YES YOUR RIGHT
It does sound strange and I think its fantasy
When a divorce happens a few thinks happen that the rest of us over look.
Friends are decided up into his and hers. There are no both.
Homes are sold and families are divided up. Yes I know good ******* in fact I know great fathers. However they are not in the majority. Not by a long shot. They are later picking up ******* for the weekend or have to return the, early. They are late with cheque’s both types. Any thing to make their ex wife life miserable.
This is not to say the ladies are any better.
Three of the divorced ladies I know had a clause in the divorce that stated they had to submit a copy of their phone bill each month to see who she was talking to. The same was true with their web browser.
That is were I first came in. Loaned out my lap top to a lady in the library. One thing led to another and she had a personal email her ex did not know about. A few months later she asked if she could borrow my cell phone to call her new boy friend.
As for trophy wives and not all of them are slim big boobed bomb shells. They are a different breed in that they can suffer a long time with out physical contact. A dumb husband can quickly become and ex husband with half his stuff gone. I know of one old guy that had to have a doctors note to keep his family from suing him for being out of his mind.
Once I helped one lady she told another over wine told in her circle. And so on. The lady I wrote about is forty and her husband is eighty five and lived in an assisted living home due to brittle bones. Do that mean they don’t have a loving relationship? No I don’t think so. She is there for breakfast and dinner with him most nights. While he naps she go to the gym and is one of the ladies that does lunch.
Her hook ups are very discreet. Have a very public part to them. What can people say about friends taking in a dance competition, or a day of sailing, or a day at the park. A descreet dinner with friends. A game of golf.
The hotels are never in her name or his name.
You would be surprised by the number of male friends that will help out a lady or a couple.
I have noticed that a lot of these notes are told with no in put from the bull / boy friend. It’s almost as if they have no thoughts on the matter. These guys are human. They have wants and desires. Things they want to try. However no one seems to ask.
Be it a wedding dress, silk stockings and garter belt, daisy dukes.
These are guys that are not there for an hour but for a night or even a weekend.
These are guys that want someone discrete around to do the little things.