Whether you're a married, or single male; I believe these questions would apply to all who are interested, or are currently involved within the cuckold / wife-watching lifestyle.
1) Would you rather convert / convince your significant other to go black, or prefer she have previous experience?
2) Would you rather be "up-front" about your desire before a romance were to form, or prefer that a bond has been formed before letting her know of your desire?
3) Hypothetically, if she were to agree to let you watch her with another man; so long as he wasn't black ~ would you do so?
Married white man here with a wife who is interested in the lifestyle.
1) God that is such a difficult question, but a good one to ask. For the record she has no experience with black men. I met my wife when I was 21 and she was 24. Her being recently divorced she had far more experience at sex than me, truth is I was a virgin. Good looking (been told that too many times by both men and women) but painfully shy was my issue.
Anyway I was scared to death of her having been with a black guy before we met. She had told me of her sexual past which involved a 3sum with her ex and his best friend on several occasions and a host of one night stands so I was worried she had left out any part of her sleeping with a black guy. I finally got the nerve up to ask her after dating for a few months and she said no.
My thing is now I sort of fantasize about her being that young skinny long haired blond back in the day, working on Charleston AFB, and going over to one of the barracks to hook up with a hung black guy and getting her brains fucked out and that she routinely met up with other black guys because she liked taking huge black men and enjoyed being their fuck toy.
My answer is "I do not know"
2) I am so glad we have a bond because the feelings are so much more intense.
3) Yes because it would be this friend I had in the military (she got know him later in my career) who was well hung. I told her after many years that he was hung and she was incredulous.................she was like "no way" and I told her straight up he had to be at least three inches longer than me and much thicker.
How do I know this? I saw him taking a leak and his cock was semi hard and it was fucking huge. Plus one filipino girl he fucked one night talked the next morning to another filipino girl in front of us in tagalog and held her fingers apart to show his size and it was at least 9". The other girl was incredulous too.