What If She Falls In Love With Her Bull?

I believe I've had romantic feelings for many of my lovers over the years. You can't help how you feel. I've also been blessed with a loving, understanding husband and realize how lucky I am to enjoy the best of both worlds.

thats great to hear soccer...i make sure when i get involved with a couple that the husband knows i am not trying to get rid of him, i am just better in bed. And i have to remind the wife that feelings are ok, but reality is that her husband is a much better husband than i could ever be to her.
 
Reality is not linear, for sure. But each story is different. About 10 years ago my wife met a white guy, a doctor actually. First time they went out, she called me asking - do I have your permission? I sure said Yes. And she was hooked up from the start. Apparently, he was a good lover and had a much larger dick. Life became miserable for a while. She could not get enough of him. Said she was falling in love. Then he invited her for two week holiday in Mauricious. For me it was hell. I was overexcited and scared. Did not want to lose her. But the result was amazing. She returned fully cured. Said he absolutely screwed her head off, but she realized it was not in love but lust. We remained happily married, and she occasionally meets with him to have fun.
 
Reality is not linear, for sure. But each story is different. About 10 years ago my wife met a white guy, a doctor actually. First time they went out, she called me asking - do I have your permission? I sure said Yes. And she was hooked up from the start. Apparently, he was a good lover and had a much larger dick. Life became miserable for a while. She could not get enough of him. Said she was falling in love. Then he invited her for two week holiday in Mauricious. For me it was hell. I was overexcited and scared. Did not want to lose her. But the result was amazing. She returned fully cured. Said he absolutely screwed her head off, but she realized it was not in love but lust. We remained happily married, and she occasionally meets with him to have fun.
thats a great story
and thats the same experiences i encourage with the wives i fuck. I know they love their husband and this is just for fun and fling...also, most women that fuck me are trying a big cock for the first time, so i know that going in
 
I'm no expert, but I've studied this stuff for quite awhile. The hang ups you describe are based on values, culture and traditions associated with america's puritanical legacy . Other societies function very well under plural relationships. People in this country are breaking from these traditions because they have found them to be burdensome or outright lies and since they no longer suit their needs they are free to pursue that which makes them happy.
Reality is not made of binary truths or black and white ideas. You are dealing in absolutes by taking your answer as truth and excluding all other possibilities.
I'm going to provide some links concerning Polyamory.

http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/26/living/relationships-polyamory/index.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/polyamorous/
http://polyamorysociety.org/
http://www.newsweek.com/polyamory-next-sexual-revolution-82053
http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/07/multiple-lovers-no-jealousy/374697/
http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/video/polyamory-end-marriage-21013545
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-without-limits/201008/why-do-people-choose-polyamory
Nice share
 
My ex wife and I fell in love with one of our regulars! He was an amazing guy and we all got along so well. We talked about a possible poly relationship with him since he was single and we had this awesome connection! My ex had the best sex with him and I and she seemed to be the happiest those days we were all together! She didn't leave me for him, I didn't know at the time she was seeing some other jerk who pretty much was destroying our relationship and when I found out I wasn't happy! She did stop seeing him but a lot of damage was done and we tried counseling but she wasn't in to it and stopped going after 2 sessions! Feelings do get involved with the lifestyle. If you have regulars there will always be some kind of bond and some feelings! If the guy who is fucking your wife is cool and acts like a long lost friend it can be a great feeling for everyone! When the guy is a dick and starts getting between you and your wife/gf you have to cut that ******* out fast! Plenty of other awesome men out there to become friends with and fuck your wives or gf's! Just some of my experiences and thoughts!
 
It is possible to have romantic feelings for your boyfriend and still love your husband.....love them both...just a little differently

When I brought the topic up to my wife about her sleeping with a black man and she said okay I got around to asking if she knew of anybody. She said there was this one guy and she spoke very fondly of him.
I asked her about him and she mentioned the fact they had worked together for quite some time together (4 years) before he left for another casino so she had a chance to get to know him; She said he was good looking, tall, very charming and fawned over her quite a bit.
I picked up this vibe from her and asked if she had any "feelings" for him. I knew this was a gotcha/trap type question so I said to her please be honest and that nothing she said was going to upset me.
She admitted she had this thing for him and it was because here was this huge black guy going out of his way to make me feel special and it was impossible not to be taken in by him on some level. She said this was the first time anything like this had happened to her and it happened gradually.
I brought up had she ever thought about him sexually prior to me asking her to sleep with a black man and she said there were times he gave her pause to contemplate what a night would be like with him.
I admitted I enjoyed hearing she liked the guy prior to all of this and told her this is going to sound weird but I had to ask her a question. I said I know we talked about you sleeping with a black man but this connection you have with this guy leads me to believe, although I could be wrong, you two could be lovers. I let that sink in for a second while I worked up some nerve then came out and asked could it be possible this could be more than just sex between you two at some point in bed.
My wife was forthright and said if it was this guy, his name is Isaac by the way, there would be emotions involved. I asked could you take him as a lover, I mean make love to him? She answered, in the simplest terms, if it's Isaac you can count on us making love to each other.

There you have it: Truth between a husband and wife
 
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My Filipina wife is 28 years younger than me, and has a much stronger libido. My preference of having sex only 2-3 times a month left her feeling frustrated. Almost 2 years ago, with my blessing, she started dating a half-black guy around her age. Although my wife and I have sex a couple of times a month, her boyfriend has become her primary sex partner, and stays the night with us most weekends, and sometimes during the week.
My wife is deeply in love with her boyfriend, and they do many non-sexual activities together. I love seeing them cuddle together on the sofa, and whisper "I love you" or "mahal kita" to each other. However, I have never felt that my wife's love for her boyfriend has diminished her love for me. Indeed, in Filipino culture, marriage is a very important institution.
 
That's why you select the bulls carefully. My wife is 52 years old and has a bull who is 24. He also shares her with friends who are the same age as him. We figure that there is a slim chance that a 24 year old black guy will want anything more from a 52 year old white Jewish woman than to fuck her.
ohhhhhh!!
 
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