I must be a little naïve. I did not think about this until I read some of post here. Several years ago, my wife was injured at work. One day after visiting the doctor for the workman compensation insurance, she was furious. She said he said she was paranoid. He had asked what she used for birth control. Without thinking, she said three things: condoms, contraceptive jelly, and birth control pills. I was so occupied with my business problems, I didn't think about it. I found later she was still having an affair. I thought she had broke it off. She told me he had made her go on the pill because he was too big for condoms to fit. The condoms and jelly were the only way he said she could allow me to have intercourse with her.