Do Profile Pics Help?

Why is it that a lot of the black guys in here almost always have snapshots of their dicks in their profiel pics? I'm not against it though, just trying to understand the pyschology behind that. Do the ladies in here get swayed when they see such pics ... or do they go like: 'yeah, right ... seen it ... no thanks'?

Ladies: do you ever get aroused by the Brother's profile pics in here?

Glad someone brought it up! And on top of that it's better coming from another man. I'm initially attracted to a handsome man. Well built too is a big plus. Dressed nicely for a night out could be a turn on too. We can exchange other photos later on. More in detailed. But for me the cock photo avatar is a red flag for me. But that's just me. And a cock photo and you don't even know how to manscape. I can't run away fast enough. Nasty. Sorry!
 
As a couple we prefer to see a dick over anything else, because that is the part which enters the marital rights space and that is the only part my lady is interested in. That what stretches her for hours and reaches her depths fulfling some physical cravings on occasional and rare nights. We are not looking for a handsome prinstone graduate , hung like a horse in shining armor, nor we need intellectual debates overnight. The picture of man's cock tells us a thousand words. That is why we are here, to find a dick partner. I would make it mandatory for men to upload dick picture and for women her rear end view. : ) Smile : )
 
I would agree if this was a normal dating site but it's a porn site where the main attraction is bbc so penis pictures should be considered better than a picture of someones face.

Not only is this not a normal dating site, it's not a dating site. It's a forum to facilitate discussion of many different facets of interracial relationships/sex, with the added benefit that people may hook up.

As for penis pictures being better than face pictures, imagine a female member wants to hook up with you, she posts pictures of her tits, ass, pussy, and legs, and her body looks great and you two decide to meet up. You get there and she is a toothless, haggard looking prohibited chemical addict.
 
I would agree if this was a normal dating site but it's a porn site where the main attraction is bbc so penis pictures should be considered better than a picture of someones face.

Men of this mentality are the reason more people don't connect. If you really think that dick pics is going to attract women, then you don't know anything about women. Lose the dick pics and have more success.
 
Men of this mentality are the reason more people don't connect. If you really think that dick pics is going to attract women, then you don't know anything about women. Lose the dick pics and have more success.
Judgemental people, esp on a site like this should probably just go elsewhere
 
So should men who think that dick pics is the way to attract women. Weeding out the good from the bad.

Just an FYI, everyone is judgmental. It's human nature.
Consider the type of site that this is. Just because a man chows off his cock on a site like this doesnt mean he is bad.

Just an FYI You attract more bees with honey then you do with vinegar
 
Consider the type of site that this is. Just because a man chows off his cock on a site like this doesnt mean he is bad.

Yes, it does mean he's bad. It means he's immature and afraid of showing his face on this site. If that's the case, then he shouldn't be on this site.

Furthermore, you should consider the type of site this is. This is a blog. Which is for conversation, discussion and potentially meeting a person regarding a particular lifestyle.

I'm not sure what your reason was behind the "attract more bees with honey" comment because I'm not trying to attract you or men with dick pics. So, I'm going to chalk this all up to the fact that you don't understand human nature and you don't understand women.

Good luck!
 
I suggest you contact the sites administrators and advise them of your findings forthwith. I also think you should send a letter to each and every man who shows his dick on this website and advise them of your findings as well. I understand women fairly well. I just dont understand the ones that seem to have issues with reality

Good luck :)
 
Everyone has an opinion so here's mine. I don't think a dick pic is any different than tits, ass and or pussy pics. Just because someone post those kinds it does NOT make them a bad person. The world we live in is a judgemental world and the book is judged 99% of the by the cover. So when the majority of the people here ask for bbc that's the reason for the pics. If it's not your cup of tea just move on to the next pic that's not a cock pic. For the record I have many pics that are not cock pics. For the same reason women hide their faces men do also. Those reasons may be family, friends or type of work. Sory so long but I had to get that out. Oh and the main reasons people don't connect is distance and for most people here, this is there fantasy not their reality. They talk a good game but really don't have any plans on doing it for real.
 
Why is it that a lot of the black guys in here almost always have snapshots of their dicks in their profiel pics? I'm not against it though, just trying to understand the pyschology behind that. Do the ladies in here get swayed when they see such pics ... or do they go like: 'yeah, right ... seen it ... no thanks'?

Ladies: do you ever get aroused by the Brother's profile pics in here?
i prefer to have action shots of myself. Dick pics are lame
 
... I'm a white guy so should I take my face off my profile pic and use something else or just leave it blank?

Race ... its a personal choice as how each of us prefer to project ourselves. I work in sales & marketing, so I know a bit about "first impressions". Plus, I think a person is short changing themselves if all they have as an avatar is a huge dick or big, gapping pussy. But then, I have a rather average "white boi cock" and if I had a 9-10"er, I might be so inclined to showing it more often than I do my lit'l pitiful pecker. :)
 
Judgemental people, esp on a site like this should probably just go elsewhere

Are there any other types of people whom you feel shouldn't be here? If so, please list all the different types that you think should be voted off the island.

And what exactly is a site like this? And are you not yourself being judgmental or at the very least presumptuous when you say the following:

I bet these guys that liked your post will say anything just to get you to talk with them

I liked her post, yet I've never spoken to the original poster and it was never my intention to curry her favor, so I don't understand how you can cast aspersions on my intentions or those of anybody else.
 
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Why is it that a lot of the black guys in here almost always have snapshots of their dicks in their profiel pics? I'm not against it though, just trying to understand the pyschology behind that. Do the ladies in here get swayed when they see such pics ... or do they go like: 'yeah, right ... seen it ... no thanks'?

Ladies: do you ever get aroused by the Brother's profile pics in here?

I've never considered my avatar pic to be anything more than the eye catching lure needed to grab the attention of someone who was willing to invest in getting to know each other. It's BECAUSE there are so many guys and fakes on here that actively pursuing individuals in conversations that lead no where is exhausting to me. Yes I want to meet and have fun. Yes I want to have chemistry. But I'm not willing to waste time on weeding out the fakes from reals. So I let my pic introduce what I'm about and if someone like minded wants to try and converse with me then I move from there. I completely get the whole not wanting to respond to threads with six thousand penises for every word lol. I'll consider putting a less offense pic up. :D
 
I've never considered my avatar pic to be anything more than the eye catching lure needed to grab the attention of someone who was willing to invest in getting to know each other. It's BECAUSE there are so many guys and fakes on here that actively pursuing individuals in conversations that lead no where is exhausting to me. Yes I want to meet and have fun. Yes I want to have chemistry. But I'm not willing to waste time on weeding out the fakes from reals. So I let my pic introduce what I'm about and if someone like minded wants to try and converse with me then I move from there. I completely get the whole not wanting to respond to threads with six thousand penises for every word lol. I'll consider putting a less offense pic up. :D

A more captivating picture holds more water.
 
Are there any other types of people whom you feel shouldn't be here? If so, please list all the different types that you think should be voted off the island.
Not really sure what y uo are trying to say there Mr Moderator. All I did was was make an observation about how I felt this woman was being. Please dont try and make a mountain out of a molehill.

Secondly. This site imho is about being open and expressing oneself. If Miss hollyg is free to speak her mind you can bet I will as well
And what exactly is a site like this? And are you not yourself being judgmental or at the very least presumptuous when you say the following:
This site on its face is about being open minded and allowing folks to express themselves they way they want to. Again dont get so defensive


I liked her post, yet I've never spoken to the original poster and it was never my intention to curry her favor, so I don't understand how you can cast aspersions on my intentions or those of anybody else.

I am not even sure what you are talking about at this post, Tell ya what> I dont want to upset you anymore than I already have so from now on before I post Ill run everything by you. That way there wont be anymore misunderstandings
 
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