My wife and I have amazing sex...always have. Opening our marriage didn't "save it". That is not what it is designed to do. You have to be on solid footing to open up. Opening really brought us closer together and it makes life easier. I can't pound her out the way she likes, so, open marriage. We would love to have a bull in our lives, someone that cares about us and visa versa. Someone who understands his role in our marriage and his place in it. I wish that she would fuck more men, but it is hard where we live to find like minded people.