Real vs Fantasy

[Hotwifewhisper]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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[Youngnewbie23]

Hello. Just a simple question. How should I start my journey if we call it that?

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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I have so many more things to add based on the last few days on here..... seriously some guys

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

Hello. Just a simple question. How should I start my journey if we call it that?

Work out what you actually want to achieve in the lifestyle and what is driving the desire. Actually understanding that is the best place to start. Alot of fantasies are just a way for alot of people to get off , turning into reality is a different story.

 

[Youngnewbie23]

Work out what you actually want to achieve in the lifestyle and what is driving the desire. Actually understanding that is the best place to start. Alot of fantasies are just a way for alot of people to get off , turning into reality is a different story.

I get that. And to be clear I've had threesomes before. But idk how to explain it. I feel like it could have been more exciting.. like it was missing an certain element if that makes sense

 

[BDG69]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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Very well said….

 

[Idowives0763]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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Great post.

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

Great post.

Thanks hun . Appreciate the support

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

Very well said….

Thanks babe

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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GREAT POST !!! Lack of effort whether it be a dick pic, no profile or one line phrase ..It is a Red Flag . Too many men are trapped in a Porno World and want it now and unrealistically . We do like to discriminate men with no experience but the truth is each and every session we've had has been a learning experience .

 

[AnnieS]

I’ve said this many times and take heat for it- and that’s fine because if you push back too strongly then you have nothing I am interested in. I go to profile and then media if I’m contacted. If you have neither or no media then the conversation is going to be short. I’ll usually ask for some if I’m interested and if I get no I don’t post media or share it then have a great day. If you are not intrested in seeing if there is a mutual attraction- I assume there is as you messaged me, then I need to see who/what I’m chatting with. You obviously know something about me. I’m not going to jump through hoops if you don’t want to share some basic images. If you don’t want too- cool have a good day. If you are open to sharing some images that we can gauge attraction on? then cool too let’s chat.

 

[NYNJcuckcouple]

I’ve said this many times and take heat for it- and that’s fine because if you push back too strongly then you have nothing I am interested in. I go to profile and then media if I’m contacted. If you have neither or no media then the conversation is going to be short. I’ll usually ask for some if I’m interested and if I get no I don’t post media or sent it then have a great day. If you are not intrested in seeing if there is a mutual attraction- I assume there is as you messaged me, then I need to see who/what I’m chatting with. You obviously know something about me. I’m not going to jump through hoops if you don’t want to share some basic images. If you don’t want too- cool have a good day. If you are open to sharing some images that we can gauge attraction on then cool too let’s chat.

My Lady was very excited when we first started at the prospect of what was out there ...And now she is so turned off by the hoards of game players . I vet for her now and the field is so baron as far as coming across that right one . The few We've met have gone so smoothly . They were real and put in the effort .

 

[AnnieS]

My Lady was very excited when we first started at the prospect of what was out there ...And now she is so turned off by the hoards of game players . I vet for her now and the field is so baron as far as coming across that right one . The few We've met have gone so smoothly . They were real and put in the effort .

I’ve not had that issue but with some basic homework things can be very smooth.

 

[RicciD]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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EXCELLENT suggestions, to be ignored by every jack off idiot on here but EXCELLENT suggestions. J (the wife)

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

EXCELLENT suggestions, to be ignored by every jack off idiot on here but EXCELLENT suggestions. J (the wife)

so true

 

[AnnoDomini247]

 

[Dmen342]

Hi sexy peeps,

Just some observations from a real hot wife and a newbie to the site.

As an active hotwife I understand that every person , couple , bull is at a different position in the journey of the lifestyle. I totally understand and respect that.

Just some advice if your going to message me or any active hotwife or reach out via one of the threads to any active hotwife , couple or bull make sure you
1. Post your OWN media - this is important because it helps us understand what level of the journey your on and what your level of experience is. It's not nice to send a dick pic so start a thread, introduce yourself and your ability.
2. When someone contacts me I search through the profile if there is no media that's a flag, if they don't post themselves on other threads that is another flag.
3. Always be polite and respectful I know alot of guys want to sex chat but that is not for everyone , if you find a female or couple that is in the mood to chat and sext that's awesome.
4. The reality of the lifestyle can be very different to fantasy and what you see in porn and OF. Research is your friend.

enjoy the sexy fun peeps
Xxx
Hotwifewhisperer

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Good advice for beginners

 

[Hotwifewhisper]

Good advice for beginners

Thanks

 

[AnnieS]

Well said