Help me convince my hubby!

[juliete1217]

I don’t blame them when it comes to you. Big muscular Alpha black men, a thick, absolutely gorgeous white wife like you... they’re gonna take what they want. What they deserve. I’d love to see your husband realize that and truly submit to superior men

Thanks for the compliments! He knows the black men want me and he craves watching me be devoured by them...he’s just fighting some internal battles on it right now

 

[CaliBNWOcuck]

Thanks for the compliments! He knows the black men want me and he craves watching me be devoured by them...he’s just fighting some internal battles on it right now

I definitely can relate to that. I’m struggling with the same thing. I’m incredibly excited for tonight, I’m driving up to auburn California to be in a threesome with a gorgeous woman and her massive black bull. They want me to suck his cock and clean her up, things every good cuckold should do. But It’s my first time, and I’m afraid to let myself fall fully for black men. So I can definitely relate to what your husband is feeling. I’m incredibly turned on by black men’s superiority of whiteboys, yet I’m still afraid to suck black cock. but at the same time... half of me really wants to offer up my tight virgin whiteboy ass

 

[rustyshackleford]

Thanks for the compliments! He knows the black men want me and he craves watching me be devoured by them...he’s just fighting some internal battles on it right now

Help him confront his fears, reassure him that you have no intention of leaving him. Plus have him acknowledge that while the men you're gonna meet are gonna be better endowed and fuck better than him that's ok cuz that's the whole point of getting into this lifestyle. Also let him have all the reclaim sex he wants when your Bull or Bulls are done with you.

 

[juliete1217]

I definitely can relate to that. I’m struggling with the same thing. I’m incredibly excited for tonight, I’m driving up to auburn California to be in a threesome with a gorgeous woman and her massive black bull. They want me to suck his cock and clean her up, things every good cuckold should do. But It’s my first time, and I’m afraid to let myself fall fully for black men. So I can definitely relate to what your husband is feeling. I’m incredibly turned on by black men’s superiority of whiteboys, yet I’m still afraid to suck black cock. but at the same time... half of me really wants to offer up my tight virgin whiteboy ass

The difference is that my hubby isn’t into the same things you are...this is only about me and my bull pleasuring each other!

 

[juliete1217]

Help him confront his fears, reassure him that you have no intention of leaving him. Plus have him acknowledge that while the men you're gonna meet are gonna be better endowed and fuck better than him that's ok cuz that's the whole point of getting into this lifestyle. Also let him have all the reclaim sex he wants when your Bull or Bulls are done with you.

Great advice- thanks!

 

[Hotwife fun77]

I could use some advice and help...so my hubby was the one that initially brought up the idea of me being with a BBC while he watched. He always told me it turned him on to see other men check me out, but especially black men (I actually never believed him and told him he was crazy-and that other men weren’t checking me out, but especially not black me). One day he finally convinced me to upload some pics and “see what happens”. Well, umm he was eighth and I was wrong! So I guess we could say it opened Pandora’s box....for years, we have talked about our mutual fantasy of me being with a BBC....but recently, he told me he isn’t sure if he could go through with it because of the “guilt” he would have from sharing me with another man. So help a lady out...should I give it some time and see if he changes his mind, or is there something I can do to help change his mind? He loves that I share my pictures and knowing that I’m having some dirty chats, so I think he’s close to going through with it. I so badly want to be devoured by a sexy man with a big black dick! I dream of it and crave it! I really want this fantasy to become a reality. Kisses!

I could use some advice and help...so my hubby was the one that initially brought up the idea of me being with a BBC while he watched. He always told me it turned him on to see other men check me out, but especially black men (I actually never believed him and told him he was crazy-and that other men weren’t checking me out, but especially not black me). One day he finally convinced me to upload some pics and “see what happens”. Well, umm he was eighth and I was wrong! So I guess we could say it opened Pandora’s box....for years, we have talked about our mutual fantasy of me being with a BBC....but recently, he told me he isn’t sure if he could go through with it because of the “guilt” he would have from sharing me with another man. So help a lady out...should I give it some time and see if he changes his mind, or is there something I can do to help change his mind? He loves that I share my pictures and knowing that I’m having some dirty chats, so I think he’s close to going through with it. I so badly want to be devoured by a sexy man with a big black dick! I dream of it and crave it! I really want this fantasy to become a reality. Kisses!

tell him how you really feel it’s not fair for him to put these ideas in your head and then tell you no he should have thought that out first.

 

[cuckQuixote]

Talk to about his feeling. Fears, guilt, jealousy - help him define and talk thru them. Communication is the key to making the lifestyle work.

 

[john1984]

Okay, "guilt" or 'FEAR".....he's scared because once BBC open's your BOX then, there is no turning back and hubby knows it. So, let hubby play with a few ladies first to help loosen him up and build his sexual self-confidence then, playing with your new and large friends with

That is a good idea

 

[Blkallover]

I could use some advice and help...so my hubby was the one that initially brought up the idea of me being with a BBC while he watched. He always told me it turned him on to see other men check me out, but especially black men (I actually never believed him and told him he was crazy-and that other men weren’t checking me out, but especially not black me). One day he finally convinced me to upload some pics and “see what happens”. Well, umm he was eighth and I was wrong! So I guess we could say it opened Pandora’s box....for years, we have talked about our mutual fantasy of me being with a BBC....but recently, he told me he isn’t sure if he could go through with it because of the “guilt” he would have from sharing me with another man. So help a lady out...should I give it some time and see if he changes his mind, or is there something I can do to help change his mind? He loves that I share my pictures and knowing that I’m having some dirty chats, so I think he’s close to going through with it. I so badly want to be devoured by a sexy man with a big black dick! I dream of it and crave it! I really want this fantasy to become a reality. Kisses!

Sounds like he may have some reservations/doubts/fears and may not be able to recover from the encounter at the moment
Since you mention that you share thoughts desires and chats it may be on the horizon after gains more self assurance about the topic

 

[Fantasywife85]

It improves a lot of marriages , my husband and I are much closer this way

What they said

 

[KDD71]

I could use some advice and help...so my hubby was the one that initially brought up the idea of me being with a BBC while he watched. He always told me it turned him on to see other men check me out, but especially black men (I actually never believed him and told him he was crazy-and that other men weren’t checking me out, but especially not black me). One day he finally convinced me to upload some pics and “see what happens”. Well, umm he was eighth and I was wrong! So I guess we could say it opened Pandora’s box....for years, we have talked about our mutual fantasy of me being with a BBC....but recently, he told me he isn’t sure if he could go through with it because of the “guilt” he would have from sharing me with another man. So help a lady out...should I give it some time and see if he changes his mind, or is there something I can do to help change his mind? He loves that I share my pictures and knowing that I’m having some dirty chats, so I think he’s close to going through with it. I so badly want to be devoured by a sexy man with a big black dick! I dream of it and crave it! I really want this fantasy to become a reality. Kisses!

Guilt or jealousy? If its a mutual fantasy why would there be any guilt of sharing you? Talk more to him and see what his true feeling are about this. Does he have any interest in seeing others? Make this a mutually acceptable open marriage? So many options...

 

[Chosenone228]

Sharing is caring

 

[Harduk]

Thanks for the compliments! He knows the black men want me and he craves watching me be devoured by them...he’s just fighting some internal battles on it right now

Ease him into it slowly let him see how hot it is and believe me he will agree once you both have sexy online fun it will improve your joint sex live and reward you with fat bbc that PAWG body needs!

 

[Bosmarriedwhtc]

Speaking as a husband who has shared his wife witha few black bulls now, it has only mad our relationship stronger and sex life went through the roof!! It is not for everyone but you just need to assure him that you still love him and its just sex.. it is fucking incredibly amazing to watch a guy with a big black cock drill my wife so deep and cumming in her mouth and pussy

 

[Buttercupz]

I could use some advice and help...so my hubby was the one that initially brought up the idea of me being with a BBC while he watched. He always told me it turned him on to see other men check me out, but especially black men (I actually never believed him and told him he was crazy-and that other men weren’t checking me out, but especially not black me). One day he finally convinced me to upload some pics and “see what happens”. Well, umm he was eighth and I was wrong! So I guess we could say it opened Pandora’s box....for years, we have talked about our mutual fantasy of me being with a BBC....but recently, he told me he isn’t sure if he could go through with it because of the “guilt” he would have from sharing me with another man. So help a lady out...should I give it some time and see if he changes his mind, or is there something I can do to help change his mind? He loves that I share my pictures and knowing that I’m having some dirty chats, so I think he’s close to going through with it. I so badly want to be devoured by a sexy man with a big black dick! I dream of it and crave it! I really want this fantasy to become a reality. Kisses!

Sad that he started things in motion and now that you're onboard he is the one with cold feet.

I'd recommend baby steps. Start perhaps with a sex toy and pretending it's another man. Enjoy it and treat it like fucking another man and see how both of you feel following that game. Then maybe consider a threesome involving a neutral party. That will really tell you both how you feel when someone else is brought into the bedroom. You could even consider swinging with another couple so both of you have the chances to play.

 

[BowToBlack8]

High likelihood it'll push you closer and actually just be an emotional and sexual connection you didn't have before. Whether he joins and gets the euphoria of others being turned on and pleasured by his wife or if he watches you get taken but ultimately the bull leaves, and it's just you left.

Even in the middle of domination or humiliation, I've only ever seen it turn the bf or husband on.

 

[taco2310]

For starters your gorgeous, you won't have any issues finding a play date. I've been slowly convincing my beautiful wife to try playing with a black guy, it's easier said than done, but I'm thinking your more than half way there. Reassure him how much you love him and the do's and don'ts both of you want things to go. We unfortunately don't have the experience but it has slowly opened door's to comfortability reaching the next level. Hope this helps.

 

[juliete1217]

Sad that he started things in motion and now that you're onboard he is the one with cold feet.

I'd recommend baby steps. Start perhaps with a sex toy and pretending it's another man. Enjoy it and treat it like fucking another man and see how both of you feel following that game. Then maybe consider a threesome involving a neutral party. That will really tell you both how you feel when someone else is brought into the bedroom. You could even consider swinging with another couple so both of you have the chances to play.

We’ve got the toys and do the “role play” talking and watch IR porn together...that always leads to a really hot and intense night! It’s when we aren’t “playing” that the hesitation is there...

 

[juliete1217]

For starters your gorgeous, you won't have any issues finding a play date. I've been slowly convincing my beautiful wife to try playing with a black guy, it's easier said than done, but I'm thinking your more than half way there. Reassure him how much you love him and the do's and don'ts both of you want things to go. We unfortunately don't have the experience but it has slowly opened door's to comfortability reaching the next level. Hope this helps.

Good luck to y’all too!

 

[juliete1217]

High likelihood it'll push you closer and actually just be an emotional and sexual connection you didn't have before. Whether he joins and gets the euphoria of others being turned on and pleasured by his wife or if he watches you get taken but ultimately the bull leaves, and it's just you left.

Even in the middle of domination or humiliation, I've only ever seen it turn the bf or husband on.

This is what I’m hoping for!