, I have stopped indulging him.

I had to do that with some female. Cheers

 

[himandhother]

My husband is obsessed with seeing pics of me and my lover to the point that my man won't take any more for him. My husband can only get an erection when he sees me getting fucked or me sucking my black lover. He can't get hard if I try and please him in anyway only by watching. So, I have stopped indulging him.

Sounds unhealthy and he needs therapy. You get the same thing with porn addiction always has to push new limits for the excitement it’s a sign of deeper issues. I mean I’ll be honest your entire set up is unhealthy a little kink and change is one thing but when your no longer able to have sexual encounters with your spouse the person you supposedly love something went sideways along the way. When your kink or fetish becomes the focal point you reached an unhealthy state in a relationship. Wish you the best.

 

[himandhother]

Same here. When we started playing my husband was able to get an erection and we’d have sex when I got back from my dates. Now, he needs so much more for him to even get hard. Kinda sad.

Nature of the disease honestly. Having the rare threesome or trist for some excitement is on the edge most of the fantasies and level of lifestyle discussed here is way over the edge of a functional healthy marriage. Do some make it work? Sure but most of them understand you need to control the disease and not let it reach the point your exclusively having sex with other men and your husband is pretty much just jerking off to your homemade porn with other men. It is sad and you both lost control and probably any semblance of a quality marriage. Goes the same for any aspect of kink and fetish it can take over your life and that’s when it’s unhealthy kind of like anything in life really ******* booze gambling etc..

 

[funcouple52661]

Sounds unhealthy and he needs therapy. You get the same thing with porn addiction always has to push new limits for the excitement it’s a sign of deeper issues. I mean I’ll be honest your entire set up is unhealthy a little kink and change is one thing but when your no longer able to have sexual encounters with your spouse the person you supposedly love something went sideways along the way. When your kink or fetish becomes the focal point you reached an unhealthy state in a relationship. Wish you the best.

I have to agree about that relationship being unhealthy. Taking pics to send to the husband is different than this original post though. In my view if the playmate doesn’t want to take pics to send to my husband then I’m not playing.

 

[himandhother]

Some guys just like that their wife is desirable to other men.

That’s where I fall my wife is a knock out with an amazing body that is completely fulfilled sexually with me (we can crank out 15+ orgasms a session). So she is not very interested in being shared though I am sure in the right scenario she would physically enjoy the experience and titillation. I am more about showing her off like a Ferrari and affirmation how lucky I am to have such a high caliber woman. I really feel for the men and woman I read on here they have lost their way and have some real issues and many don’t even seem to understand anymore what a loving relationship is. Yeah and don’t try to flip it like you people always do saying real love is having your wife fucking other men all the time no that’s not love at all. Your wife don’t love you if she is doing that not romantically you’re just her guy friend. Btw tip and secret for you it’s not even about your cock size real science has already busted all the myths most of the pleasure nerves are in the first three inches of the vagina. So while bigger can feel better woman can still feel plenty good with smaller or average you just are falling for the con job if you don’t believe me. Grab a huge realistic dildo from The internet shop lick your wives pussy while you insert that in and out and your wife will have ten times the orgasm any bbc will give her because no bbc can fill her up and lick her at the same time. So you see it’s not even about the satisfaction of sex it’s most often just urban myths and dysfunctional people and relationships that brings you to this point. Most of this is a mind fuck job nothing more nothing less. Your blind folded wife would have no fucking idea if it was a bbc or a big white cock fucking her and almost every time blind folded it was a little black cock followed by a big white cock your wife would assure you the bigger cock was the black cock and how amazingly black it was the stroke the texture blah blah blah. It’s all in your head so free your mind live healthier and happier. Every once in a while I see someone post good advice like this you people need to really get your ******* in order and stop fantasizing about garbage.

 

[himandhother]

is that the point I was making? Rightttt like I said in my original post since most can’t comprehend this is my opinion and from my experience. Most pic collectors are white losers… I don’t meet men so Idk maybe you should take the time to make a post and see if you get the responses I do

Hah no sorry plenty of black losers out there pretending to be bbc to get their rocks off on the same fantasy. I will go a step further and say the truth about the flip side of the cuckold equation. What kind of lack of self respect loser lurks around all day hoping to get a sniff of some other dudes woman’s pussy? If you got your ******* together just get yourself your own woman why are you scraping the bottom of the barrel getting some taken left overs? So as you can see most people have some level of kink and fantasy studies shown threesome is the most common by a long shot. So I’m just pointing out while aspect x might not be your thing aspect y is actually no better. Sexually healthy people
And couples are happily monogamous people with some issue like myself come to places like this for an outlet just like you and everyone else does

 

[beenblackened]

Sounds unhealthy and he needs therapy. You get the same thing with porn addiction always has to push new limits for the excitement it’s a sign of deeper issues. I mean I’ll be honest your entire set up is unhealthy a little kink and change is one thing but when your no longer able to have sexual encounters with your spouse the person you supposedly love something went sideways along the way. When your kink or fetish becomes the focal point you reached an unhealthy state in a relationship. Wish you the best.

We've been together for 37yrs and we are far from an unhealthy relationship!

 

[himandhother]

We've been together for 37yrs and we are far from an unhealthy relationship!

Being together for a long time is not a solid indicator all kind of miserable people stick it out. Look just going by what you stated. You are at the point of not having sex with your own husband who you claim requires pictures of you screwing other men so he can jerk himself off and it’s become so obsessive it’s off putting to the point you refuse to provide him with pictures anymore. I think some people don’t even understand what a healthy relationship with your life partner is or even what marriage actually is because they have been in such unhealthy status for too long. Sorry honey your marriage with your husband is busted AF you are married in name only. What you really are is roommates and buddies, but kudos for somehow lasting this long. Good luck.

 

[MrChocolate919]

So this seems to be a thing and I have yet to understand why so many men send pictures of their wives like seems like the guy likes the BBC more than the wife if he is using her pictures to attract men to the thought of his wife then in reality to me he wishes he was her… like I’ve told numerous men like why do I want to see your wife. They respond to Jack off like really??? So the numerous pictures I could find online/pornhub/ etc just didn’t cut it but you think your wife will I just don’t understand the ideology. To me it makes sense for a guy to make a introduction. I’ve had guys let me group chat with the wife and that’s completely different from someone married and sharing their wives pictures saying she knows. If she knows why isn’t she sharing them??? The scene in the last few years has made me lose faith in what it once was too many fakes,Guys acting like women,and flakes for me to take the lifestyle serious.

THANK YOU!! My inbox is not mostly women, unfortunately its mostly men showing me women. Like what?? And yeah its a bunch of low key bi/gay men on this site that get off on pretending to be women just to have that convo or interaction.

 

[funcouple52661]

THANK YOU!! My inbox is not mostly women, unfortunately its mostly men showing me women. Like what?? And yeah its a bunch of low key bi/gay men on this site that get off on pretending to be women just to have that convo or interaction.

I believe that. My inbox is mostly guys asking for pics

 

[funcouple52661]

Being together for a long time is not a solid indicator all kind of miserable people stick it out. Look just going by what you stated. You are at the point of not having sex with your own husband who you claim requires pictures of you screwing other men so he can jerk himself off and it’s become so obsessive it’s off putting to the point you refuse to provide him with pictures anymore. I think some people don’t even understand what a healthy relationship with your life partner is or even what marriage actually is because they have been in such unhealthy status for too long. Sorry honey your marriage with your husband is busted AF you are married in name only. What you really are is roommates and buddies, but kudos for somehow lasting this long. Good luck.

Agreed. That or they are flat out lying

 

[MisterPussyPleaser]

So this seems to be a thing and I have yet to understand why so many men send pictures of their wives like seems like the guy likes the BBC more than the wife if he is using her pictures to attract men to the thought of his wife then in reality to me he wishes he was her… like I’ve told numerous men like why do I want to see your wife. They respond to Jack off like really??? So the numerous pictures I could find online/pornhub/ etc just didn’t cut it but you think your wife will I just don’t understand the ideology. To me it makes sense for a guy to make a introduction. I’ve had guys let me group chat with the wife and that’s completely different from someone married and sharing their wives pictures saying she knows. If she knows why isn’t she sharing them??? The scene in the last few years has made me lose faith in what it once was too many fakes,Guys acting like women,and flakes for me to take the lifestyle serious.

And I have had several fake couple accounts recycle the same Polaroid pics to me over the last 3 years.

 

[trustnoone]

My lover Anthony will not do it anymore

Too bad for your cuck husband!

 

[hw mass cpl]

There are very few women that you see on this site who are really into black men and the excitement we can bring to the lady or to a loving relationship with her husband involved. Personally, I've come to expect the man to be the one who approaches (through DM or email, etc.) and "weeds out" those whom he feels uncomfortable with, or believes his wife would be reluctant to meet. This is only the first hurdle, but it's a high one. Then comes the meet or conversation as a two or threesome. That's where we really find out whether the entire story is real, or just a guy who has been hiding his fantasies from his wife. More often than not, it's the latter. However, when you do find a woman or couple who are real, honest, clean and discreet (beenblackened, you're the one I'm thinking about), it's like you've won a lottery prize! The meetings and seductions are hot, the talk is hot and the photos are real. Otherwise, I just consider most of the posts to be fake, jackoff material pulled, copied and pasted on this site in an attempt to hear our stories of seduction, white women succumbing to us, etc., all for the man's self gratification.

I agree with your assessment of how difficult it is to meet real people but on both sides of the equation. Through the years we have had many more fakes and no shows than we have real bulls. I also agree that many of women posting are actually guys craving to be in the situation.
In our case i (the husband) does the legwork to find the Mrs guys that match up with her desires.
Dawn gets involved once a potential match is found and she chats and talks on the phone once the interest level has elevated.
Dawn also meets gentleman in the real world but her best matches have always been men that I have found for her.
There is indeed a high fallout rate on that first high hurdle that you mention. Through the years we have learned not to get excited until it becomes a love connection. We start with low expectations and are pleasantly surprised when we overachieve.

 

[hw mass cpl]

And I have had several fake couple accounts recycle the same Polaroid pics to me over the last 3 years.

So true.

 

[himandhother]

I agree with your assessment of how difficult it is to meet real people but on both sides of the equation. Through the years we have had many more fakes and no shows than we have real bulls. I also agree that many of women posting are actually guys craving to be in the situation.
In our case i (the husband) does the legwork to find the Mrs guys that match up with her desires.
Dawn gets involved once a potential match is found and she chats and talks on the phone once the interest level has elevated.
Dawn also meets gentleman in the real world but her best matches have always been men that I have found for her.
There is indeed a high fallout rate on that first high hurdle that you mention. Through the years we have learned not to get excited until it becomes a love connection. We start with low expectations and are pleasantly surprised when we overachieve.

This is correct because the truth of real world is the vast majority of women don’t need or crave bbc. This is a male driven fantasy that has be created by a propped up bs culture of bbc.

I try to help these poor souls and point out the issue is their wild imaginary fantasy they project onto their girlfriends and wives. They need to accept the reality their wife actually doesn’t need or want a strangers 12 inch bbc digging out their guts. The problem is websites like this attract all men with these silly fantasies and male posters and dudes pretending to be females keep posting to each other re-enforcing this nonsense.

 

[BlackFantasy]

Because it's a good feeling to have your wife liked by another man, especially one who's wants to fuck her... it's a good feeling to have your wife fucked by a man who really wants her, not someone who has nothing else to do that night...

 

[BayernBBC]

As far as I know, Sears no longer prints a catalogue; wife photo sharing is for those of us who miss the old ways, pointing at photos saying "I want one of those" and never getting closer to possession than ogling a photo

 

[michael87]

I think pictures and filming is a very important part of the whole situation as long as its consensual

I think so too.

 

[HotwifeHubby]

We love showing our wives off