I understand that, this is what he wants as well.
But the question was what if he doesn't want it anymore. What if he wants you for himself.
Maybe saying if you don't quit, I will file.
If your Husband / Boyfriend tells you to stop cuckolding him, will you stop
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But the question was what if he doesn't want it anymore. What if he wants you for himself.
Maybe saying if you don't quit, I will file.
Prior communication is always necessary no matter the circumstances, some men are totally inadequate are meant to be cuckolds and surrender their wife or girlfriend to a more SUPERIOR ALPHA male.
For an inadequate husband, boyfriend no matter the reason, it could be his lack of size or he always ejaculates to quick or has no passion and can't satisfy his woman's desire.
When such a couple is already attached or even married and the male wants his partner to engage in a cuckold fetish, purely for his sexual gratification and not necessarily for hers, it typically does not end well. Most women do not understand why their committed partner would want another man to have sex with her after they have committed themselves to one another.
If there was no prior discussion or agreement regarding their roles and boundaries, he just springs it on her, it's destined to fail. Without the necessary communication the intimacy part of their relationship will break down. Occasionally a wife or girlfriend will go along with this cuckold relationship to please him or herself, because she has an open mind and the actual realistic need to finally be sexually satisfied. When the man has not acknowledged any of his inadequacies nor has she ever expressed to him that she is not fully satisfied and the sole purpose for pursuing because he wants to see her with another man. Unfortunately when there has not been any substantive discussion or communication about each other's role, or why they are actually considering the cuckold lifestyle, it usually spells disaster. Under these circumstances she discovers she harbors resentment towards her mate because he still wants her to respond to him as her man, like he is her primary lover, he wants to be the male in charge when the ALPHA male is not present . He is not willing to give up his role and become a submissive cuckold, now she is no longer able to respond to him as the primary lover, she feels torn between two men, when realistically her husband was an inadequate cuckold to begin with but that was never discussed. More often than not, she takes off with the other man because she needs him for her sexual satisfaction and there was never any confusion as to his role as the man.
For an inadequate husband, boyfriend no matter the reason, it could be his lack of size or he always ejaculates to quick or has no passion and can't satisfy his woman's desire.
When such a couple is already attached or even married and the male wants his partner to engage in a cuckold fetish, purely for his sexual gratification and not necessarily for hers, it typically does not end well. Most women do not understand why their committed partner would want another man to have sex with her after they have committed themselves to one another.
If there was no prior discussion or agreement regarding their roles and boundaries, he just springs it on her, it's destined to fail. Without the necessary communication the intimacy part of their relationship will break down. Occasionally a wife or girlfriend will go along with this cuckold relationship to please him or herself, because she has an open mind and the actual realistic need to finally be sexually satisfied. When the man has not acknowledged any of his inadequacies nor has she ever expressed to him that she is not fully satisfied and the sole purpose for pursuing because he wants to see her with another man. Unfortunately when there has not been any substantive discussion or communication about each other's role, or why they are actually considering the cuckold lifestyle, it usually spells disaster. Under these circumstances she discovers she harbors resentment towards her mate because he still wants her to respond to him as her man, like he is her primary lover, he wants to be the male in charge when the ALPHA male is not present . He is not willing to give up his role and become a submissive cuckold, now she is no longer able to respond to him as the primary lover, she feels torn between two men, when realistically her husband was an inadequate cuckold to begin with but that was never discussed. More often than not, she takes off with the other man because she needs him for her sexual satisfaction and there was never any confusion as to his role as the man.
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jadeeyz70
Female
Perfectly said! Husband and I feel the exact same way. We're taking this journey as a couple.
Holo2
Couple
Most cucks here want it to be a one way street. My gf is training me very wel in obedience and to follow up her orders. If I would ever ask her to stop seeing other men (real men she likes to call them) she would say NO and that would be final.
Of course it is, but most cucks still like to have a wife/partner at home for love and companionship, not to be living at her lovers house for days or months at a time. If that happened to me, I'd call a time out and if she didn't agree to end the relationship with her bull then we would be done. This lifestyle is to enhance the husband and wife relationship, not replace it.
Hurricane832
Male
Hi Jamie,
I can't DM you because of the forum rules, but I've seen someone posting your pics on reddit. If it's not you, and you're curious, DM me
It's mean you easily divorce your husband,you have no value of love for hubby over sex,means your bull and lover more important than husband.
Thanks God i meet one wife,who purely deep love for husband,all other wife said no,
What sound advice, could not of put it better myself
Yes for sure it's more specifically the cuckold dynamic than the Hot Wife lifestyle where the husband or boyfriend is more on equal levels sexually.
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I like your answer and it is reasonable for you as a couple but not for me and my current girlfriend. Nor would it have applied for me and my wife of 38 years who has passed away. She would never have given it up, and we loved each other with great depth and commitment it was a very solid relationship. She was always the BLACK MANS woman and promised me she would always be my wife until death due us part, and that is exactly what happened.
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ChristyandJake
Couple
My husband has asked me to stop seeing my black lovers ugh
Will you? Could you?
ChristyandJake
Couple
I've tried to stop and couldn't before but I promise him I would this time
Yeah, okay!
ChristyandJake
Couple
Lol I know right I don't think my husband believes me either
Maybe he just wants a break? Has the lifestyle been a source of conflict between you?
We play in all kinds of ways (not so much at present, as business responsibilities are consuming our lives this summer), but whether it is hotwifing or cuckolding, both of us need to be in it 100% or it doesn't work.
So, if he's not comfortable, then it stops - and we talk and work it out.
So, if he's not comfortable, then it stops - and we talk and work it out.
