Help me convince my hubby!

Blkallover said:
Sounds like he may have some reservations/doubts/fears and may not be able to recover from the encounter at the moment
Since you mention that you share thoughts desires and chats it may be on the horizon after gains more self assurance about the topic
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I think it’s on the horizon too- I sure as hell hope it is, I’m going crazy over here!
 
Bosmarriedwhtc said:
Speaking as a husband who has shared his wife witha few black bulls now, it has only mad our relationship stronger and sex life went through the roof!! It is not for everyone but you just need to assure him that you still love him and its just sex.. it is fucking incredibly amazing to watch a guy with a big black cock drill my wife so deep and cumming in her mouth and pussy
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Damnit, that’s what I want him to see!
 
erika9009 said:
I will restate something that I blatantly stole from @sawftserve:
"We have to like you before our panties hit the floor."

Find the guys that are willing to talk to you so you can get to know them. I know I get way more turned on by a guy that is well dressed and talks with me for a while. The guys that go, "Yo bitch. Drop the panties and lean over the table" usually get an eye roll from me as I'm walking out the door.
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I agree! I’m not in this to just be a quick, random fuck or another notch on a belt...plus, I think if there is something more than just a physical attraction, the experience will be that much more intense and amazing
 
erika9009 said:
@juliete1217
What TMan71 said.
I have played for a number of yrs with both guys and girls. We also had fun swinging.

One thing my husband knows about me................I will always come back to him. I always wear my wedding ring when I go out and "play." It means something to me, a commitment.

One other thing I do with my husband is I talk about my boytoys in a casual "fun" manner. It indirectly signals to him that they are not as important to me as he is.

I also tell him often that I love him. Sure he's a pervo dickhead sometimes, but don't stop loving him.

Contrary to a lot of the "thinking" here, I do wifely duties. If he wants some, he gets some. Sure, it might be me pegging him, but he gets off. Other times, I just drop my underwear, lean over the vanity and ask him to make it fast.

I'm out having my fun getting fucked silly. I believe he should have his fun too. Once in a while, I will do the hotwife thing by coming home full of sperm, drop my underwear, and do the facesitting gig. He has a wonderful tongue.

Steve also can ask me not to go out that night. I will certainly listen to his reasons. Sometimes they are just a feeling and he tells me he's just not comfortable with me doing it that day. I then call and cancel with my blk man. It's very, very unusual for him to ask me to stay home. So, when he does, I do.

All of what I do continually reassure him I am still his wife and I will be home after. I actually don't recall ever spending the night with one of my boytoys. This goes back to the "I will be home with you later" feeling I convey.

For as often as I tell the guys on here to stop and really listen to their wives, I do the same for you. Listen to him, be "guy like" and try to solve his issues. He needs that confidence you'll always be back with him.

You are welcome to DM me if you are interested in more of my thoughts on this.
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You’ve nailed it! I’m not going to kick my hubs to the curb or neglect his needs/desires..I’m his first and I will always come back to him (maybe just full of a black man’s cum 😝).
 
Kimber4kicks said:
omg, my husband suggested i do the same thing.
Im interested, and turned on of the idea of an encounter with a bbc, and i told him that.
Also told him it might change me and that is an issue.
so far he hasn't said anything else, i think he is playing me
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Talk about it more when he's hard or you are having sex. Don't go too overboard and don't mention the "change me" thing. If he brings up the change me, tell him it will make you feel sexy and have more fun.

Remember, guys are simple............food, sex and encouragement are about all they need. If he thinks he's going to loose his sex, then he might not go for the idea.
 
Mandy long said:
So what made you want it more? How did you first react and how can I have my wife take more steps forward!
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a year or so ago, he fell sick, and in the hospital. doctors found a tumor in his gut, and some issues with one kidney.
he came out of it in good condition, no cancer, just a mass..
after his surgeries (9 total), he suddenly started having problems having sex, erection issues, etc.
before this, he had an impressive cock, and never failed to please.
but now hes frustrated, and depressed, and is insisting i start dating, and find a great lover to satisfy me, which is not what i want, but he wont let it go.
so all of a sudden in 2 days, i signed up for 2 forums, and 2 porn sites, and wow, am i overwhelmed and horny
 
juliete1217 said:
Ohh I remember that phase!
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So what made you want it more? How did you first react and how can I have my wife take more steps forward.
Kimber4kicks said:
a year or so ago, he fell sick, and in the hospital. doctors found a tumor in his gut, and some issues with one kidney.
he came out of it in good condition, no cancer, just a mass..
after his surgeries (9 total), he suddenly started having problems having sex, erection issues, etc.
before this, he had an impressive cock, and never failed to please.
but now hes frustrated, and depressed, and is insisting i start dating, and find a great lover to satisfy me, which is not what i want, but he wont let it go.
so all of a sudden in 2 days, i signed up for 2 forums, and 2 porn sites, and wow, am i overwhelmed and horny
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well sorry to hear that but apparently is a gain at the same time for you. How interesting are finding these sites and just over all a bbc
 
Wife started off slowly.... making comments when we'd watch porn, "oh my gosh, look at that big black cock". Pretty soon, that's all she wants to watch ...BBC porn. And I could tell she was really into it and turned on by the thought. That started to turn me on, lol..... Then it was comments like "I like his big black dick or his cock makes me horny" finally she just said she wanted to fuck a black guy with a huge cock. Turned me on!!!
 
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