we regularly go out with our BBC as a threesome and him and the wife get more and more intimate as the night goes on. the first time we went out we had been in a few bars and we just looked like 3 friends enjoying a night out. in one of the bars it was a little crowded so mrs inked and our bbc were pushed up against each other whilst I was getting served at the bar, she was facing him as I was facing the bar but her one hand was behind her back holding my hand, she began to kiss him whilst still holding my hand, I noticed a couple looking over from a table and it was obvious from the look on the females face that they knew what was happening, they even smiled knowingly over to us, it at first felt weird but soon passed as it really turned me on, I got hard standing at the bar lol. later in a club the same couple got talking to us and mrs inked just told them that I was her husband and he was her pleasure, they loved the fact that we was all ok with it. we even have holidayed together in the Algarve and everywhere we went mrs inked would be straight to the point that she was my wife and our friend was her lover, not once have we had anyone comment badly about our set up in fact quite the opposite, everyone from younger people to older people have been approving about it, yes had lots of questions about the emotional side and jealousy issues but not one as judged us negatively, or if they have , not to our faces. one of the pre requisites if we meet a new bbc theses days is that they are ok with public displays when we meet. it does not feel humiliating to me and mrs inked as never said its made her feel that way, I feel proud that she feels she can enjoy herself in public and we don't judge others, we enjoy what we do, it might not be for everyone and we don't try and convert anyone