In my experience men that are married want the sex without the emotional commitment. I can understand that, I don't want to break up a marriage nor be the cause of one ending, but I love the physical act minus the emotional entanglements. It's that immediate sexual gratification that we both want. I'm not going to stalk and married men don't want to lose that comfort of being marraige. One affair I had with a boss lasted a few years. He was more then twice my age and married with children older then I was, but we gave each other that mutual sexual satisfaction we both needed. He loved his wife and would never leave her, however, I think he needed the aggressive sex we had that he would never ask for or get from his wife. He repeatedly use to say "his wife's lips were the ones that kissed their children". I understood what he was telling me, she was precious, I was his whore.