Have any of you fucked the prim/proper/shy/soccer mom/"dedicated wife" types? If so how did it happen? Did you make the first move/try to seduce her or did they approach you? If you've had both occur which do you find more hot? Targeting a "taken woman" and persuading her to give in to temptation and abandoning her marital vows or the woman who is taking a big risk to get what she really wants but hasn't been able to have? My wife is one of these types but her approaching a black guy or any guy to hook something up is not in her nature. Just wondering how I can put her in an environment where one of you guys would make a move. Thanks. By the way I know many black guys would appreciate a "sign" from a wife that she is open to your possible advances, but very few will wear the spades or BBC ankle charm. My advice is to just talk to more married women, in a nice and slyly flirtatious way. Take it from this long time married guy, women crave excitement, really like feeling attractive to the opposite sex, don't get nearly enough compliments, and generally like feeling wanted. I've had more than one woman I have dated and even my wife tell me: "Yeah I know you think I'm sexy, and I appreciate that, but it's still exciting and a confidence boost to know that another man finds me attractive. So, I would find a way to strike up a conversation keep it light and playful, then say something like, "I don't want to seem to forward, but it's always been my belief that a compliment not shared is really a waste and a shame, I just wanted to say that you are really sexy. Your husband is such a lucky guy.... You are married, right? <flashing a big smile> "well that's good for you and him, not so much for me."