Big size is really important?

I'm sorry about what's happened to you in the past, but let's clear up a few things here. You said you didn't realise you were below average before watching porn. Well, porn is exactly that. The men you see in those movies are not average, far above it. I think the average is around 5.5-6.5 inches, which is certainly more than enough to provide sexual satisfaction for most women, certainly myself and my girlfriends. You men seem to put so much on size, when you're in a relationship there's a lot more too it. Most women would rather be with someone they have chemistry with and are in sync with than someone who thinks their great in bed just because they're hung like a horse!

As I've said in one of my previous posts, the big cock being better is more of a mental thing than the physical stimulation, so rather than feeling sorry for yourself for being a little less endowed, why not make up for it. As they say, it's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean which counts!

And I seriously, seriously doubt your girlfriends and partners cheated because of the size of your dick! I can guarantee you that there was other issues in your relationship that drove them to cheat. As I said before, if everything was hunky dory, you would have been the ideal sex partner for them and they wouldn't have cared about your size at all. Or definitely not to the point where they cheat on you. I certainly, and no other female I've spoken to before would ever consider cheating on someone we love and are committed too just because of the size of their dick.

I don't mean to sound like some kind of relationship expert here, but I'd strongly suggest you stop putting all your issues down to your dick and you should try to see what could be wrong with you as a person first. You shouldn't be settling to 'serve' just because you think you can't please women. If 'serving' is genuinely what you want to do, then go ahead, but don't do it just because you've convinced yourself falsely that you're an inadequate lover!
U give the best advice
 
Well put.

I happen to have discovered that for me, I'm a size queen - but my GF has a friend who is a pro (*******, *******) who won't see bigger endowed clients because she can't take them without getting hurt so bad she gets put out of action (and out of work), and given that she fucks for a living all day you'd think she'd be just the sort of woman who would have worked up to taking anything.....

I find that for me, a thicker cock makes wonderful sensations pressing more against my G-spot, and just giving me a feeling of fullness that is hot. It's also a total turn on to see my cuntlips spread to their max, being pushed in and pulled out by a thick shaft, when I look down or in a mirror (I'm big on fucking in front of mirrors - I'm a particularly visual girl). And I've found recently with BBC toys that at 9" (I haven't had a guy that big - yet ;<') ) the head "bottoms out" and that especially if I'm riding it hard "cowgirl", I sometimes have these crazy orgasms that are unlike anything else..... Also, bigger size creates a lot more sensation and pleasure when doing anal, making it easier for me to actually cum from being assfucked.

That all said, my first black BF (and only, other than a one-timer) was maybe only a bit on the big side of average - but he really knew how to work it. He had a pierced cock, which I definitely thought added some sensation ;) And he was bi, so maybe he had an edge in teaching me how to relax and enjoy anal, and to cum just from being fucked in my ass.....
totally agree with you!
 
1)Visual Excitement: bigger looks better
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Another form of pleasure influenced by size is pure visual pleasure (apart from sexual excitement). Size matters to the eyes. Women love the look of a big penis. It excites them visually just like most men love the look of big breasts. Admit it, big firm breasts look delicious. That's the way women feel when looking at a big firm penis. It is a natural thing. Big is impressive. It is a matter of volume and quantity.

2)More pleasure for her hands
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A woman likes to feel a man's body also. She enjoys the feel of the broad shoulders. She likes grabbing the big muscular arms and legs... Now guess what she wants to feel when she puts her hands down the guy's pants? Do you believe that her pleasure of touch would be the same when holding a small penis as when holding a big one? Of course not, she has more fun with a long and fat penis than a short and skinny one.

3) More pleasure for her vagina
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A woman's vaginal pleasure during intercourse is greatly, although not exclusively, dependent on her partner's penis size. Usually bigger is better up until a certain limit, which varies somewhat from girl to girl. Some get off more on very thick penises, others more on long ones, and others on a combination of both. This doesn't mean that an average or small penis can't give them any satisfaction. Depending on a man's penis size and her vagina size, she might experience less or more satisfaction
 
yes, that's right! it's all about perception! Fashion is a part, the second part is simply a necessity!everyone knows that The greatest sex organ is the brain!
 
Female Choice and Penis Size:
"We do not know why men have conspicuous genitals, but a male chimp solicits a female by opening his legs, displaying an erect penis and flicking his phallus with a finger as he gazes at a potential partner. A prominent, distinctive penis helps broadcast one's individuality and sexual vigor, which may lure female friends. In many species of insects and primates, males have exceptionally elaborate penises, and scientists think these evolved specifically because females chose those males with elaborate, sexually stimulating genitals. So perhaps as Lucy's ancestors became bipedal some four million years ago, males began to parade their genitals in order to make special friends with favored females--selecting for those with large organs."
(Fisher, H. (1992) Anatomy of Love: The Mysteries of Mating, Marriage, and Why We Stray. Simon & Schuster, New York, 1992. pp. 177)
 
I'm fairly new to this but I can say for sure that big is great, huge is even better. The size coupled with the dominance of a black man is what I have fallen in love with. It's something my husband can't give me.
Trisha has your husband shared you yet ?
 
This black guy has all the conditions to be the perfect lover: good penis size, great virility and he's able to cum like a geyser!
Look those amazing sperm's shot! I'm sure my wife Susie would be able to make him cum in that way, giving him a blowjob... and if I would be there I would put my face over his dick to receive that cum!
This is what I want
 
A member mentioned earlier in this thread..."she prefers coke can thickness" and I don't know if it was a metaphor or her true fantasy. This is what it looks like, but what it feels like?

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The largest penis girth recorded is 8 inches and the Coke can girth is approximately 8.25 inches.
 
Anything [ referring to black cock ] over 8" is good. Thick is also good. 8" & thick is really good. But the volume of sperm they can produce is extremely important. Yeah, we're IR sperm freaks.
 
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