Anal sex can be enjoyable... it just depends on your partner and how willing they are to take their time. I personally don't do anal sex, mainly because of a situation that happened years ago, not worth going into. If a guy is pressuring you to have anal, then back off and talk about it. forsing one to do any sexual act is a no go in my book. Any type of sex should be enjoyable for all. Don't give into something you aren't wanting to do.