White Stag, Hotwife and black lover relationships.
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I'm not submissive at all and I think this is what our (with gf) relationship will involve. I think she's almost ready to bring the fantasy to reality with more thought on her part. To me, I don't want to know the particulars to the physical actions as long as she's happy and fulfilled.
She's expressed only one Black man because she's passionate and requires some emotional bonding. That's ok with me also. I think from all the IR porn we've been watching she thinks the Black man is sexually superior to White men so she wants to explore that aspect.
She also likes to bareback so I'm kind of getting used to that. I don't know what to do if she wound up pregnant with a Black baby on the way.
She's expressed only one Black man because she's passionate and requires some emotional bonding. That's ok with me also. I think from all the IR porn we've been watching she thinks the Black man is sexually superior to White men so she wants to explore that aspect.
She also likes to bareback so I'm kind of getting used to that. I don't know what to do if she wound up pregnant with a Black baby on the way.
I have been sexually submissive since my teens, so going black-only was an easy transition for me, as I had been watching her with other men throughout our marriage. The biggest change was previously she was the Domme and I submitted to her, which included sexually servicing the men under her direction. Now, although still my Domme, she has become submissive to black men, and the black men dominate me too.
tommyjames
Male
Not "naturally". If a husband has a submissive trait to him then it will be more natural. I'm a stag and not submissive at all. But I enjoy kicking back and watching my wife be pleasured by others. The black aspect is there because of the contrast of skin and the "taboo fantasy" surrounding it. It makes her excited, so it makes me excited. But it also drives my alpha instinct to compete. So she gets fucked harder and rougher by me during times that she is "being naughty". Its a natural competitiveness for those of us on the alpha stag side. You want to stay in shape more, hit the gym more, compete more.
So really, it depends on the man.
So really, it depends on the man.
Too each his own, but I don't really care to watch. That's just me. I'm not really sure how we got into the Black man thing (didn't happen yet) but she likes the black dildo and IR porn. Maybe because of taboo thing like you said,,,,,,, maybe gf is just interested in a much larger, and thicker cock which she thinks every Black man has. She handles the dildo quite well.
She told me she would want a Black lover that she can take when she wants because she's intimate like that. Likes to kiss and cuddle but pushes me away during IR porn. I get the hint.
tommyjames
Male
yeah that is how mine was at first with the black thing. She was thinking they all had BBC's. She found out it wasn't the truth, but the taboo aspect of the kink is what does it for her.
She only wants one Black man so hopefully he'll be able to compete with the Big, black dildo. I certainly can't compete with it and the white dildo can't compete either. Unfortunately, the Black dildo is getting more sex than me.
tommyjames
Male
lol. we have a big one that get used occasionally because its so big. but nothing compares to it. except the Hitachi wand. Good luck!
