Why do men always try to push women in having anal sex

Anal sex can be enjoyable... it just depends on your partner and how willing they are to take their time. I personally don't do anal sex, mainly because of a situation that happened years ago, not worth going into. If a guy is pressuring you to have anal, then back off and talk about it. forsing one to do any sexual act is a no go in my book. Any type of sex should be enjoyable for all. Don't give into something you aren't wanting to do.
 
....A Consideration ... if a woman wishes to go to all the trouble to do a thorough anal cleanse (similar to a douche) I might give it consideration, but if the anus was meant to be a sexual organ, I'm sure mom nature would have put some cleansing & lubrication to it similar to the vagina. So I'm about a 98% no-go on this.
....Something else ... I watch my fair share of good porn. I get enjoyment watching 'beautiful people' have enjoyable sex ... but watching a guy take a woman vaginally and the anus, switching back and forth, is a big NO NO in my book. All kinds of germs get into the vagina that way, and as I said, I do enjoy a nice "muff burger". Don't need no mud in my burger though. My wife says I have a very evil, and talented tongue that can change a girl's no's to yes rather quickly. I don't want to lose my desire of doing that, but mud in my burger would create reluctance. LOL
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My girlfriend knows I'd love to try anal with her but it's certainly not a pressure situation, I've told her it would have to be something she wanted and left it at that. Can't see it ever happening but it would be as a result of her asking if it did. The receiving party has to want it and not just be doing it for their partner otherwise they won't fully commit and won't enjoy it.
I don't know the reason why I want to try it but it's probably associated with enjoying seeing it in porn as I suspect is the case for most. In reality the fact it's tighter and the excitement would likely mean I'd barely get in before I was done.
 
From a practical standpoint oral to vaginal sex or vaginal to oral sex doesn't present any significant health hazards. Even with an ******* I would be reluctant to put my cock anyplace else until it was thoroughly washed. Some women do like anal sex and it does greatly reduce the chance of pregnancy however the "Hersey Hiway" isn't a road I wish to travel
 
When I started it so my boyfriends and I could have sex without a risk of pregnancy then I began to enjoy it as well so I've kept doing it since then. I guess from what I guess would be the male's point of view it is tighter and why not try every hole lol?
 
I think some women with big pussies like the tightness.

Some like it because it's still taboo and it makes them feel more slutty.

Some feel like they want to do whatever pleases their man.
 
Helenv said:
Is there a special reason for this. I mean i have dated a number of men, i am married and all of the men i knew pushed me sooner or later into a position where they either very direct or laughery said they wanted to have anal sex. Just curious.
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Depends on the person. I rarely try to talk a woman into Anal sex, I just love pussy that much :D

My very first time having ANAL SEX the woman I was dating requested it.
my 2nd time having anal sex, the woman I was dating wanted to try my size - her first BBC in her ass.
My 3rd time, a 20yro UT student I hooked up with wanted me to be her first.
4th time was her 19yro friend ^^^ (peer pressure :devil:)
since then most women I am with bring it up before I do.

I think it has more to do with personality - sense of adventure - comfort level, more than anything else.
 
If a man pushes you to have anal just bring a big dildo and say you first honey , remember that a man can orgasm from anal if he is done right.
 
canadapaula said:
I think some women with big pussies like the tightness.

Some like it because it's still taboo and it makes them feel more slutty.

Some feel like they want to do whatever pleases their man.
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Tight pussy is relative to what is being put in it. If you have a cigarette sized cock I could see the appeal of anal sex.
 
Torpedo said:
Tight pussy is relative to what is being put in it. If you have a cigarette sized cock I could see the appeal of anal sex.
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iDK what the big advantage of a tight pussy would be. i am "reasonably decent" in girth and had VPs with different women with differently sized pussies. What i found out is that the feeling a tight vs. "loose" pussy can provide is different. Both are good. But honestly i can`t say one is better than the other. jm2ct`s

ImO anal sex with a woman is nice for a change. Especially, if you are "monogamous". You don`t always have to have the same kind of sexaul activity or position. i have anal sex with my girlfriend about one in 20 or 30 times we have sex. It`s nice for both of us and sometimes we just like to do it. :)
 
PartyTime108 said:
I think it's pretty much mainstream now or at least something most people try and obviously for the men most tend to enjoy it.
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More men than women for sure. And mainly due to porn and smart phones like other things. At school, you get bombed with pics and girls think that is what boys expect you to manages, sooner or later.
 
In general my wife prefers vaginal to anal. But on several occesions when she allowed it, she had a very nice experience and powerful orgasms. She actually wonders why men like anal, because she believes that women get much more out of it. She also admits that she does not like anal with me: our sex is great but alwsys vaginal. But when she is with a lover, she is more open to suggestions.
 
Because the pill is only 99% effective.
Because thanks to the regloius psychopath abortion clinics are getting hammered. (US) I know there is a god but i am not a psychopath.
Because raising a "brat" is hard. And in todays world its even tougher ie laws telling you what not to do are they broke something give them positive encouragement they beat someone positive encouragement (look it up i know a 1st grade school teacher they have to do that now), violence etc.
 
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