We are definitely closer, it is something that we can share together for weeks on end, sometimes longer. - Lee
How has the lifestyle affected your relationship with your spouse
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Ann. This was an answer in 2014. Has anything changed
Good question. Me and hubby are still very much in love, a happy couple. And, despite my family knowing all this, our family is happy too.
Sexually I can not be satisfied by hubby now at all, I open too much and am too wet so can’t really feel him. But all is good and we still enjoying it. X
hotcouple2233
Couple
Ann,
You mentioned a while ago you & your husband were trying to reconnect physically/sexually.
Even if it's not physically fulfilling is he engaging you now and wanting intercourse? (You seemed to mention he wasn't there yet)
What does your husband say about intercourse with you, even if just for intimacy? I'm interested what your discussions about that have been...
Best wishes
To be honest we did experiment with feminisation and cuck etc, that’s still a road we’re on.
As far as our sexuality goes we do try and have full sex now and again but, even with Viagara he just doesn’t satisfy me. I am a lot looser/wider now, especially when I’m turned on, so his cock doesn’t really touch my sides, certainly no friction. I don’t stop him trying with me but if he’s struggling to satisfy me it’s no fun for either of us.
So we spend more time him fingering me, me jerking him off.
But we have a lot of sexy fun and playing so it’s still good!
hotcouple2233
Couple
That's Awesome! My Best to both of you!!
Obviously sexual intimacy can be cultivated in a lot of different ways between couples & I think it's sad & unfortunate when some couples devolve into platonic roommates and lose all sexual intimacy between each other.
Of course that can happen in "vanilla" marriages as well but after all the work & trust required to successfully introduce any kind of kink it seems like an awful lot of work to end up without that added connection.
Thanks for replying. ☺
People that add additional people to their intimate lives usually do so for one of two reasons. Either to fix perceived problems in their relationship or to add something to a solid relationship. In your case it appears that you and your wife have a solid relationship. At least by your accounts you are open and honest with each others and the extracurricular sex adds some spice to a good marriage.
On the other hand a good number and I have seen a lot of them here want to go the IR route for personal reasons. I don't know how many times I have read here a posting from someone that want advice about how to cajole, trick, or otherwise convince their wife or girlfriend into trying interracial sex. Anything less that total candor is a recipe for failure. However if either spouse thinks it is OK to ******* their spouse to do things that they might object to already has a relationship that is on shaky ground
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Thank you. It’s amazing. Nothing else matter as long as you two are happy
Ann! You say that your hubby does not satisfy you anymore, how often do you have sex with the bull?
Much better hubby is more attentive eats my kitty soooo much better lol. Oh and I don't fuck him or any of his friends anymore, only BBC for me. Hubby does get a bj now and then as he looks at my married cheating owned snowbunny pussy.
Not as often as I should, I get very horny! X
What is stopping you from getting it as much as you need it
William Hammond
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William Hammond
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How has the lifestyle changed your marriage/relationship?
The lifestyle has drawn us closer. We love each other more now than ever before. We did start out as swingers. It definitely enhanced our marriage. We would always have a lot of sex after we had played with others. It then morphed into us having just threesomes, two guys and me. We both loved this. Then we discovered BBC, I got hooked and so did hubby. He loved seeing me with Black men. During deployments I played and wrote about the experience and sent them to hubby. He loved it. Once he came home we still had sex, and it was good but not like with a Black man. Hubby told me one day, that he could never make me cum like a Black man can and he was glad I was having great orgasms. With some medical issues in the last couple of years, that has led to us not having intercourse. I still cuddle and jerk my husband off. If we have intercourse, he is cumming very quickly. We have found with me playing with his dick, it prolongs his sexual pleasure and it is fun to get him to the point of orgasm then backing off. We have an even better marriage today than just a few years ago.
The lifestyle has drawn us closer. We love each other more now than ever before. We did start out as swingers. It definitely enhanced our marriage. We would always have a lot of sex after we had played with others. It then morphed into us having just threesomes, two guys and me. We both loved this. Then we discovered BBC, I got hooked and so did hubby. He loved seeing me with Black men. During deployments I played and wrote about the experience and sent them to hubby. He loved it. Once he came home we still had sex, and it was good but not like with a Black man. Hubby told me one day, that he could never make me cum like a Black man can and he was glad I was having great orgasms. With some medical issues in the last couple of years, that has led to us not having intercourse. I still cuddle and jerk my husband off. If we have intercourse, he is cumming very quickly. We have found with me playing with his dick, it prolongs his sexual pleasure and it is fun to get him to the point of orgasm then backing off. We have an even better marriage today than just a few years ago.
I'm curious to know if you are still seeing your lover after splitting from boyfriend? Did he know of your boyfriend's "addiction"? What do others think to your relationship with non-white in Russia?
hotcouple2233
Couple
I've said before that it's so important for a couple to maintain a SEXUAL intimacy in their relationship. It doesn't have to look exactly the same for everyone, obviously, but it should still be sexual and still promote intimacy.
Kudos for you guys for doing so.
It seems strange how lost that is on some folks whether kink or vanilla.
Married in 91 started in the lifestyle 2013 X
husbandchris
Male
thanks for honest words, i ll would love to hear more true word from married women, i cant feel my hubby, i ll open to much, i need big cocks, yet i ll love him...sometimes its so hard for wife to say those wonderfull words...
husbandchris
Male
love you sweet...
