How do I convince my husband to accept my lifestyle?
- Thread starter Molly1980
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most of this entire chat is full of fakes, trolls or brainwashed people. Crazy how hormones or fantasies will change people's judgments or logic.
I've been trying to persuade my wife to cuckold me. I really would love to see her passionately kissing and passionately fucking a hung black stud.
Do you like to fuck him? Or do you want a pet that will work and pay the bills? If you want a non monogamous marriage for yourself would you like him to have that pleasure too?
Jaybirdnlynn
Male
Jaybirdnlynn
Male
Try not being satisfied with your husbands performance, Get him used to going the extra mile just to make you satisfied. He will get curious as to why, then you lean into the whole cuckold training method.
He will slowly get on board.
I did!
Swe
Read the stories from LexiLexi on Darkwander.net. That will give you some ideas.
" I LOVE my husband with ALL OF MY HEART. I TRULY DO even though I must sound hypocritical"
Yeah. You got THAT part right.
It doesn’t sound hypocritical, it IS hypocritical.
ME
Hello. My hubby is hispanic and has a beautiful cock. I never needed this lifestyle but one day while making love before married hubby stated he was going to get me some toys. I told him I had 2 and he freaked out and was so turned on then asked if I had any fantasies. I told hubby fucking 2 men at once would be hot. Omg within month we were in houston and I'm fucking hubby and his black gorgeous friend. I fell in love with double and the excitement it brewed up on me. I have the most wonderful sex life for 50. I have 7 black lovers. Hubby beautiful cock. So talk to your hubby. Trust is important be sure that he knows you love him but you have a urge or just say fantasy.
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My advice would be to sit down and talk shop with him. Tell him you are having sexual desires and discuss his feeling regarding this as well as yours. Consider multiple options if he is open to the idea such as a sexually open marriage, him being part of your adventures with black men, or so forth. Try and find a common ground where you two can meet and compromise on. Sadly if that cannot happen you have to choose between sex and love and do your best.
Yes very true. I love my husband he hispanic handsome and a very nice cock. He opened this lifestyle to me but he talked ut over with me since I had fantasy. No doubt he has a beautiful cock but the lovers he i troduced me to are much bigger. I never thought I would do no cam truly do without since hubby is big but the lifestyle is awesome and I love being naughty when he is around. Complete different arousal when hubby not thier. Good luck and try. My hubby calls it the voodoo sex. The naughty. Lol cheers to all
Sounds like you and your husband have it figured out.
It's crazy I was married 20yrs to navy. Divorced he cheated on me so moved back home and dated a few. Frank I knew from high school and he had several business's. Well one was alarm and surveillance. One guy dare started to be weird ended it and never thought I would be attacked. I'm a RN so heard all stories never thought it would happen to me. So i heard about frank then called him over and was blown away how well he aged. So little after we started dating and was blown away on how sexual this man was big and i came more in a few month's than 20yrs with my naval ex husband. One day after church then nap we played he was devouring me and stated he was going to but me some toys well most men are intimidated by toys but but frank. Boom i pulled out anal plug And black soft dildo. I rarely used it. He was so aroused when i asked he told me his voodoo fetish. I had always wanted a 3some or more some with cock. Had One bbc after college over 25yrs ago. By following month we were in houston and WOW. My sex life changed. Year later we married. The day after honeymoon he confessed that he wants 3 somes part of our married. BBC only. If any other then it's over. I told him i love him and it a not need ed. Hubby does please me very well. Anyway within couple weeks drake was here again and he is considered my boyfriend. Then some how some way i met more. I'm allowed and hall pass for BBC. BUT i don't like playing with out hubby. I have but not as turned on weird i know but omg the feeling is amazing.
it will depend a lot on how he feels about himself? You know his likes sexually?
shotred
Male
Wow this is a very interesting subject, I dont know what to say about that. I can only think is hes OK with you in the swinging lifestyle ? You could talk and compromise with him something that he would like to do while you love having fun with BBC.
My wife says she’s not really interested in being with a bbc! We’ve talked about it over the last year or so but so far nothing.
BUT what I have learned is if you talk to your partner about your fantasies or even joining this lifestyle you’ll be surprised how accepting your partner will be!
I personally want to be cuckolded by her - to see her getting fucked by a bbc! But I’ve learned she really wants to see ME getting fucked by a bbc! At first I was like “what”?!!!? But now I see that we both have very different fantasies. She’s become more confident and dominate to the point where Now she bends me over with her strap-on and fucks me good! Amazing!!! But what’s even more amazing is she’s able to cum while fucking me doggystyle!!! Sex has been different lately - to say the least... I can’t believe talking to my wife about bbc has changed our love life so much. Talk, talk and talk again. He’ll come around. Once you plant the seed he’ll start thinking about it more and more and eventually he’ll start to accept it.
I’ve noticed that after my wife and I talked about fucking some bbc she’s opened up sexually. She now tells me - and shows me - different types of guys she finds attractive. She shows me pictures and videos of hot guys in different scenarios. Dancing. Stripping. Shirtless with big muscles and she’s even watched interracial bbc porn with me! She gets so wet and turned on that I think she might finally be ready to pick up a Big Black Cock!
Any suggestions on how to find a bbc Bull? Bars or clubs? I’m in Los Angeles. Any help will be appreciated.
you want this to be you, don’t you Molly
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