Who said anything about being young? I said when you get more mature. What are you 40??
so unless you tell me you're a 70 year old guy...
sit down and pay attention.
First, your profile is not verified. So don't give me "we" stuff...there is no we. You are on here by yourself.
For anyone reading this - I give advice for couples that don't want to end up divorced.
This guy can do whatever he wants to do - that's his choice.
But the odds are that his relationship is going to fall apart.
People expect me to give them good advice -- the fact you disagree with the advice -- is your prerogative, but don't jeopardize other people's relationships - just because you want to do your own thing.
Stop thinking about yourself when you read other people's comments that are trying to be helpful.