FACTS@Hotwife fun77 I tell him all the time that this his his fault and it’s not nice for him to get me into this world and then have second thoughts- that’s just mean!
FACTS@Hotwife fun77 I tell him all the time that this his his fault and it’s not nice for him to get me into this world and then have second thoughts- that’s just mean!
Those damn morals. Always getting in the way of FUNI think it’s a moral dilemma
You would think it would be me having the moral dilemmas since I’m the one that works for a churchThose damn morals. Always getting in the way of FUN
We do all that already- it always makes him cum really hard!Reassure him that you love him often, request interracial porn, ask him while you are fucking and he is extra horny if you think you should fuck a BBC and that you might enjoy it. Over time he'll let it happen
I can play the mean game tooFACTS
He will be on board soon and you will be enjoying that intense masculine sexuality all you like. My guess, in the first week after, he’ll be watching the video you make for him, nonstop, and rubbing himself sore, even as he still is internally conflicted. But he’ll figure out that he loves it that way.We do all that already- it always makes him cum really hard!
Very well! Your emoji game is on point!I can play the mean game too
Ohh I should have added Very well! Your emoji game is on point!
He definitely won’t have to start over with his life- we are in this together, and we reassure each other all the time. We know that either one of us can immediately say “stop” and it all stops. Maybe I need to have him talk with the guy I’m interested in (if the guys is also willing lol)Fantasies are easy. Real life is not. Now that you're ready to do it for real, he's balking. Scared what the future will bring. Him on the outs possibly, having to reconfigure his life. Start over. See if hubby will do a trial run one time thing with a black man. Prearrange how you and he will talk after the black man is gone. Maybe some ground rules. Go easy. Baby steps. He'll start to nibble. And then bite.
It's probably the fear of you not going back. Let him know that you are still his, that this is as much about his pleasure as it is yours.And that is when it is going to be its worst but also its clearest. Filled with lust and desire so many things seem amazing and then after the body has fulfilled those needs is when we start asking "what was that about?" In my opinion you two should play your game and cum really hard (both of you). Following that bliss talk about a threesome or swapping with another couple together. If that seems fun then go for it and see how that plays out. If there are doubts and hesitations then maybe take a step back and think if this needs to stay a fun game with toys.
Start by fantasying about it with him. While you are doing it, whisper a fantasy that he has shared with you in the past in his ear. You will likely notice him getting very excited by this. I would suggest staying with this and watching interracial porn together until he starts to bring the idea back up. While you are watching bbc makes comments like, “how does she handle such a big cock!”I could use some advice and help...so my hubby was the one that initially brought up the idea of me being with a BBC while he watched. He always told me it turned him on to see other men check me out, but especially black men (I actually never believed him and told him he was crazy-and that other men weren’t checking me out, but especially not black me). One day he finally convinced me to upload some pics and “see what happens”. Well, umm he was eighth and I was wrong! So I guess we could say it opened Pandora’s box....for years, we have talked about our mutual fantasy of me being with a BBC....but recently, he told me he isn’t sure if he could go through with it because of the “guilt” he would have from sharing me with another man. So help a lady out...should I give it some time and see if he changes his mind, or is there something I can do to help change his mind? He loves that I share my pictures and knowing that I’m having some dirty chats, so I think he’s close to going through with it. I so badly want to be devoured by a sexy man with a big black dick! I dream of it and crave it! I really want this fantasy to become a reality. Kisses!
Thanks- we already do the role playing and watching IR porn together..the only thing left to do is make it a reality!Start by fantasying about it with him. While you are doing it, whisper a fantasy that he has shared with you in the past in his ear. You will likely notice him getting very excited by this. I would suggest staying with this and watching interracial porn together until he starts to bring the idea back up. While you are watching bbc makes comments like, “how does she handle such a big cock!”
My wife told me two things that sent me down the road to embracing my cuckold nature. First, we went to an adult video store, (yes I am that old.) And she said she liked interracial because she liked the skin contrast. Later she told me a true story about a young black guy she danced with in high-school. He rubbed his big dick on her when they danced and she never knew a dick could be so big. After this I started thinking about interracial sex. And we started watching interracial porn, obviously both being exposed to big black cocks. From there we simply followed the natural progression.
Hope it works out for you!
What if after you get into your first BBC and get hooked...but hubby wants you to stop. How can you handle that especially when BBC is sooo darn good. Just letting you know up front.I do share the sexy chats- and we talk about some things I would like to do with some guys specifically- it’s always a hot chat that turns into a really hot night! I haven’t done any phone or video chats yet...maybe that’s the next step?
Maybe deep down he is afraid he'll want some BBC also. Hey you never know.Thanks for the compliments! He knows the black men want me and he craves watching me be devoured by them...he’s just fighting some internal battles on it right now
That is not a concern of ours at all- he is straightMaybe deep down he is afraid he'll want some BBC also. Hey you never know.
What if after you get into your first BBC and get hooked...but hubby wants you to stop. How can you handle that especially when BBC is sooo darn good. Just letting you know up front.
My husband will always come firstWhat if after you get into your first BBC and get hooked...but hubby wants you to stop. How can you handle that especially when BBC is sooo darn good. Just letting you know up front.