Anyone Actually Meet & Play With Someone(s) From the Site

I have met one couple through this site. It was their very first adventure with a Black guy and since getting married so very exciting indeed
 
I'm kinda surprised that more people haven't met here. I realize that this whole "all white girls are born wanting to breed superior black babies" is a bunch of bullshit. Most don't even fantasize about it, let alone wanting to act on it.

But many white couples do swing. And black guys are perceived as more masculine, exotic, and taboo, making them ideal for those with such fantasies.

And yet many couples and individual females still do not want the world to know, regardless of how much support there is for interracial relationships.

Sites like this would seem to provide a place for people to chat, meet up, and keep things sworn to secrecy, rather than being a married or single but from a less approving family/community and flirting with all of the black guys in your hometown.

So while "breeding" and the like may remain pure fantasy, I'm surprised that more people don't actually meet up on sites like this one. What do you guys think?
 
No matter how badly people want it and express their desire online, it's not as easy to meet total strangers in person. And there are flakes and fakes on both sides.
The few who do have an experience? I personally consider myself fortunate. I never take a meeting for granted.

While I have yet to meet a woman/couple from this site, I have meet some AMAZINGLY sexy women from different online forums.:blackgreedy:
 
Not yet.

We're new to the site but not to the lifestyle. Figured we'd give this sit an honest try and sift through the members for some local fun. If it works, great. If not, we'll move on to some other places and old haunts.
 
Tons of fakes, flakes and people here just to fantasize. Nothing wrong with that, but I personally don't like my time being wasted like that by people who don't state their intentions up front. I understand this site is mainly for conversation, but...

What bothers me more than fake accounts are these guys who come here (and other sites like CL) looking for attention or message bulls as if they're actually looking to set something up. When you show interest they tell you "she doesn't know yet" or "I'm trying to get her to do it".

Like seriously dudes stop posting your women up on here (without her permission may I add) as if you're actually about the lifestyle and sending people off for the sole purpose of getting your rocks off. How can letting people know your situation up front be a hassle compared to dragging someone along and having the nerve to want them to have long ass conversations about something the wife/gf has already said "No" to especially knowing you're gonna disappear after you're done jerking off to the convo? I've literally had almost 10 situations like this.

/Rant over

Same thing here..... "black men" who are desirous of anything and EVEN willing to travel from far countries and states just to fuck. Funny thing about all of these "black men" is that EVERY one of them want pictures, and EVERY one of them suddenly disappear when you've told them no.

What's also funny is that the majority of these "black men" are New Members, . .and that their membership isn't long lasting.

It's extremely annoying.
 
Same thing here..... "black men" who are desirous of anything and EVEN willing to travel from far countries and states just to fuck. Funny thing about all of these "black men" is that EVERY one of them want pictures, and EVERY one of them suddenly disappear when you've told them no.
It's extremely annoying.

even MORE annoying is members who live in vicinity of each other yet - for all the reasons in the world- cannot seem to make a meeting happen. But members from thousands of miles away SWEAR they would meet right away 'if only we were closer' lol

I mean, how much easier can it get? i think people just make ******* way more complicated than it needs to be.
 
Tons of fakes, flakes and people here just to fantasize. Nothing wrong with that, but I personally don't like my time being wasted like that by people who don't state their intentions up front. I understand this site is mainly for conversation...
especially knowing you're gonna disappear after you're done jerking off to the convo? I've literally had almost 10 situations like this.
/Rant over

Man, i hear what you are saying but honestly I did NOT come here mainly for conversation.... i actually chose this site because it is SPECIFICALLY for interracial hookups and half-expected to meet like-minded people in person. At least I thought it was. I figured I'd have way more 'adventures' than on a normal website.
 
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even MORE annoying is members who live in vicinity of each other yet - for all the reasons in the world- cannot seem to make a meeting happen. But members from thousands of miles away SWEAR they would meet right away 'if only we were closer' lol

I mean, how much easier can it get? i think people just make ******* way more complicated than it needs to be.


I definitely agree with this. Since getting back in the Houston area, it's been a long shot. In NYC or ATL, my success rate was through the roof. Patience is a virtue, so I'm not going to ******* or rush anything. Hopefully sooner than later, I can meet up with someone at a neutral location from this site.
 
I'm kinda surprised that more people haven't met here. I realize that this whole "all white girls are born wanting to breed superior black babies" is a bunch of bullshit. Most don't even fantasize about it, let alone wanting to act on it.

But many white couples do swing. And black guys are perceived as more masculine, exotic, and taboo, making them ideal for those with such fantasies.

And yet many couples and individual females still do not want the world to know, regardless of how much support there is for interracial relationships.

Sites like this would seem to provide a place for people to chat, meet up, and keep things sworn to secrecy, rather than being a married or single but from a less approving family/community and flirting with all of the black guys in your hometown.

So while "breeding" and the like may remain pure fantasy, I'm surprised that more people don't actually meet up on sites like this one. What do you guys think?
Also might I add, whats wrong with people having fantasys? Doesn't make them fake, people got lives to live and maybe can't fit the freaky ******* they want to do into their life.

Ok, to add-on to this discussion once more and most-likely my last diatribe on this topic as everyone is really going to either love me or Hate me after this post (and please save all your hate-mail cause I got enough to read as it is).

This is going to also serve as sort of a Public Service Announcement (PSA). So everyone should grab a pad and pen, sit-up straight, but relax and take notes for 'here is wisdom, he that hath understanding’ (to quote the Book of Revelations from the Bible).

First off speaking from my own personal experiences and to provide a level of credibility, I’ve now met and played with over several couples now from this site alone three of them I’ve met twice, one called me back the very next day to play again which we did and I’ve met one woman who has become my secret-lover that I see weekly from off here whom I’m going to come back to discussing at the end of this post. I even had 3 couples (2 from here, and 1 not from here) contacted me on the same-day about meeting which I had to do a coin-flip between the three to choose which one to meet.

I’ve talked to almost several other women and couples where situations occurred that prevented us from meeting. Sometimes it was on my-side, sometimes theirs but I never complained nor have they and I still correspond with a few of them not on this site but by personal email and phone even many months after the failed meeting attempts.

I was near @MyLoveyLaurita ’s location some many months ago and we tried to meet but the timing didn’t work out and we still communicate to this day via my gmail account. I didn’t get pissed at them and understood their situation at the time. Same with @Bamagirl, and @TIH whom I appreciated them being patient with what would seem like me flaking out on them and I haven’t seen them complain.

There was only ONE lady on here (who is part of a couple & I won’t out her so don’t ask me about them) that I really put a significant effort in to pursue after we chatted a few times on here, then ironically and funny enough I saw her profile on xhamster, chatted with her hubby more on there than I ever chatted with his wife, and both he and I are confused on what the hell is going on in her head and why we couldn’t make the final arrangement to meet. And it was her I chatted with as she verified on here as a ‘Real Person’ with real face pics on here and hamster both and there were some things as a woman she was taking care of so it wasn’t the hubby or guy faking. Still I didn't complain, thats just how life is and I moved on.

So first off an Announcement for Everyone on this site:

People need to relax with all the complaining about fakes, people fantasizing, not wanting to meet, etc. This is a free website set-up for people to socialize online for FREE. This is not a paid-membership site where anyone paid money to join for the purpose of meeting other people. Therefore because anyone is free to join the site with no requirements you have no way of weeding out the fake and flakes up-front before they get an account. People who join a site where they have to pay using real money wouldn’t be wasting their ‘real’ money to fool around faking and flaking on a website if the purpose of it was to meet. There could be some sadistic rich folk out there who do that, but the average person wouldn’t.

So end all of the complaining on here about people not meeting, who’s real, or who’s not. If you want to meet someone REAL goto a paid site as the odds are much higher that the other members on that site would be real, have more real-pics available, and will REALLY meet.

Second an Announcement for all the Men (mostly my brothers) on this site:

I observe too many men on here who go O.D. (overdose) with sexual perversions (I know its a sex-site but DAM), who seem socially awkward, and AFCs (Average Frustrated Chumps). To see a perfect example of an AFC just watch the comedy show one-time called “The Last Man on Earth” that comes on FOX and how this guy who even being the last man on Earth with 2 women still couldn’t get laid because he is an idiot and doesn’t know how to be genuine or care enough to get a woman to like him. Whats also sad and ironic is that even after both women admitted they are horny, need a man, and that they should repopulate the planet he still sabotages himself from getting laid. I think the show will go and on with him never getting laid, he is just the typical average clueless guy or AFC and I know a lot of women understand what I’m talking about on this cause I recognize it and laugh now too.

In real life you are not going to just walk up to a woman, show her a pic of your cock, and ask her do you want to fuck, or do you like me and want be my girlfriend? Your chances are slim to none on that happening and its no different on here albeit your odds are slightly higher it might work if your cock pics are just that amazing and the chic is that much of a slut but I digress. :blackgrimace: Many guys are just hoping that it is easier on here were they don’t have to go through the anxiety of approaching a woman in real-life since they are already frustrated in the real-world on meeting women to have sex with. I have also heard complaints from couples and women that a lot of guys are way too rude, non-respectful, and egomaniacs. I can’t really help you guys on the manners part as that is something your parents should have taught you and if you don’t have it now you probably never will get it either. On the Ego part I’m guilty of it too, yeah I got a big cock, I get told all the time I got a big-one, the thing is like a hot-commodity women/couples are demanding and it makes my head-big but to err is human and we all have ego’s and IDs we have to confront and handle but I won’t go all 'Sigmund Freud' on you at this moment (I'll save that for another post another time).

To help you fellas out, stop interfacing just through the silicon computer chips, and copper wires of the internet and learn how to interact socially with a real woman in the flesh and *******. Yes learn dammit. It can be done and it is also done partly through trial and error and not being afraid to make mistakes as you learn from all those mistakes. Learn the successes and mistakes of other men too. Develop a sense of humor, read some Cosmo, and other chic magazines (at your local grocery store as I never buy the rubbish) and find out what women like, what they want from men, relationships, and what they think about. Then search your local papers & websites for announcements on events where single women will congregate, get yourselves cleaned up and groomed, couldn’t hurt to stop drinking soda to drop some extra-weight, and ask another woman about your dress and hair style. Then go out and approach and interact using some of that ******* from Cosmo/chic mags and everywhere else. Then use all of what you learned on what to do and not to do going forward. Learn how to engage women and hold a conversation.

This ******* will take you a long way, and you may not even need to come back on here. I have applied all of those recommendations and it has made me successful to where when I do meet the woman/couple face to face I am able to consummate the deal. If you can socially interact better on an internet website in a non-perverted and not as socially awkward manner, your chances will go up dramatically. And provide some additional pictures of yourselves like better body-shots or of furry-animals besides just close-ups of your dicks would help too.

Third, last but certainly not least an Announcement to all of the women (all races except Black cause this would not apply to them), white men, and couples on this site:

I have seen a few posts before from people on this site discussing about this topic but it didn’t really hit home with me until I read something by my brother @Splitter posted on here a few days ago[1] and then my secret-lover who’ve I met via this site here made a statement about this to me just the other night. My secret-lover who is a married white woman said she left this site (account no longer exists) because it disgusted her. One thing she said to me was that she understood who I said I was, what I was going to do, and what I thought I had to do because I think I am the BigBlackBull. She has repeatedly expressed that she has issues with it but so long as I am good and respectful to her she did not care about the other aspects of what I may do. But she has also expressed and emphasized to me on more than one occasion that I am MUCH more than just the BigBlackBull or a BBC. She said she has never-ever met anyone Black or white like me (and not talking about just in the bed or my physical anatomy), and that I could easily be remembered as some significant figure immortalized in world history for who I am and the impact I have as a person in the real-world. She said I should not be objectified or just looked at as a sexual object and that was one out of many things that she does not like nor understood why I put up with it as well. With her words and what I have read a few other brothers write and express they hit me like a one-two punch from Pacquiao or Mayweather.

They were, and are all right. Instead of the 1-2 combo putting my lights out and having my bell rung it actually opened my eyes to see the light instead. Blackmen with their amazing BBC (BigBlackCocks) are much much more than just a BBC or something to be just objectified. Remember that they (Black Men), we, ‘I’ are much more than a sexual toy to play with on occasions and then put away like your vibrator in the drawer or your car in the garage. First see and refer to them as Beautiful Black Men (BBM), Black Male Studs (BMS) or whatever else you want to come up with and second that they have a BBC that you enjoy experiencing. But remember not to objectify them.

And as Bob Marley, and Michael Jackson two BBMs (before one decided to go white) sung the beautiful lyrics “…this is my message to you."


/PSA/diatribe/Gettysburg Address/my last 'Will and Testament' I leave you with on this topic as I have nothing left to offer or say since I put it all out there. In the end everyone wants the same 3 Pieces/Peaces in life to be happy; a Peace of mind, a piece of food for their stomachs, and a piece of ass but having 2 out of 3 is not bad either so I'll take the Peace of mind, and piece of food to sustain my life with. The last piece is not as significant to be happy or sustains one life.

Peace be unto you all.

~BBB76

Reference:
[1] https://www.blacktowhite.net/threads/does-fantasy-stack-up-with-reality.40315/page-3#post-687755
 
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