Is the BBC cuckolding lifestyle becoming normalized before our eyes?
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Definitely existed 20+ years ago, but less in the open. I remember reading in the Autobiography of Malcolm X that in his pre-Muslim life, he and his friends would meet white married couples. The cuckolds would watch as Malcolm X and his friends did the wives. That must have occurred in the 1940s or 1950s, I think in NYC. In the book, Malcolm X expressed puzzlement about why white men would enjoy seeing their wives with Black men. He thought it was perverse.
Today, such cuckoldry is increasingly desired and talked about with the anonymity of the internet, although I am not sure it is popular among the majority of married people.
Oh I know it was longer than that. Probably for a long time even back in the 1800s and beyond. It's just that in my time on the planet, it's been in my life. The way I discovered it was like many today discover it, through porn. But this was back in the 90s where it wasn't the internet, it was through my parents extensive porn collection. They had a bunch of hardcore magazines and VHS tapes. So that's when it sparked my interest. When I met my soon-to-be husband, he had a similar experience. In a weird, and some may say sad, way, it bonded us early on. There was never any doubt I would be fucking only black men, but my husband didn't want it any other way. He is what they used to call Asperger's, and his form of sexuality has always centered around porn and watching. So much so, that we knew sexual intimacy would be tough as he just couldn't get hard other than watching porn. But in every other way, we were a perfect match. In our weird world, we kinda found each other and it's been like that for going on 22 years.
Since then, btw, I've gotten 4 friends into the lifestyle. Two of them ended up divorced, one cucks her husband, and the other just straight-up cheats behind his back. Then again, I've had two other friends that just flat out didn't want anything to do with that. So again, it's not for everyone and it's not THAT widely accepted....yet.
Your life story is cool. I wish that I had meet someone like you early in life. I don't have Asperger's. I just wish that I knew a woman in my youth with whom to honestly talk about sex, our desires, and potentially become lifelong partners in the lifestyle. Thanks for sharing your story.
I don’t think there is anything temporary about it. It’s been big undercover for years and now times have changed and feel they can talk about it more openly. I don’t personally see it going away.
Agreed. It's obvious if you spend any time at all in forums where this is discussed, as well as if you spend any time at all watching the amateur IR porn that gets posted on various porn sites, it is becoming far, far more common. It's become a LOT more acceptable for IR couples to be out and about. You're right. It's not going away any time soon.
2cruzinforvull
Couple
We have seen is become more accepted in our life. In the early 80’s when I listened to my Mom fuck a black guy, it was extremely taboo. They kept it hidden. When my Wife and I were married and later took the plunge, she wanted it kept a secret because she was afraid we would be shunned. But we knew another couple doing the same thing at the time, one of our adult offspring is into swinging with 2 other couples. All men are black. They don’t even keep it a secret. She tells my Wife about it all the time. Times are changing.
Portlandacdc
Male
After my last relationship ended, I did what we did in 2022 - got on apps, Tinder and Bumble. I paid for the subscription for each so I could pick who saw my face, wrote honest profiles and told myself I wasn't going to be overly picky as I got back out there. If she seemed sane, relatively attractive and relatively normal, I'd meet. Just to see.
The first woman I met was a bit younger than me, getting divorced, had ******* and we met on Bumble. We met near her home in a small pub, and talked, and neither sex nor kink had been broached before meeting in person. She was thick/BBW, white, hair dyed a pretty shade of faux purple, and showed cleavage.
She was divorcing a boring, emotionally distant man, and very much looking to explore life. To live. To be a woman, and the desire to be fucked well was clearly something she had not enjoyed during her marriage.
As we talked, and shared our experiences, experiences that hinted around sex but were not directly sexual, she just came out with her first experience post-separation was with a "BBC with a PhD."
No real lead up. She just said it. No explanation. That they met, and she experienced a "BBC with a PhD."
Completely normal, as if she had dated a tall guy or some other trait we all know. She expected that I would know what BBC meant, and she put that before the PhD (which is a whole other topic - a PhD is a pretty high achievement and came second in her description).
To her, it was normalized to the point of conversation in a first meeting with a successful white man. She took Big Black Cock and was proud of it.
I did not pursue a connection. I started in her cleavage and imagined a key, and potential, but I was too fresh and too new to being single. And the fact that her lawyer is a good friend of mine made it too ...close to home.
Bit those words ring true ... "BBC with a PhD."
The first woman I met was a bit younger than me, getting divorced, had ******* and we met on Bumble. We met near her home in a small pub, and talked, and neither sex nor kink had been broached before meeting in person. She was thick/BBW, white, hair dyed a pretty shade of faux purple, and showed cleavage.
She was divorcing a boring, emotionally distant man, and very much looking to explore life. To live. To be a woman, and the desire to be fucked well was clearly something she had not enjoyed during her marriage.
As we talked, and shared our experiences, experiences that hinted around sex but were not directly sexual, she just came out with her first experience post-separation was with a "BBC with a PhD."
No real lead up. She just said it. No explanation. That they met, and she experienced a "BBC with a PhD."
Completely normal, as if she had dated a tall guy or some other trait we all know. She expected that I would know what BBC meant, and she put that before the PhD (which is a whole other topic - a PhD is a pretty high achievement and came second in her description).
To her, it was normalized to the point of conversation in a first meeting with a successful white man. She took Big Black Cock and was proud of it.
I did not pursue a connection. I started in her cleavage and imagined a key, and potential, but I was too fresh and too new to being single. And the fact that her lawyer is a good friend of mine made it too ...close to home.
Bit those words ring true ... "BBC with a PhD."
It’s funny hearing all this exploding into mainstream talk. Nothing is exploding into mainstream. That’s why they call it mainstream. LGBT is all over the place. Everyone that wants to virtue signal waves the pride flag. Companies and corporates fall all over themselves to tell you how supportive they are. We have laws passed in Congress protecting it. They talk about LGBT on the news and work it into tv programs. It couldn’t possibly be pushed more than it is and still statistics show that under 10% of people identify as LGBT. It’s said that worldwide it is between 1-4% and here in the U.S. it is 6%. I severely doubt that cuckold relationships will ever top 2%.
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