Anal sex: a question for the wives (poll)

Let's talk about anal sex

  • I only have anal sex with my husband.

    Votes: 52 16.9%
  • I only do anal with other men.

    Votes: 98 31.8%
  • I do anal with my husband and with other men.

    Votes: 111 36.0%
  • The first time I had anal sex with a man other than my husband was after I got married.

    Votes: 47 15.3%

  • Total voters
    308
For me anal came slow and reluctantly, we had started playing with another lady, bi and she was bringing me into her bi lifestyle, all the time my man was fucking us both, and she would always let him fuck her ass when ever he wanted, I’d let him lick and finger me but not fuck my ass, but she taught me to learn to relax and I soon let my man take my ass, I think maybe more out of jealously that he was always fucking her ass, so I gave him mine little by little more and more, when we finally starting playing with other men I reserved my ass for my husband, but in time it happened, I think I wanted DVP and our friend kept falling out and eventually he shoved it in my ass, it was my first DP and I loved it, I came almost instantly, and after that when ever we were playing with other men we’d always get around to DP or DVP I love them both, and as I evolved to only fucking black men well we all know black men love to fuck both holes, but learning to relax in the beginning was the hardest part, in time once I got used to it, and more relaxed I learned to love it, to the point of orgasms from anal sex only. Good topic,
 
When we first started living with my wife, she didn't have anal sex. But my youth was very active, and I tried many types of sex, including anal with another man. It was out of curiosity, I don't consider myself bisexual.

Also, my ex-girlfriend was very fond of anal. But my wife was against it for a long time. I opened up to her and confessed that I love anal sex,and when another man fucks me too. This was a discovery for her, and she became a little interested in this issue.

I was happy. We read anal sex forums together, watched porn. I shared my stories with her. I began to think how to get wife to like anal? Over time, she allowed me to stick my finger during sex, then a few. She shared that, as they wrote on the anal sex forums, she felt a change in sensations. Then we bought an anal plug.

As a result, the wife herself caught fire with this training. And soon I get my wife to do anal. My dick is not big, so the first training was very successful. Then my wife bought me a strap-on for my birthday. And a fun sex life began! I started getting anal only wife.

Our sex life has taken on a new shape. She said she took the advice of other women on the anal forum, and they wrote they fuck their cuckolds often. Then we started reading about cuckolding.

I got fired up with a new idea, because how to get your wife to like anal was already a milestone in our sex life.

We boldly decided to try cuckolding, because all our holes were already developed, and training and waiting for another man to fuck us in them! We registered on the site, and began to communicate with cuckolds.

Not so quickly we found a dominant man with an impressive dick. He has been a user of this site and the anal forum for a long time. After a while we started dating him. At first he fucked anal only wife, but then I was also honored to get his cock in my hole.

Soon the cuckolding was so addicted to us, that we continued to meet with other men. All of them get my wife to do anal. Soon she told me, her ass no longer belongs to me. And now I don't get my wife to do anal, but only her bulls can.

I understand that it's my medium size, and she likes other large sizes. But it turns out that I lost the opportunity to have anal sex with my wife. How to get wife to like anal with me again? And are there women who allow anal sex only to their bulls, and not to their husbands?
Not to sound mean but you did go into the cuckolding lifestyle together and denial of the husband can often be part of that lifestyle. Sounds like you two are on different pages when it comes to expectations. I'd say have an open chat with your wife and voice your concerns but be prepared that the genie might already be out of the bottle and not looking to go back in.
 
Where I'm from anal is very common. Interesting to see how other cultures have different perspectives. Ever since I moved to the US I noticed that American men want it a lot but in general most American women appear not to enjoy it in my limited experience.
i'm curious as to where you are from. what is the difference between US women & your country ladies?

do you have an idea why this exists? does anal, in your country, serve as an alternative to other forms of sex, or is it just a personal preference?
 
When we first started living with my wife, she didn't have anal sex. But my youth was very active, and I tried many types of sex, including anal with another man. It was out of curiosity, I don't consider myself bisexual.

Also, my ex-girlfriend was very fond of anal. But my wife was against it for a long time. I opened up to her and confessed that I love anal sex,and when another man fucks me too. This was a discovery for her, and she became a little interested in this issue.

I was happy. We read anal sex forums together, watched porn. I shared my stories with her. I began to think how to get wife to like anal? Over time, she allowed me to stick my finger during sex, then a few. She shared that, as they wrote on the anal sex forums, she felt a change in sensations. Then we bought an anal plug.

As a result, the wife herself caught fire with this training. And soon I get my wife to do anal. My dick is not big, so the first training was very successful. Then my wife bought me a strap-on for my birthday. And a fun sex life began! I started getting anal only wife.

Our sex life has taken on a new shape. She said she took the advice of other women on the anal forum, and they wrote they fuck their cuckolds often. Then we started reading about cuckolding.

I got fired up with a new idea, because how to get your wife to like anal was already a milestone in our sex life.

We boldly decided to try cuckolding, because all our holes were already developed, and training and waiting for another man to fuck us in them! We registered on the site, and began to communicate with cuckolds.

Not so quickly we found a dominant man with an impressive dick. He has been a user of this site and the anal forum for a long time. After a while we started dating him. At first he fucked anal only wife, but then I was also honored to get his cock in my hole.

Soon the cuckolding was so addicted to us, that we continued to meet with other men. All of them get my wife to do anal. Soon she told me, her ass no longer belongs to me. And now I don't get my wife to do anal, but only her bulls can.

I understand that it's my medium size, and she likes other large sizes. But it turns out that I lost the opportunity to have anal sex with my wife. How to get wife to like anal with me again? And are there women who allow anal sex only to their bulls, and not to their husbands?
It has been years since I have had anal sex with my husband but that is for different reasons other than simply being a cuck.
 
Coming from a strict religious family, anal was absolutely not something I was going to do- ever. And to this day, hubby has never done anal to me.
My first black bull I ever submitted to made me do anal for him. I cried like crazy when it went it but omg, after the shame and initial pain- wow. It. Is not a common thing for me to crave with any black master I submit too.
 
Coming from a strict religious family, anal was absolutely not something I was going to do- ever. And to this day, hubby has never done anal to me.
My first black bull I ever submitted to made me do anal for him. I cried like crazy when it went it but omg, after the shame and initial pain- wow. It. Is not a common thing for me to crave with any black master I submit too.
A couple more try and you get use to it
 
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