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What works for you may not work for someone else, and viceversa.Is there anything to be proud of? What is marriage about?
A substantial part of our friends, family, neighbours etc know.Wondering if anyone has friends or family who are aware of their lifestyle. How did they find out? How did they react?
My wife was seen out socialising some years ago with a black friend of hers by an old work friend of hers , she told her it was someone she knew through her business contacts but she didn’t believe her so she had to come clean in the end, thankfully it didn’t go any further as far as we know,
The only other person who knows about us is a long time male friend of ours who is into the swinging scene himself, we know he’s trustworthy and very discreet as he’s met many married couples so he totally gets it .
a few friends,work , of coarse a few guy friends .. and probably a few neighborsWondering if anyone has friends or family who are aware of their lifestyle. How did they find out? How did they react?
Long as it is where you are comfy don’t see issues people knowinga few friends,work , of coarse a few guy friends .. and probably a few neighbors
i think of it as an open secretWe keep this secret. So far we have tried it only om vacations far from our country
i feel we pick a fetish the same way we pick eye colorHiding this lifestyle is not only for other people but in my opinion you too know subconsciously that this is a fetish of which you are not really proud and therefore better not to let it be known