We are definitely closer, it is something that we can share together for weeks on end, sometimes longer. - Leehad a discussion with the wife this morning so I'm asking a question that we disagree on
We are definitely closer, it is something that we can share together for weeks on end, sometimes longer. - Leehad a discussion with the wife this morning so I'm asking a question that we disagree on
Good question. I found it hard to choose from the answers given as none exactly fit. We are still very much in love but things have changed. I would compare it to a newly married couple who have their first baby, they still love each other but have a third person in their relationship now to consider and things wont be the same again.
Good thing is, we can as a couple decide to stop this lifestyle if we choose to, knowing when to do that is the most important thing.
Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.Ann. This was an answer in 2014. Has anything changed
Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.
Sexually I can not be satisfied by hubby now at all, I open too much and am too wet so can’t really feel him. But all is good and we still enjoying it. X
To be honest we did experiment with feminisation and cuck etc, that’s still a road we’re on.Ann,
You mentioned a while ago you & your husband were trying to reconnect physically/sexually.
Even if it's not physically fulfilling is he engaging you now and wanting intercourse? (You seemed to mention he wasn't there yet)
What does your husband say about intercourse with you, even if just for intimacy? I'm interested what your discussions about that have been...
Best wishes
To be honest we did experiment with feminisation and cuck etc, that’s still a road we’re on.
As far as our sexuality goes we do try and have full sex now and again but, even with Viagara he just doesn’t satisfy me. I am a lot looser/wider now, especially when I’m turned on, so his cock doesn’t really touch my sides, certainly no friction. I don’t stop him trying with me but if he’s struggling to satisfy me it’s no fun for either of us.
So we spend more time him fingering me, me jerking him off.
But we have a lot of sexy fun and playing so it’s still good!
People that add additional people to their intimate lives usually do so for one of two reasons. Either to fix perceived problems in their relationship or to add something to a solid relationship. In your case it appears that you and your wife have a solid relationship. At least by your accounts you are open and honest with each others and the extracurricular sex adds some spice to a good marriage.I notice half of the respondents to this question responded that their marriage was over or they were no longer having sex with their spouse.
I wonder how many of these couples, if they had the choice to relive their decision/action, would repeat their choices?
If the couple entered into a inter-racial relationship, was that decision to do so a mutual decision, or chosen by one side of the partnership?
Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.
Sexually I can not be satisfied by hubby now at all, I open too much and am too wet so can’t really feel him. But all is good and we still enjoying it. X
Ann! You say that your hubby does not satisfy you anymore, how often do you have sex with the bull?Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.
Sexually I can not be satisfied by hubby now at all, I open too much and am too wet so can’t really feel him. But all is good and we still enjoying it. X
Not as often as I should, I get very horny! XAnn! You say that your hubby does not satisfy you anymore, how often do you have sex with the bull?
Not as often as I should, I get very horny! X
Much better hubby is more attentive eats my kitty soooo much better lol. Oh and I don't fuck him or any of his friends anymore, only BBC for me. Hubby does get a bj now and then as he looks at my married cheating owned snowbunny pussy.
Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.
Sexually I can not be satisfied by hubby now at all, I open too much and am too wet so can’t really feel him. But all is good and we still enjoying it. X
I think we took it further - but ultimately the same. He really got addicted to it. I wasnt bothered, but when i started to enjoy it, he started to question if it was the right thing. But 'pandora's box' was open and i didnt want it closed. And although the degradation was not what he imagined, it was still enough of a turn on for him to want to continue. I mean, i would give my lover a blow job, and go straight home and kiss him, and i know he really hated what i was making him do, but the whole scenario was too strong to make him bail out. Even at the end - and god, it got much more severe- it was me that finished it, not him. He would have gone on forever. I couldnt do it to him.
How has the lifestyle changed your marriage/relationship?
The lifestyle has drawn us closer. We love each other more now than ever before. We did start out as swingers. It definitely enhanced our marriage. We would always have a lot of sex after we had played with others. It then morphed into us having just threesomes, two guys and me. We both loved this. Then we discovered BBC, I got hooked and so did hubby. He loved seeing me with Black men. During deployments I played and wrote about the experience and sent them to hubby. He loved it. Once he came home we still had sex, and it was good but not like with a Black man. Hubby told me one day, that he could never make me cum like a Black man can and he was glad I was having great orgasms. With some medical issues in the last couple of years, that has led to us not having intercourse. I still cuddle and jerk my husband off. If we have intercourse, he is cumming very quickly. We have found with me playing with his dick, it prolongs his sexual pleasure and it is fun to get him to the point of orgasm then backing off. We have an even better marriage today than just a few years ago.
Married in 91 started in the lifestyle 2013 XHow many.....years between. .....BLACK. DICK. BAPTISM ....AND, WEDDING.....CEREMONY
thanks for honest words, i ll would love to hear more true word from married women, i cant feel my hubby, i ll open to much, i need big cocks, yet i ll love him...sometimes its so hard for wife to say those wonderfull words...Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.
Sexually I can not be satisfied by hubby now at all, I open too much and am too wet so can’t really feel him. But all is good and we still enjoying it. X
love you sweet...To be honest we did experiment with feminisation and cuck etc, that’s still a road we’re on.
As far as our sexuality goes we do try and have full sex now and again but, even with Viagara he just doesn’t satisfy me. I am a lot looser/wider now, especially when I’m turned on, so his cock doesn’t really touch my sides, certainly no friction. I don’t stop him trying with me but if he’s struggling to satisfy me it’s no fun for either of us.
So we spend more time him fingering me, me jerking him off.
But we have a lot of sexy fun and playing so it’s still good!