Ladies . . . Do you care if the man you have sex with is married?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Threedecadecuck, Jun 19, 2013.

  1. Threedecadecuck

    Threedecadecuck Active Member

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    I used to try to not have sex with married men because I felt it was wrong. I felt that it was wrong for me to possibly have a negative affect on the man's relationship with his wife.

    After I met my hubby, those thoughts changed. Now I have sex with any man who wants me, whether he is married or not. I now feel that his relationship between the man or men I have sex with and their wives is their thing and not of my concern.

    What are your thoughts?
     
  2. jd2234irl

    jd2234irl Active Member

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    dont ask them are they married, then i am not making them lie!!
    that is between them and there partners
    i want there hard black superior cocks not a affair
     
  3. dawn42

    dawn42 Active Member

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    its not my job to ask if they are married,im there as an escort,for company,and possibly a sexual partner
     
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  4. Ann4BBC

    Ann4BBC Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I don't think I've been with a married guy (unless he's not told me the truth!) but have been with men who have partners and children. In my particular case I quite like it as its in their interest to keep it a secret as much as mine! So they don't go putting pics on their Facebook or other internet stuff.
    I think as well they like having a 'slut' on the side who dress and do things their partners won't do (or they don't want their partners to). Wearing sexy underwear, see through dresses and taking it up the ass to name a few examples!
     
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  5. dawn42

    dawn42 Active Member

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    same here........married guys have so much to loose,they keep quiet,and no strings attached
     
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  6. mlnblnh

    mlnblnh Active Member

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    no
     
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  7. funlvncuck

    funlvncuck Member

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    I feel like it's not right unless that couple has an open relationship and both are totally aware. I'm happy the threesome with in love, open couples, but secrecy is stressful to me and I don't enjoy an unfaithful attached man.
     
  8. northsb

    northsb Active Member

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    Could care less. I don't know that I've even checked on any of the men I have been with regarding their status. I'm not looking to steal any woman's man, just a good fuck
     
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  9. Sexy Redhead

    Sexy Redhead Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Me and my black boss are both married. We travel together and go to conferences for the weekend and sometimes a couple days during the week. We have hooked up a few times together and he is great. Pretty sure his wife doesn't have a clue but my hubby probably has a good idea me and him have messed around. But I haven't told him. Did send my hubby this pic late one night. Told my hubby me and my boss was heading to the hot tub and have some wine. It was a rough long day we had. My hubby's response was I bet he will like looking at my big boobs. Oh he did before and after my top come off. image.jpg
     
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  10. BethLuvsBBConly

    BethLuvsBBConly Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    The black man we see is in a sexless marriage, so we provide each other what we crave.
     
  11. hotjen

    hotjen Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    well said hun xxxx
     
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  12. HZCouple

    HZCouple New Member

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    Honestly I dont mind, im on a dont ask dont tell policy.
     
  13. MisterPussyPleaser

    MisterPussyPleaser Well-Known Member Real Person

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    Exactly.
     
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  14. dawn42

    dawn42 Active Member

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    As i said before,it dont bother me if the guy is single or married,its his cock i want,however married guys maybe a safer bet as they have more to loose and its a no strings sexual affair.
     
  15. Sunshine girl

    Sunshine girl Active Member

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    There was a time I would never think of it. But being in a sexless marriage has led to me to the understanding that things can be complicated and they may be just trying to satisfy themselves without tearing apart a family over sex.

    A man's relationship with his wife is none of my business. I may ask questions to understand the man, but there is no judgement.
     
  16. Bustyhotwife

    Bustyhotwife Active Member

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    Prefer married, safer, hotter.
    Had my first married man when I was 18 and he was 28 in their marriage bed.
     
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  17. MisterPussyPleaser

    MisterPussyPleaser Well-Known Member Real Person

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    I definitely prefer married as well for the same reasons. I just want to feel some different pussy and hearing different moans from time to time. I'm never leaving my wife.
     
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  18. RandC

    RandC Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    Never cared...prefer them actually..I hate drama
     
  19. desertcpl

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    we used to worry about this, but any more, and really for the most part, we prefer married men
     
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  20. jdflacpl

    jdflacpl Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    one of the big rules my wife has is "he must be single" The 2nd black guy she had turned out to be married his wife found out thankfully the phone number in his phone was mine so I took the fall out and not her. If it had been her I doubt we would have made it to #3
     
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