In a face to face conversation, I would agree 100 percent with you! But in anonymous venues like this, I find it easier to express how I feel and my general attitudes towards various aspects of how I regard things. Besides, they are simply opinions. One woman's opinion/outlook may be vastly different than mine, and they have every right to express that opinion/outlook in this thread, in fact, I welcome opposing viewpoints - they only serve to broaden my horizons and perceptions.I'm seriously generalizing here but many women are shy, reserved, even afraid about sharing their inner feelings around sex. It's refreshing that you are open about being turned on days earlier about opening yourself up to bring impregnated by a black man. I'm not sure how many could admit that beyond a very close girlfriend.
I would agree with you that a lot of women are reserved and apprehensive about expressing themselves. That's fine. But in this forum, they shouldn't be. After all, it's the only way folks can learn about the thousands of viewpoints this, and other controversial topics broach.
Again, thank you for commenting, but let's not hijack this thread! I'm sure others have a lot to say about the topic and I fear it may become sidelined!
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Donna