Hi there,
I am chatting here with a husband since one month now. We discussed all our fantasies and he is excited as well.
My main issue is: I don't know where to meet for the first time?
My plan was to go for a walk and then ******* something.. where it will transition to me touching her and kissing... etc
I am not black, I am turkish and we live in austria in Europe. where people are not that much open like in States...
I only was once in a swingerclub and it was obvious that she was into me, that was a huge indicator why I went to her and start a conversation.
But in this case I do not know her at all--- and I am 33 and she is 43 which is not a problem but I am still a bit nervous and do not know how/where to start--
Is there any structure about the first time.. should I only talk about sexual (obviously?) topics? #
or should I just be my self? But I guess I have to lead the convo... here?
Should I meet them all 2 ? or just with her alone?
I am bit confused how to make an overall structure... since he expects me doing everything. He just wants to experience it passively. which is okay. but I do not even know her...
I am chatting here with a husband since one month now. We discussed all our fantasies and he is excited as well.
My main issue is: I don't know where to meet for the first time?
My plan was to go for a walk and then ******* something.. where it will transition to me touching her and kissing... etc
I am not black, I am turkish and we live in austria in Europe. where people are not that much open like in States...
I only was once in a swingerclub and it was obvious that she was into me, that was a huge indicator why I went to her and start a conversation.
But in this case I do not know her at all--- and I am 33 and she is 43 which is not a problem but I am still a bit nervous and do not know how/where to start--
Is there any structure about the first time.. should I only talk about sexual (obviously?) topics? #
or should I just be my self? But I guess I have to lead the convo... here?
Should I meet them all 2 ? or just with her alone?
I am bit confused how to make an overall structure... since he expects me doing everything. He just wants to experience it passively. which is okay. but I do not even know her...