Because it's still considered taboo and it gives them a feeling of power over a woman.
Is it considered a taboo? Maybe. But i don`t really think so. i`d consider it "something special". Typically, when a woman and a man decide to have sex, it will most often include VP as it is perceived as the ultimate sexual act - something "natural". We even learn about it at school.
With anal it is quite different. For me it is the special play you cannot have with just any woman, many are reluctant about it, at least at first.
However i don`t see a power shift toward the male part. That`s but a question of the point of view. For instance, think about vaginal sex. Many see the male part as the more active/dominating one, as it is the man who penetrates the woman who "lets it happen". Other than this there is a people/tribe on a pacific island (unfortunately i can`t recall the name
) who have not a self-contained word for sex but describe the sexual act as a woman "playing the flute" with a man`s penis. You can also see it that way.
As for anal sex we shouldn`t underestimate the strength of the anal muscles. If a woman decides to lock a d!ck inside her ass muscles, there is no way a man, no matter how strong, is able to escape. Try it and you`ll believe me.
So actually it gives a woman some power over a man.
I'm also told that it feels great for the man because the rectum is much tighter than the pussy.
It feels different, i`d say.
I've never been fucked in the ass. I get all the pleasure I want from vaginal sex so the idea of anal sex has no appeal to me. However, some women say that it can be an incredible experience.
Yes, it can be an incredible experience. But also, if not done right, it can be hurtful and problematic from a health perspective. The anal muscles are not used to something entering from the outside and typically there is a reflex that makes them tense in response. But it can be trained and practiced to receive "objects".
Best way to do so is in private by yourself. Always use lube as, opposed to the vagina, the rectum provides no natural lubrication. Start with one finger and when you feel the muscles loosen up go from there and add one finger after another until you manage to take three or four fingers at once. If you are able to control your anal muscles consciously, tense and release them alternately, you are ready to take the next step.
There are reasons why anal penetration is pleasurable for a woman. The body has a multitude of erogenous zones. If more of those are being stimulated simultaneously in addition to the clit or vagina the sensation can be potentiated. One of those zones is the anal muscle which has a high number of nerve endings especially at its exterior parts. Also the prineum - the fleshy part that separates rectum and vagina - is typically rather thin so that anal penetration also includes vaginal stimulation at the same time. i know about women who prefer anal sex to VP, some even say they have had orgasms only with anal sex.
ImO for a woman it is definitely worth trying. Of course, you can`t miss what you don`t know, but also you don`t know what you`re missing.
i think it's because all men have a homosexual tendency and this is one way of expressing it...
There`s nothing homosexual about it. Most heterosexual men who like AP with a woman will be disgusted at the mere thought of a man`s ass.