An Essay on Words

What words do you prefer to describe women who love IR

  • Total voters
    23
  • Poll closed .
Mariposa blanca said:
Hi Jill,

Was already thinking of tackling something along those lines in the future for my blog, examine things from both extremes, so to speak. :)

But, then again, maybe I should let someone else tackle it. Maybe OSP should start a blog himself?
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"One good turn deserves another", heh Mari? ;)
 
This touches on subject that I have always taken issue with and that is the bastardization of words.

Cunt, cocksucker, slut- all perfectly good words which happen to perfectly describe the the most desirable, pleasurable things in the world. The very things the majority of men pursue most of their lives.

So why the fuck do we use them as derogatory, curse words to degrade those we dislike?
Why call someone that annoys you a cunt, which is one of the most delicious, enjoyable, pleasure giving creations in the universe, in fact the very portal of life itself?

Slut is something a person should aspire to become sexually as it denotes a level of accomplishment and freedom of spirit in giving of oneself to another in shared sexual joy. It should be a term of endearment, not disdain.

Cocksucker? PLEASE! What man doesn't appreciate a truly talented cocksucker? Fellatio is a wonderful form of sex, really great fellatio is an ART! Anyone who makes the effort to learn how to give this pleasure to those fortunate enough to receive that gift, should be celebrated, not reviled.

Part of our problem isn't the words, but how we utilize them. If you look at the poll at this point in time, the interesting thing is that ALL of the terms, EXCEPT the word BITCH, have been chosen by various people as terms they would use. Obviously, many consider "slut" to be an acceptable term long with the other more conservative labels. However, BITCH, so far seems to have a sufficiently negative connotation as to be considered as offensive by all who have responded thus far.

So apparently, we have terms which are always perceived as negative and others that, because they've at some point in time been misused, might be considered derogatory depending on how they are used. This is unfortunate as these beautiful words should never have been sullied by man's foolishness.

Cunt. What a perfect word. Just saying it starts the mouth to salivate with the memory of it's succulent,
salty/sweet juicy deliciousness. The soft, warm wet folds that envelope a man and provide him the most intimate of massages with it's constantly morphing textures: rippled, smooth, soft, firm - pulsating, grasping his most sensitive treasured possession and creating within it the exquisite sensations that can for a moment make him feel the infinite power of the universe coursing through his being. Milking from him his contribution to the essence of life which can only find it's ultimate value when claimed as it's prize by the very core of womanhood: her cunt. There is no better word for it.

Vagina. OK, but it ... lacks ... something. It's just a tad too clinical to excite the senses.

Pussy. Sorry, but the image of a fur ball that eats mice or has tuna breath, licks itself and hisses, claws and scratches doesn't do anything to get my dick hard.

Quim, quiff, cunnie, trim, twat, box, snatch, cooter, cooz, coochie, slit, gash, muff, puss, beaver, kitty, vag, poon, poontang, hair pie, fur pie, bearded clam, nether parts, girly bits, privates, VAH JAY JAY???? ...:eek: REALLY??? VAH JAY JAY!!! PULEEEASE!!!! :frantic:

Love tunnel, sugar walls, honey pot- mmm, OK, these last three sound ... tasty, but they still are ... vague.

Please. Just restore it's dignity. Revere it. It is and should rightly be: cunt.

To be called a cunt should be considered only the highest of compliments as there is nothing more perfect or valuable. Slut and cocksucker are close, but cunt reigns supreme.

Isn't it the reason we are all here? Isn't it what we desire to gift or be gifted?

Now I need to see what my Wife would enjoy for dinner and hope she treats me to ... dessert! ;):)
 
I am new(less than 1 year)in cuckolding. I was taught cuckolding not by my wife, but by a very incredible woman who is in a IR cuckold relationship of her own. I have the upmost respect for her, I would never even think to use a derogatory word to describe or address her, only words of praise and admiration.
 
OldSchoolPlayer25 said:
An Essay on Words..Recently one of the couples on blacktowhite.net (CuckoldCouple) posted a thread called Evocative Images. All the pics posted were of great quality showing Interracial couples in various stages of lovemaking and sex. One of the responders used the word ‘sluts’ in his response to the pics. It was inappropriate and reflected a limited view of women.

Black to White has been an interesting web site, and has started to evolve into something more then just amateur porn viewing and posting of pics. It appears to be actually growing up, in the sense that the thrust and general level of content and discourse has started to rise above the level of just so-called ‘trash talk’.

Having been watching and reading the posts, I have come away impressed with the intelligence and awareness of the folks who are regulars on the site. In addition, one Member (Mariposa Blanca) has taken the time to start a blog for folks new to the lifestyle, and is trying to give them a comfort level above the more commercial porn sites. BtW is actually becoming adult.

With that observation, I am wondering if it is time to think about modifying our language in the description of the women. We appear to have more women and couples who are joining and looking forward to interaction on an adult IR platform. I fully recognize that all of us come from different experiences, belief systems and backgrounds. The one constant is the fact that when a woman chooses to share her body with a man, whether he be Black or White or whatever, she has provided a gift to him that cannot be duplicated.

The question being raised...is it time for the Brothers of Beta Beta Chi to modify their language on the public threads and forums and stop describing the women as ‘sluts’ , bitches, or cum buckets? This is not an effort to censor the trash talk done between a man and a woman who is chatting with him on the forum, but more to think twice in our descriptions of women who have various levels of interaction with IR and significant differences in how they share their gifts. Yes, there are women who enjoy the so-called “over the top” experience, and they have made that choice to explore their sexuality to the limit with numerous groups in various settings. There are others who are more conservative and wish to only share their gifts with one man or maybe a second. Lastly, there is the woman who, with her husband’s approval, shares her gifts willingly, but also on her terms and conditions. In no way should the men of Beta Beta Chi denigrate or degrade them in any way on the forums or threads. What is done between a BBC and the lady in private is their own form of play and no questions there.

So members, male and female, please feel free to comment or respond. The above essay is only being posed as a rhetorical question. As we grow in numbers and attract more adults and couples, which should be our goal, we might want to think about how we men of Beta Beta Chi are being perceived, if the only form of communication we use is to refer to our female members or newbies as ‘sluts’ or bitches.


OldSchoolPlayer25
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OSP, as always, a truly well-spoken and thought out post. My vote? I know it is old fashoined of me. But call them what they are, unless they prefer something else. Call them ladies.
 
willsrvu said:
This touches on subject that I have always taken issue with and that is the bastardization of words.

Cunt, cocksucker, slut- all perfectly good words which happen to perfectly describe the the most desirable, pleasurable things in the world. The very things the majority of men pursue most of their lives.

So why the fuck do we use them as derogatory, curse words to degrade those we dislike?
Why call someone that annoys you a cunt, which is one of the most delicious, enjoyable, pleasure giving creations in the universe, in fact the very portal of life itself?

Slut is something a person should aspire to become sexually as it denotes a level of accomplishment and freedom of spirit in giving of oneself to another in shared sexual joy. It should be a term of endearment, not disdain.

Cocksucker? PLEASE! What man doesn't appreciate a truly talented cocksucker? Fellatio is a wonderful form of sex, really great fellatio is an ART! Anyone who makes the effort to learn how to give this pleasure to those fortunate enough to receive that gift, should be celebrated, not reviled.

Part of our problem isn't the words, but how we utilize them. If you look at the poll at this point in time, the interesting thing is that ALL of the terms, EXCEPT the word BITCH, have been chosen by various people as terms they would use. Obviously, many consider "slut" to be an acceptable term long with the other more conservative labels. However, BITCH, so far seems to have a sufficiently negative connotation as to be considered as offensive by all who have responded thus far.

So apparently, we have terms which are always perceived as negative and others that, because they've at some point in time been misused, might be considered derogatory depending on how they are used. This is unfortunate as these beautiful words should never have been sullied by man's foolishness.

Cunt. What a perfect word. Just saying it starts the mouth to salivate with the memory of it's succulent,
salty/sweet juicy deliciousness. The soft, warm wet folds that envelope a man and provide him the most intimate of massages with it's constantly morphing textures: rippled, smooth, soft, firm - pulsating, grasping his most sensitive treasured possession and creating within it the exquisite sensations that can for a moment make him feel the infinite power of the universe coursing through his being. Milking from him his contribution to the essence of life which can only find it's ultimate value when claimed as it's prize by the very core of womanhood: her cunt. There is no better word for it.

Vagina. OK, but it ... lacks ... something. It's just a tad too clinical to excite the senses.

Pussy. Sorry, but the image of a fur ball that eats mice or has tuna breath, licks itself and hisses, claws and scratches doesn't do anything to get my dick hard.

Quim, quiff, cunnie, trim, twat, box, snatch, cooter, cooz, coochie, slit, gash, muff, puss, beaver, kitty, vag, poon, poontang, hair pie, fur pie, bearded clam, nether parts, girly bits, privates, VAH JAY JAY???? ...:eek: REALLY??? VAH JAY JAY!!! PULEEEASE!!!! :frantic:

Love tunnel, sugar walls, honey pot- mmm, OK, these last three sound ... tasty, but they still are ... vague.

Please. Just restore it's dignity. Revere it. It is and should rightly be: cunt.

To be called a cunt should be considered only the highest of compliments as there is nothing more perfect or valuable. Slut and cocksucker are close, but cunt reigns supreme.

Isn't it the reason we are all here? Isn't it what we desire to gift or be gifted?

Now I need to see what my Wife would enjoy for dinner and hope she treats me to ... dessert! ;):)
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Will? Crawl back in your hole! lol
 
i agree with many of the points made, and respect is the key. What ever reason that brings you to this site, your only going to get what you seek out of it by being respectful to the other party. At times i am not comfortable with how some men refer to women , but the same goes on how some women and couples refer to men. We don't want to be treated like a piece of meat publicly, (privately its your own ball game). When it comes to the language we use, i feel that some of the words transform slightly when used in this form. Words like slut, cunt, bull, etc... are not negatives here. But in our everyday real world we couldn't use them with out there being a issue
 
oak607 said:
i agree with many of the points made, and respect is the key. What ever reason that brings you to this site, your only going to get what you seek out of it by being respectful to the other party. At times i am not comfortable with how some men refer to women , but the same goes on how some women and couples refer to men. We don't want to be treated like a piece of meat publicly, (privately its your own ball game). When it comes to the language we use, i feel that some of the words transform slightly when used in this form. Words like slut, cunt, bull, etc... are not negatives here. But in our everyday real world we couldn't use them with out there being a issue
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I totally agree! That's why I insist on there being a connection. Just as I am so much more than my boobs and pussy, the guy is more than his cock. The most recent guy I've been with has really enjoyed our connection, has said it's not something he's used to. Most of the time, he's just "the black cock". And he is so much more than that.
 
Mariposa blanca said:
I totally agree! That's why I insist on there being a connection. Just as I am so much more than my boobs and pussy, the guy is more than his cock. The most recent guy I've been with has really enjoyed our connection, has said it's not something he's used to. Most of the time, he's just "the black cock". And he is so much more than that.
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Thank you.... well put!!!! So many people don't see that on this site... And it's kind of rude, and offensive to one's character. I think that's one of the reason people here have not found what he/she is looking for, or made a connection. Men and women here are not animals, or some type of car your in the market for. I thought this site was for interracial relations, or interactions. But for most part there is still some racism! tical27.
 
I hear ya Dutchmaster and Mariposa Blanca. And those who come off rude will most likely not make a connection and will not use the site in much over time. If there is anything to get out of being on this site is to learn for each other.
 
willsrvu said:
This touches on subject that I have always taken issue with and that is the bastardization of words.

Cunt, cocksucker, slut- all perfectly good words which happen to perfectly describe the the most desirable, pleasurable things in the world. The very things the majority of men pursue most of their lives.

So why the fuck do we use them as derogatory, curse words to degrade those we dislike?
Why call someone that annoys you a cunt, which is one of the most delicious, enjoyable, pleasure giving creations in the universe, in fact the very portal of life itself?

Slut is something a person should aspire to become sexually as it denotes a level of accomplishment and freedom of spirit in giving of oneself to another in shared sexual joy. It should be a term of endearment, not disdain.

Cocksucker? PLEASE! What man doesn't appreciate a truly talented cocksucker? Fellatio is a wonderful form of sex, really great fellatio is an ART! Anyone who makes the effort to learn how to give this pleasure to those fortunate enough to receive that gift, should be celebrated, not reviled.

Part of our problem isn't the words, but how we utilize them. If you look at the poll at this point in time, the interesting thing is that ALL of the terms, EXCEPT the word BITCH, have been chosen by various people as terms they would use. Obviously, many consider "slut" to be an acceptable term long with the other more conservative labels. However, BITCH, so far seems to have a sufficiently negative connotation as to be considered as offensive by all who have responded thus far.

So apparently, we have terms which are always perceived as negative and others that, because they've at some point in time been misused, might be considered derogatory depending on how they are used. This is unfortunate as these beautiful words should never have been sullied by man's foolishness.

Cunt. What a perfect word. Just saying it starts the mouth to salivate with the memory of it's succulent,
salty/sweet juicy deliciousness. The soft, warm wet folds that envelope a man and provide him the most intimate of massages with it's constantly morphing textures: rippled, smooth, soft, firm - pulsating, grasping his most sensitive treasured possession and creating within it the exquisite sensations that can for a moment make him feel the infinite power of the universe coursing through his being. Milking from him his contribution to the essence of life which can only find it's ultimate value when claimed as it's prize by the very core of womanhood: her cunt. There is no better word for it.

Vagina. OK, but it ... lacks ... something. It's just a tad too clinical to excite the senses.

Pussy. Sorry, but the image of a fur ball that eats mice or has tuna breath, licks itself and hisses, claws and scratches doesn't do anything to get my dick hard.

Quim, quiff, cunnie, trim, twat, box, snatch, cooter, cooz, coochie, slit, gash, muff, puss, beaver, kitty, vag, poon, poontang, hair pie, fur pie, bearded clam, nether parts, girly bits, privates, VAH JAY JAY???? ...:eek: REALLY??? VAH JAY JAY!!! PULEEEASE!!!! :frantic:

Love tunnel, sugar walls, honey pot- mmm, OK, these last three sound ... tasty, but they still are ... vague.

Please. Just restore it's dignity. Revere it. It is and should rightly be: cunt.

To be called a cunt should be considered only the highest of compliments as there is nothing more perfect or valuable. Slut and cocksucker are close, but cunt reigns supreme.

Isn't it the reason we are all here? Isn't it what we desire to gift or be gifted?

Now I need to see what my Wife would enjoy for dinner and hope she treats me to ... dessert! ;):)
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My goodness, all the semantics on calling the pussy a sexy term, I've had incredible success calling the vagina a "cup" to a womman either in my vignettes, notes or letters and when the woman hears, reads my use of this term they are pleased!

Simple! ?
 
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