I think you should start a church or cult. I will join it.Ok, to add-on to this discussion once more and most-likely my last diatribe on this topic as everyone is really going to either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is).
This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).
First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples now from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.
I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.
I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.
There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.
So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:
People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.
So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.
Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:
I observe too many men on here who go overdose with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.
In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress.Many guys are just hoping that it is easier on here were they don’t have to go through the anxiety of approaching a woman in real-life since they are already frustrated in the real-world on meeting women to have sex with. I have also heard complaints from couples and women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if I don’t have it now you probably never will get it either. On the Ego part I’m guilty of it too, yeah I got a big cock, I get told all the time I got a big-one, the thing is like a hot-commodity women/couples are demanding and it makes my head-big but to err is human and we all have ego’s and IDs we have to confront and handle but I won’t go all 'Sigmund Freud' on you at this moment (I'll save that for another post another time).
To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking soda to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.
This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet the woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.
Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all races except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:
I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.
They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them.
And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."
/PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/my last 'Will and Testament' I leave you with on this topic as I have nothing left to offer or say since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last part is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.
Peace be unto you all.
~BBB76
Reference:
[1] https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/does-fantasy-stack-up-with-reality.40315/page-3#post-687755
Anyone Actually Meet & Play With Someone(s) From the Site
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Amen to you!!! I like your style!Ok, to add-on to this discussion once more and most-likely my last diatribe on this topic as everyone is really going to either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is).
This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).
First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples now from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.
I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.
I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.
There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.
So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:
People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.
So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.
Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:
I observe too many men on here who go overdose with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.
In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress.
To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking soda to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.
This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet the woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.
Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all races except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:
I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.
They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them.
And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."
/PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/my last 'Will and Testament' I leave you with on this topic as I have nothing left to offer or say since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last part is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.
Peace be unto you all.
~BBB76
Reference:
[1] https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/does-fantasy-stack-up-with-reality.40315/page-3#post-687755
I haven't met anyone from here yet but a lot of that may have to do with I only fuck around with local guys and there doesn't seem to be any local guys on here 
I get a little freaked out when someone from 3 states away offers to travel all that way for sex with lil ole me.
I get a little freaked out when someone from 3 states away offers to travel all that way for sex with lil ole me.
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Curious Wife
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I haven't met anyone from here yet but a lot of that may have to do with I only fuck around with local guys and there doesn't seem to be any local guys on here
I was about so say the same thing. I have found several who are willing to travel half way around the world or worse yet, fly me to them. Little creepy. I have met face to face with one member and to be honest the reason I did was because he didn't ask. We got to know each other and found out we are within 30 minutes. Even then he didn't ask. We chatted some more and I decided to ask him. We met and had coffee in the middle of the day. He didn't want me to feel like the whole idea was to strip and go for it. We chatted for over an hour, he walked me to my car and kissed me on my cheek and said thanks.
We are thinking of planning a night out, but have not found the time. I find it very reassuring that he is treating me like a sexy lady first. But will say, had he asked me anywhere in the process I would not have had the nerve to say yes. Online is fun, but scary. Way to many freaks.
I just got back from a wonderful trip I took to Santa Cruz California to meet a lady I met on adultfriendfinder.com and I have to say I had a wonderful experience it was amazing and will always have her as a friend. We talk everyday. For me I don't seek a body count aka the most women I can sleep with I look for real connection with awesome ladies! The unfortunate part of geography is that sometimes you live far away from a woman that attracts you on more than just a sexual level. however that is the beauty of the internet in bringing people that you would otherwise never have an opportunity to encounter right into the palm of your hand, since I am using my cell phone to view this site. this is just my opinion wanted to give you a different perspective sometimes amazing is worth the risk even though it comes from a different zip code and area code.
Sadly however this world does have it freaks and degenerates who women have to be cautious of there lunatic behavior cost real gentlemen travelers wonderful opportunities!
Peace and love! C
Sadly however this world does have it freaks and degenerates who women have to be cautious of there lunatic behavior cost real gentlemen travelers wonderful opportunities!
Peace and love! C
This site is no different from others we've been on (AFF, Swinglifestyle). We get plenty of messages from guys all over the world. Some are great for conversation. Some are completely ignored because they have absolutely no clue how to start a conversation or start the interchange with an immediate cock pic.
Then there are those special few. It takes a little time, and an investment in building a relationship, but it is delicious when it comes together... And it does come together. I have met, and established a very satisfying relationship with a gentleman I met here. There are potentially two others at the moment.
Like all things, you get out of this site what you put into it. Quality experiences require some investment in time, conversation and often: travel.
Then there are those special few. It takes a little time, and an investment in building a relationship, but it is delicious when it comes together... And it does come together. I have met, and established a very satisfying relationship with a gentleman I met here. There are potentially two others at the moment.
Like all things, you get out of this site what you put into it. Quality experiences require some investment in time, conversation and often: travel.
I'm not traveling for pussy.
exactly ... now think about how desperate someone is who IS willing to travel for it and what is wrong with them
That has not been my experience. Several of my playmates will travel up to two hours to spend time with me. Build a quality foundation and the travel isn't such a big deal.
Now, I am not traveling across country to meet a guy, but if comes to me, we can do dinner.
BUT the bottom line is that you do what you are comfortable with.That has not been my experience. Several of my playmates will travel up to two hours to spend time with me. Build a quality foundation and the travel isn't such a big deal.
Now, I am not traveling across country to meet a guy, but if comes to me, we can do dinner.
I can understand in some areas of the country due to low population density, a couple hrs drive is a min mandatory. or if you've spent some time building an online relationship and a long distance trip is the next logical step. But in my case if a random guy from a major city like atl or nyc or charlotte wants to cross some states to fuck me, I'm like what's wrong with you dude?
I just had a guy hmu from a cl ad I posted yesterday and he was like "I just got into town today" from the middle of the state then a cpl more texts later was like "I was hoping to meet up before I leave today" come to find out he was in town to fix something and married so he had to get home which is why he was so pushy. I told him no. If he's trying to bang me when he's in my town, he's been banging other women in secret when he goes to other cities too. I don't need some strange disease
Yeah, definitely NOT going there. And I require a tedious vetting process. If they stick through that, and want to travel to me, I am happy for them to do so.
But immediately offering to hop on a plane, yeah... That'¢s creepy.
Not with anyone from this site. I have directed a white girl to the site to browse, and we chatted. She is 20, a college student and we have met and fucked. This site gives ladies ideas, training, understanding of how to meet bbc.
I live in the central Texas area of about 1 million people so there's no real reason to spend any money just to fuck. Especially someone I met online
Makes sense. Not everyone lives in that densely populated an area. And I've been told I am worth the drive. ;-)
I hear ya.
I'm not that guy :-/
I'm not that guy :-/
CaliCouple
Couple
My hubby allowed me to come on this site to find a bbc for a one time event. After much looking I found a bull from Ohio that travels out here to So Cal on business. Hubby liked that he wasn't local. Took a lot of convincing that I was real. Finally James and I had our night. It was amazing. Unfortunately for hubby I have now been with James 3 times and anxious for number 4 when he returns in July. Yep I am hooked...lol. So it can happen.
Why's it unfortunate for hubby? You happy and that's all that matters.
New to the site. Had a few conversations but nothing serious yet. I've got to give it more time. Maybe find someone near or in Michigan area
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